X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN


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WHAT'S INSIDE:   The way to NOT get "used" by an opportunistic
women is not all that complicated...but you have to KNOW the warning
signs...

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MORE ON HOW TO AVOID BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY WOMEN


Here's a note that a guy named Trevor wrote to me in response to
yesterday's newsletter.

You'll recall that I talked about how women sometimes ask guys
they're not really so interested in out on dates...just so the guy
can pay her way, etc.



  Hey Scot,

  Something like this happened to me.  I asked a girl out to a movie.
  At the "last minute" she invited 2 friends. 

  At the time, I didn't see anything wrong with it.  (What an idiot.)
  She barely showed any interest in talking to me the whole time.
  I was the one asking questions.  When I would stop asking, she
  would stop talking. 

  Of course at the time, I was a confused wuss.  Obviously, she was
  only interested in me paying. 

  Literally, a couple days later, she says she's engaged.  I suspect
  she was already with the guy and only agreed to go out with me to
  "be nice"  (UGH).
 
  Anyways, I'm not going to have tunnel vision anymore. 

  In fact, the more I "test" girls to see if they are good enough,
  the more they want to spend time with me, and flirt...and other
  things. 

  They say things like, "What are you doing this weekend?"  "Do you
  have a girlfriend?"


  Trevor (Parts Unknown)



Rock on, Trevor.   Way to be a CHOOSER instead of a CHASER from now
on.

By the way, I agree it's a safe guess that she was already dating
that other guy if she was ENGAGED to him a couple of days later
(assuming she wasn't just using that as a convenient excuse). 

Let's just say that if she IS engaged and still letting other guys
pay her way to things, better HIM than YOU. 

Someone else Facebooked me yesterday and asked me how to respond if
and when we actually do find ourselves in such a situation as I
described yesterday.

Well, to be sure, as long as you have your own car or access to
public transportation YOU have the power to say "enough" at any
given moment and pull the plug.
 
You can tell her you have to go home and rearrange your sock
drawer...after you groom your hairless terrier.

(And by the way, score one there for NOT allowing a woman to pick
you up in her car for a date if you expect to be the MAN in control
of the plan for the evening, right?  Otherwise you're stuck in the
situation...or stranded.)

Ultimately, though, how to GET OUT of such a situation is beside
the point.

The key is to KNOW the "warning signs" I gave you yesterday that a
woman is setting you up for a frustrating, expensive evening and
you'll ALWAYS AVOID the problem altogether.

And I've got news for you. 

What we're talking about here is a SHINING example of EXACTLY the
kind of simple secret that the guys who are the BEST ON EARTH at
attracting high quality women ALREADY KNOW that most other "normal"
guys DON'T.

Sure, the signs are EASY to spot, but the thing is most of us
either DON'T RECOGNIZE them or DON'T PAY ATTENTION to them.

But when you DO have that extra layer of wisdom and skill, you WIN
with women.

Considering that's precisely what my brand new program The
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It's simple:  When you know what other guys DON'T KNOW, you can do
what other guys CAN'T DO.

Trevor has already started to figure that out.  From now on he'll
be in control of his dating life rather than allowing himself to
get taken advantage of.

Suffice it to say that the guys who are the very best in the world
with women would NEVER end up on a "date" with a woman, her sister,
her 4-year-old nephew and some other chick...let alone pay for
everything.

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Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  Next time we'll talk about some more situations where you
should trust your "gut feeling" when it comes to women rather than
simply going with the flow and "hoping" for the best.  Stay tuned.


P.P.S.  If you missed yesterday's newsletter and can't find it in
your inbox, you can still find it at the Facebook page:



http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily

 


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