X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN


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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Are you really "reaching for the stars" as much as
you can when it comes to success with women...or deep down are you
perfectly okay with "settling"? 

Well...if the subject line of this newsletter compelled you to open it,
I can already tell you that today's message is for YOU.

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TWO OPEN SPOTS


At this very moment I have TWO openings in my Ten-Plus 1-on-1
coaching program.

As you know, this is for guys who want to go from where they are
today with women to where they want to be...all in the shortest
amount of time possible.

Every individual program is fully customized to the needs of the
individuals.  There are no "cookie cutters".

It's called "Ten-Plus" in part because you get ten full-length
sessions with me PLUS a complete planning session AND the ability
to ask your questions any time via phone or e-mail.

Based on what I've seen, guys come out of a Ten-Plus experience
well on their way to being the ABSOLUTE BEST version of their
authentic selves.

That tends to make them a "10+" in the eyes of high quality women.
As you can see, "Ten-Plus" is the perfect name for such a powerful
coaching program.

Only guys who are done with settling for mediocre women need apply.
 
You've got to be of sound mind and 100% READY to plow through any
and all obstacles currently standing between you and the woman of
your dreams.
 
And remarkably, getting all of that 1-on-1 attention squarely
focused on eliminating YOUR sticking points and promoting YOUR
success with women still costs less than most pickup bootcamps.

If you know deep down that Ten-Plus could be where you achieve YOUR
major breakthrough, then e-mail me and tell me your story:



scot@deservewhatyouwant.com



I'll respond to you personally, and schedule a brief phone
conversation to make sure Ten-Plus is a good fit.

These two open spots will fill up fast, so I encourage you to write
me as soon as you can.

And now, let's get on to today's newsletter.

What follows packs a powerful message to be sure, but it also
offers a cool opportunity to see a bit farther into what a Ten-Plus
experience is all about.  Enjoy.



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AIM HIGHER


There's a particularly strange challenge I tend to face as a dating
coach. 

No, it's not helping guys get over approach anxiety.  It's not how
to get a woman's number.  It's not even how to initiate getting
physical with a woman.

It's none of those "typical" things at all.  In fact, it's not only
a flat-out bizarre challenge, it's probably the single BIGGEST one
I face on a daily basis.

What is it?

Simply put, I have a seriously difficult time around here getting a
lot of guys to even believe what we talk about at X & Y
Communications is possible--let alone something that the "average
guy" can attain.

Now granted, we prefer to talk about the highest echelon of women
on Earth rather than how to attract just any woman who can fog a
mirror.

And in a world of quick fixes and immediate gratification, I can
understand how the bar usually isn't set very high.

And hey, it wasn't all that long ago that I was relating 1000% to
the concept that ANY woman in my life was better than NO women.

But here's the thing.

When I talk about how getting guys to aim high in their quest for
success with great women is a challenge, I mean that virtually zero
guys are committed to it.  A precious few, at best.

Even among my Ten-Plus guys--who have put me to work for them
expressly because they want to go from good to great--I have a
downright odd problem.  Guys get through session number five or six
out of ten...and they disappear on me.

Don't get me wrong, I've still never issued even one penny back to
a customer for "quality control" reasons.  These guys definitely
don't want their money back.

It's just that they usually start to get results like they've never
seen before relatively quickly...and it overwhelms them.

It's almost as if there's a "comfort zone" of success that we find
"believable" as guys.  It's sort of like we find ourselves with the
kind of woman who isn't exactly what we dream of, but who is better
than who we've been able to attract in the past...and we hold our
cards.

But my vision for every single guy I meet is invariably much
loftier than that.  Maybe it's because I've seen the proverbial
"light at the end of the tunnel" myself   and walked through it.
So I KNOW what guys JUST LIKE YOU are truly capable of.

So is "average" success with women really good enough for the
"average" guy?

It shouldn't be.

Perhaps counter-intuitively, some of the world's sharpest women are
the ones who have the HARDEST TIME finding the right guy to be with.

Sure, maybe they're smart as a whip and/or financially successful.
This can be intimidating to all but 1% of all guys out there...max.
I get that.

But what of the beautiful women with strong character and kind
hearts who are going dateless?

Who is going to step up to the plate and be the man they crave?

Here's a hint:  It's likely not to be a self-absorbed "pretty boy"
who is obsessed over his looks and sees no reason to work on his
character.

Think about it...why would a woman of high character go there?

And how about this?   Did you know that there is a high percentage
of beautiful women out there who refuse (and may even fear) dating
men who are better looking than they are?

Seriously...she doesn't want to be upstaged.  She'd rather be
appreciated.

Finally, considering how many guys already suffer from
garden-variety approach anxiety out there, you've got to believe
it's going to be an infinitesimal minority of guys who are going to
dare approach a woman with the "whole package" working. 

And no..."hit and run" shots like, "You look nice today!" while
hurrying past don't count.

The vast majority of guys disqualify themselves without ever even
trying. 

Therefore, you've got sharp but dateless women out there.

Simply put, the greatest women out there want a man who does the
best with what he's got in every respect. 

Your masculinity, your ability to cause a woman to feel secure in
your presence, a decent sense of style, and the confidence that
packages it all up spell A-T-T-R-A-C-T-I-O-N to great women. 

Combine that with true character and integrity and you just might
be unstoppable.

And here's the thing:  NOT one aspect of your potentially maximized
self that I just delineated is outside of your direct control.

You CHOOSE to be that man. 

Either that, or by not stepping up to the challenge you inherently
choose by NOT choosing anything...other than sustained mediocrity.

Many years ago a Presbyterian preacher named Bruce Thielemann
referred to those coddled masses who embrace the easier path to
mediocrity as "The Legions Of The Unjazzed".

I've yet to encounter a more poignant description of the human
condition anywhere.

So what's it going to be? 

Aim high.  Deserve What You Want.  And if you choose to do so, I've
got your back all the way. 


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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