[X&Y] Can Your One Night Stand Do THIS?
Published: Thu, 08/18/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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WHAT'S INSIDE: What do you REALLY want from all this "dating
advice" stuff? It's time to be dead honest...once and for all.=====
YOU SHOULD BE FEARLESS BY NOW
I have to say, if I was in my twenties and living in New York City,
I'd probably be going about things the EXACT same way that Nick,
Christian and the other guys at The Social Man are.
If their high-energy urban lifestyle intrigues you AND you believe
in being a "big four" man who attracts high quality women, you'll
LOVE the new Fearless program:
These guys know how to take over a room wherever they go in
Manhattan...and the women stop and take notice.
Raw courage wrapped in a decidedly smooth, urban style tends to
have that powerful effect.
Like I said when I introduced you to Fearless a couple of days ago,
this is the culmination of THREE YEARS of dedication:
Now, all of Nick's secrets are yours at a surprisingly accessible
price.
You'll LOVE The Social Man's cool, easy-going teaching style. It
just makes everything they teach that much simpler to understand.
Heck, what am I saying? You've ALREADY been loving The Social
Man's programs since Unbreakable, and Fearless follows in its
tracks:
Remember, when you claim your copy of Fearless using a link in this
e-mail, send your receipt to me at:
...and tell me in the subject line whether you'd rather me send you
Virtuosity or Online Dating Domination. Whichever you choose,
it's yours f-r-e-e.
The doors are closing on this VERY SOON, so there's no time to
wait. It's time to make a FEARLESS decision...
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CAN YOUR ONE NIGHT STAND DO THIS?
There's a certain irony I've noticed in the world of men's dating
advice these days that amazes me.
And it's this: While most guys, when polled, say they really want
to find a great woman more than anything else, the vast majority of
material I see out there focuses on how to get the quick lay...and
pretty much leaves it at that.
The craziest part? I don't think I'm offering a groundbreaking
announcement here. I think most people--even in the Seduction
Community--know this.
It's like an elephant in the chat room.
All across the fruited plain, guys do a Google search to the effect
of "How do I find a girlfriend?" and end up training to be a pickup
artist.
How does this happen?
Well, the first contributing factor is what I believe to be a major
disconnect between what guys really want and the kind of marketing
that they respond to.
Time and again, it has been proven by the Internet marketing gurus
that certain types of web designs, certain copywriting tactics and
even medium-red Tahoma Bold headlines beginning with "Who Else
Wants To..." are what cause people to buy.
Admittedly, even on my own websites I'm compelled to fall in line
with proven design themes...because they flat-out work.
And likewise, for better or worse, two of the most historically
effective memes in marketing are "sex sells" and "immediate
gratification rules".
Said differently, even if a guy truly wants a great girlfriend,
it's going to be the promise of sex--as soon and as often as
possible--that's going to be what gets his attention first.
Second, it's a matter of what makes the Internet tick in general.
Most of us in this space tend to disclaim what we do as being "for
entertainment purposes only".
Our intentions, of course, are to ensure the kind of legal
protection that makes most of what you see out there branded as
"dating advice" possible.
The wild part is that in many cases...it's the truth. Stuff REALLY
IS "for entertainment purposes only".
Online, one can remain largely anonymous. Therefore, one can
basically say whatever one wants, go wherever one wants and partake
of whatever one wants--all in "stealth mode".
The tremendous but largely underground popularity of Internet porn
sites underscores this concept. People visit in droves, but
usually don't advertise this fact to anyone else.
And while pickup and seduction really isn't exactly porn, it's
still hella more fun to read about, post blogs about and watch
YouTube vids about than stuff like, oh...how to get a great woman in
your life.
But the fact remains: Most guys really, truly want more out of
life than either a "quick and easy lay" or an endless series
thereof.
If you really, truly are convinced that a lifetime of one night
stands is for you, then my guess is that you've already long since
stopped reading this newsletter.
But if you are indeed a guy who honestly envisions complete control
over his dating life, culminating in a successful long-term
relationship with the greatest woman you have ever known, I have a
challenge for you.
And that challenge is this: What are you REALLY, TRULY doing to
proactively make that happen in your life?
Have you been swallowed whole by a world that's purely "for
entertainment purposes" to you, or can you see the light at the end
of the tunnel?
A few years ago around this time I found some rare downtime and
happened to watch the final half hour or so of that year's Open
Championship live from Royal Birkdale, in England.
If you aren't a golfer, the important part here is it's one of the
most prestigious tournaments in the world.
Padraig Harrington played the final few holes of the tournament
brilliantly. When he finally sank that final putt on 18, having
shaken the hands of his worthy competitors, his adoring wife made
her way out to the green, carrying Padraig's second son in her
arms.
She arrived shortly after four-year-old Padraig, Jr, who had
bounded out to his father as soon as he was allowed to and sprang
into his arms--fully trusting that he would be caught.
A moment later, the entire family was in an embrace, surely a world
unto themselves at that point. They were savoring the moment
together.
Padraig, Sr's countenance said it all. He was the happiest man on
Earth.
Yeah, winning the golf tournament--for the second year running, no
less--was a phenomenal feat. But there was no denying that having
those who were most important to him around to share the experience
was what made the victory most satisfying.
Can your one night stand do that?
If not, why not evaluate where your focus is and how satisfied you
are with the progress you are making when it comes to building
real, holistic skills with women that can carry you through a
lifetime of success.
Even if you don't win a major championship anytime soon, becoming a
man who deserves what he wants--and making it happen--is truly it's
own reward.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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