X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN


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WHAT'S INSIDE:   Funny stuff here...but it gets right to the
heart of what confounds the heck out of a LOT of us as guys.

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"SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND YOU"


If you've never seen it before, here's a YouTube video of a
classic Saturday Night Live skit featuring Tom Brady:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtNWkLIHXUs



(You might want to click that pretty quickly, because TV clips
tend to disappear on YouTube.  If it's gone, simply search
'Tom Brady SNL Harassment' and you should find it elsewhere)

Anyway, even though that video is laugh-out-loud hilarious,
one main reason it's so blasted funny is that just about all
of us can relate to it.

No matter what career field we're in, we've all suffered through
"sexual harassment seminars", "sensitivity training", or
something similar under a different name.

And we've been brainwashed by it.

We've been led to believe that women absolutely, positively do
NOT want to be bothered by men...let alone get "hit up on" for
dates, etc.

In my opinion, the mark left on us has an even more profound
effect on keeping us from approaching and meeting women than
"fear of rejection" does.

And while we're avoiding women so as not to "bother" them or
"offend" them, what are most normal, red-blooded women thinking?

You got it:  They're wondering where all the GOOD men went.

Well, we're all over on the other side of the room being "polite".

Here's something to think about.  Most of the WOMEN I've ever
conversed with about "sexual harassment" seminars took them
in stride.  For their part, they were WELL AWARE that such
formalities were there only because a few bad apples tend to
ruin the whole bushel.

It's only US who let ourselves believe after attending them
that we're all universally bad guys for being sexually attracted
to women.

Now to be sure, I'm still convinced that dating women from the
workplace is a BAD IDEA because of the potential complications
involved.

And I'm certainly not advocating being physically aggressive
toward women, having wandering hands, saying rude and shocking
things and/or becoming a stalker.  All of that is REAL harassment
and is what made those ridiculous seminars necessary to begin
with.

BUT...know this.  You are NOT part of the proverbial problem
simply because you are man.  Women still want you to approach
them.  They WANT to meet high quality guys, and they want YOU
to take the lead in making that happen.

You're not creepy, weird or pushy simply because you were born
a heterosexual male.

You're only creepy, weird or pushy if you're creepy, weird or
pushy.  Never forget that.

Have a great weekend, gentlemen.

It's a long one here in The States, so by all means be sure to
get out to the lake or to wherever the party is and meet some
women.  

I've given you tons to work with in these newsletters lately...
so get going!


Be Good,

Scot McKay



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