[X&Y] Because We're BORED...
Published: Wed, 09/07/11
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Are you pretty much bored much of the time? This
could have a profound effect on your relationships with women...in away that goes far beyond what you've been told about in the past.
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YOU ASKED FOR MORE RESOURCES ON SEX...AND YOU'VE GOT IT (ALREADY)
It's by far one of the most frequently mentioned items that's
coming up again and again in the survey responses we've been
getting since yesterday.
You want MORE resources on how to be a better lover.
In other words, you want to enrich your own sexual experience AND
completely satisfy the woman in your life at every level.
Well, let's just say Michael Webb's timing couldn't be more perfect.
Right now he has bundled ALL 21 of his world-class books on sexual
mastery into ONE package:
This has NEVER been done before...and the only reason he's doing it
NOW is to raise some money for a worthy cause.
Included in this jam-packed collection that's literally guaranteed
to improve your sex life at EVERY level are titles like these:
The Virtuoso Lover (in THREE volumes)
Making Love In Unusual Places
Dirty Talk Secrets
Sex She Will Go WILD For
Supreme Stamina
69 Sexy Cocktails
...and my personal favorite, which you've GOT to see to believe:
Sex Around The House
And that's just the beginning. There are 14 MORE where that came
from.
No kidding. If you really felt like Googling 21 different flippin'
web sites, you'd find that each and every one of these valuable
books goes for between $17 and $47 EACH.
What's more, if you DID do all the "heavy lifting" necessary to buy
them all separately, you'd shell out well over $400.
But...for the next few days only, Michaels giving EVERYTHING to you
for just $69 (appropriately enough):
That's 85% off, for those of you keeping score at home.
If an opportunity to gain total sexual mastery in literally EVERY
SINGLE way possible doesn't get you off the couch and onto Mike's
website, I really don't know what it's going to take.
Seriously...you get ALL THE ANSWERS in one neat bundle. And right
now it'll cost far less than the typical price of just one program
from other "sexperts".
Snap this one up before time runs out:
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BECAUSE WE'RE BORED...
By now the concept of women being bored out of their mind in
relationships has become a fixture in modern culture.
And sure, television has lots to do with that.
"Desperate Housewives" has had a long run, and you really can't
surf the cable menu without seeing four or five shows on at night
about rich wives with nothing to do.
But wait a second...if they're so BORED, then why in the world is
that so INTERESTING to so many?
That's a good question. And there's an equally good answer.
In short, women who are BORED tend to create DRAMA for the sake of
having SOMETHING to concern themselves with.
And where is the "low hanging fruit" when it comes to creating said
drama?
You guessed it: in their RELATIONSHIPS.
It's the "relationship drama" that draws hefty viewing audiences.
Now, to be sure, it's unfair to limit this discussion strictly to
non-platonic male/female relationships.
Friends, co-workers and relatives are often drawn into the melee.
But make no mistake about it. BOREDOM foments DRAMA.
So far, you may be thinking I've got a firm grasp on the obvious.
Okay, then. How about if I drop THIS "bomb" on you?
The dynamic I've just described is NOT gender specific.
Yeah, yeah. There's never been a show called "Desperate Husbands",
"Bored NBA Players Who Are Married", or anything like that.
But lookit...you and I have already heard a million times about how
having "an exciting life" is like catnip to women.
That's 100% true. If women are typically so BORED (and they are),
then they really do appreciate when a man takes the LEAD to make
life more exciting for her.
And if you've got something fun and interesting going on, she's
glad to have you introduce her into the mix.
So...it follows logically, then, that if you DO NOT have a very
exciting life, then you MIGHT not have the exact girlfriend you
REALLY want.
The net-net of it? Well, if you're in such a relationship you're
not only "settling", you're probably STILL bored...together.
Wow...this is HEAVY stuff, isn't it?
But it gets more complicated from there.
Don't kid yourself. If you are BORED in this life, you just might
ALSO be creating DRAMA in your relationships in order to generate
some excitement...just like WOMEN are famous for doing.
Hear me out.
If you are BORED at work sitting in a cubicle all day and you have
BORING friends who do nothing but play video games, then you're
going to have to find SOMETHING to occupy your mind.
We as guys tend to REQUIRE that in order to stay sane (at least
relatively speaking).
So if you're not a NASCAR crew chief or building a nuclear
submarine in your garage then your personality might really start
craving the opportunity to take things apart and try to put them
together again.
Some of us as guys go so far as to really enjoy breaking things
intentionally and trying to fix them.
The motorcycle enthusiast, surfer, BMXer, musician and BBQ guy in
me can relate.
It's fun. It's like a puzzle. It's a cool challenge to our
ability to protect and provide, if you think about it. We can
prove we "still got it".
And that's precisely why Emily and I know of at least four couples
who habitually go out of their way to sabotage their respective
relationships, only to patch things up again...and again...and again.
What do all eight people we know who fit that description have in
common?
They're all BORED.
The moral of this story? If you do what it takes to mix in some
fun and fulfilling activities in your life, you have even MORE
reason to believe that's going to have a very positive effect on
your relationships with women...both in the short and the long term.
As always, deserve what you want.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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