[X&Y] The "Secret" Reason Why Interesting Women Are Boring On Dates
Published: Sat, 09/24/11
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WHAT'S INSIDE: You know you can't be BORING on a date with a
woman...so what's HER excuse?=====
THE INFAMOUS "ROADMAP"
I get tons of questions from guys wondering where to start when it
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There are LOTS of them to choose from, for sure.
That's why I worked up this logical flow chart I affectionately
call the "System Roadmap":
This visual representation of the "candy store" has been around for
some time, actually.
And although it was recently updated, it still lacked one major
feature: It wasn't "clickable".
At least until NOW, that is.
I finally figured out a way to get that issue taken care of. Enjoy:
Grab a cold one, take a look and click away.
When you do you'll get a crystal-clear idea of what each book and
program is about and why it appears on the chart where it does.
And there's more good news.
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WHY INTERESTING WOMEN ARE BORING ON DATES
Today I've got Part Two in a three-part series on how to ace first
dates...just in time for Saturday night.
This time I'm going to address the idea of BORING dates.
How many times has it been drilled into your head that you're going
to have to bring some "energy" along when you meet a woman for the
first time?
And how many times have you been told that women LOVE "interesting"
men who provide them with some "excitement"?
A thousand or more times each, I'm sure...or so it seems.
And YET, it's uncanny how often we find ourselves in front of an
utterly stunning woman and SHE'S the one who's about as BORING as
standing in line at the DMV.
What's up with that? What's HER excuse?
I mean, many times when that happens you instinctively sense that
she can't possibly be THAT much of a "bump on a log".
Perhaps not.
I don't want to say it's a "test" per se like is talked about so
often in the Seduction Community, but it would be hard to argue
with someone else who called it exactly that.
What's going on here is she's expecting you to...wait for it...LEAD.
She may even be thinking in her ever-so-feminine thoughts that it's
YOUR job to spark the "excitement". As such, it just wouldn't be
"ladylike" to hijack that LEADERSHIP from you.
Moreover, she's fully expecting to LIKE you rather than reject you,
so she's leaving the door WIDE open for you to seize the
opportunity to IGNITE her femininity.
Remember: Women really DO love a man who "brings the energy".
If and when you man up and do exactly that, it will excite her--even
at the sexual level.
And she knows it.
Add it all up and she's actually being more PATIENT than BORING...at
least in a shocking number of instances.
It's really tragic, then, to respond to her "boring",
stereotypically polite questions, etc. with MORE boredom...as if
"mirroring" her behavior on some sort of ultra-tedious job
interview.
If you fall into that trap, you guessed it...she'll realize you're
BORING. Prepare to visit the "Just Be Friends Zone".
A caveat here. Some women really ARE flat-out boring to be
with...and that's not YOUR problem.
But if you ever find yourself out with someone who you've
previously perceived to be potentially fun to hang out with who
instead appears to be BORING you to tears, I just told you what's
going on.
The irony is that she's BORING because she's ATTRACTED...go figure.
She's giving you the gift of taking the masculine role.
So take the initiative, as a great man should.
If and when a perfectly engaging and vivacious woman leaves the
door open for YOU to lead in setting the right tone of excitement
and energy for your date together, walk through it.
You'll see her "wake up" to the moment right then and there.
As counter-intuitive as this all sounds, I dare you to give it a
try. Most men NEVER figure out what I've just shared with you.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Next time I'll break down for you the IMPORTANT difference
between "having a plan" and "being needy and clingy". Stay tuned...
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