[X&Y] If She's Female, She'll Adore You...If You Can Do THIS
Published: Sat, 07/14/12
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS NEWSLETTER FOR MEN
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IN THIS EDITION: Why is it that some guys just naturally attract
women while other guys feel the need to memorize routines and
resort to any other trick they can find? You want practical
answers, and far be it from me to disappoint.
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THE ABSOLUTE CUTTING EDGE OF TODAY'S DATING WORLD
Hundreds of you guys got in on Adam Gilad's epic State Of
Dating event late last month, and your feedback to me was
unanimously excellent.
What's that you say? You didn't get a chance to take part?
Well, here's something exciting for you, whether you were able
to listen to some of the event or not.
Adam has worked his butt off to produce a fine-tuned "best of"
collection of all the expert content that got the very BEST
reviews from the waves upon waves of guys who listened in.
AND...he's rolled in some extra valuable bonuses that haven't
been offered before anywhere--not during the event or at any
other time, for that matter.
Best of all, he's made it a point to fork over this super-
charged power pack of wisdom for an unprecedented low price:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/stateofdating
I'm honored to say that I "made the cut" and my hour-long
presentation is included for you. Just about everything in
it is all-original, thanks in large part to Adam's terrific
interview skills. He got some eye-brow raising stuff out of me
for sure:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/stateofdating
But there's much, much more there for you...to say the least.
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IN THIS EDITION: Why is it that some guys just naturally attract
women while other guys feel the need to memorize routines and
resort to any other trick they can find? You want practical
answers, and far be it from me to disappoint.
=====
THE ABSOLUTE CUTTING EDGE OF TODAY'S DATING WORLD
Hundreds of you guys got in on Adam Gilad's epic State Of
Dating event late last month, and your feedback to me was
unanimously excellent.
What's that you say? You didn't get a chance to take part?
Well, here's something exciting for you, whether you were able
to listen to some of the event or not.
Adam has worked his butt off to produce a fine-tuned "best of"
collection of all the expert content that got the very BEST
reviews from the waves upon waves of guys who listened in.
AND...he's rolled in some extra valuable bonuses that haven't
been offered before anywhere--not during the event or at any
other time, for that matter.
Best of all, he's made it a point to fork over this super-
charged power pack of wisdom for an unprecedented low price:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/stateofdating
I'm honored to say that I "made the cut" and my hour-long
presentation is included for you. Just about everything in
it is all-original, thanks in large part to Adam's terrific
interview skills. He got some eye-brow raising stuff out of me
for sure:
http://www.scotrecommends.com/stateofdating
But there's much, much more there for you...to say the least.
Wait until you see the quality of the experts and the value
of the bonuses. You'll thank me for this, no doubt.
of the bonuses. You'll thank me for this, no doubt.
Hurry though. For some insane reason Adam's only offering
this for the next 36 hours, and there's a firm deadline.
And now, let's hear from Emilio in New Mexico on this fine
Saturday afternoon...
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS: ANOTHER "HIGH QUALITY PROBLEM"
Scot, how's it going? So this weekend I went on a hike with a
friend and a bunch of her friends (whom I didn't know).
I hit it off amazingly with a girl. Halfway though the hike, one of
the guys refers to her as 'babe' and only then did I realize they
were a couple... I mean, this girl was flirting with me the whole
time up until then.
I even pulled a "Superman" with her by catching her when she'd lost
her balance and was going to take a nasty 50 foot drop. It was, as
you put it, "movie quality" stuff.
So after I realize they're together I give her room and start
hanging out with some of the other people on the trip. But for the
last 1/4 of the hike, she was back--and she'd been the one to come
to me.
Over the last two years I've become the kind of guy with "quality
problems'" such as this one (much of the credit for that goes to
you).
I have options, I'm not desperate, and I don't want to break them
up--that's out of the question. I would, however, like to keep
my foot in the door. Any suggestions?
P.S. You've helped me a bunch over the last year or so. I think
you've answered about 3 or 4 of my emails extensively.
I'd love to actually buy some of your advanced material. What
program would you suggest I look into?
Emilio (Gallup, NM)
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Hello Emilio, and thanks for writing.
Ah yes...a "high quality problem" indeed. Perhaps yours could
arguably be considered the "highest quality problem" possible,
which I'll elaborate upon.
But first things first: You are absolutely correct in not wanting
to break those two up.
To do that would openly demonstrate a distinct lack of character.
Ultimately, lacking character is one of the most POISONOUS ways to
kill your ability to deserve great women. It has a way of catching
up with you, sort of like eating a dozen Krispy Kremes a day for a
few weeks in a row.
Nonetheless, and perhaps ironically, you're going to find that as
you become more and more of the kind of man who represents to women
what they really want you'll see situations like this more and more.
I've been kicking around a certain concept for a while, and it's
one so unique that it's a challenge to make it relatable to most
guys.
Nonetheless, I'm going to share it with you because I think you'll
"get it".
Here we go...
When you become a masculine man who ignites femininity, something
bizarre and at times even flat-out unbelievable happens.
For lack of a more subtle description, EVERYTHING FEMALE starts
loving you.
And this doesn't necessarily have to be an overtly sexual thing.
Girl's moms love you. Grandmas love you. Your two-year old twin
nieces love you. Heck, in my life Emily's DOG (which is female)
even loves me. She's horribly jealous of Emily.
There's just something about MASCULINITY that FEMININITY cannot
resist.
This, among other things, is why little girls need dads.
When my daughter was very young, she'd greet me when I came home
from work by racing to the door and literally leaping upward
into my arms.
With every fiber of her being she trusted that I would catch her...
which I did, every single time.
Given even minimal thought, all of this makes perfect sense. A
REAL MAN brings an aura of safety and protection. He conveys a
sense of order and purpose.
He knows what he believes. And since his character is built on
that solid foundation he is consistent, trustworthy and reliable to
"deploy" with impeccable precision.
Simply put, when a MAN is around women feel real comfort. They
know that things will be "handled".
Fear evaporates. Bitterness and frustration are forgotten.
As such, they feel secure and able to convey the warmth and joy
that they so want the freedom to both enjoy and give away...probably
TO YOU.
And yes...the combination of all those things is also what drives
intense sexual attraction when appropriate...accompanied by the
freedom to express it and new found passion in doing so. Nice.
Therefore, this female friend of yours really couldn't help being
drawn to you.
After all, you consistently demonstrated a textbook example of what
I've described above...even LITERALLY when saving her from a
disastrous misstep.
The "problem" is hers and her boyfriend's, frankly. You are who
you are, and make no apologies. What...were you going to let her
FALL 50'?
Of course not.
And where was her boyfriend when she most needed him, anyway?
Order. Safety. CHARACTER.
You mentioned "Superman", and that's a valid analogy. Women want a
HERO.
You've provided a clear demonstration, and I've now explained the
concept in words that any man can understand.
So as for keeping the door open, don't even worry about it. You
need not act in any "shady" or underhanded way trying to "steal
her" from her boyfriend or something...either directly OR indirectly.
When she breaks up with this guy (which may be sooner than later
now that she can put a finger on what's lacking there) she'll come
find you. There's no need to push the issue.
In the mean time, it sounds to me like you are in complete control
and hold all the options.
Considering where you are, in answer to your request I'd recommend
reading How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life. You'll
enjoy it because you'll relate to it and love how it reads like a
launching pad to unimagined levels of success with women.
You can grab a copy of that when you visit our store:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/store
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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Reading Emilio's story and my response to it, my guess is that you
couldn't help but imagine what it would be like to be in a position
like his.
I mean, come on--with all of the focus on "pickup" and "openers"
elsewhere in the Seduction Community, stories like this serve to
completely flip much of the material you've been reading out there
right over on its side...probably scattering loose papers everywhere,
right?
Seriously. If you are like most guys nowadays, the concept of having
a woman seek out your company first pretty much fries your circuits.
But see, Emilio was able to attract a woman who (unbeknownst to
him) even had her BOYFRIEND with her because he was HER HERO. By
understanding what REAL MASCULINITY is about, the woman was IGNITED.
As I said, she really couldn't help it. Emilio isn't about getting
his jollies by "AMOGing" some guy's girlfriend. But when she
dumps the chump who "failed to deploy" (and rightly so), she'll
know where to find him.
The truth is that the world is SORELY LACKING in men who "get it"
these days. Yet, the great women are STARVING for guys who do.
Can you be that guy?
Can you "unwire" the programming that comes from either "Mr. Nice
Guy" brainwashing OR "dark side" tactics that dehumanize women?
After all, what does a great man want with waffle irons...err
women...who will succumb to such manipulation?
It's time to start getting exactly the HIGH QUALITY women you WANT
MOST in your life. The kind who are feminine, emotionally stable
and happy to offer you unsolicited approval...not to mention sexy
enough to stop traffic.
You do this by DESERVING WHAT YOU WANT. And then, you build upon
that by gaining full understanding of how to attain and manage a
wildly successful dating life where YOU have the power...and the
options.
Forget flowers, candy and "kissing up".
Ramp up a woman's attraction the RIGHT way, with 100% pure
MASCULINE presence...and make women LOVE you for it.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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Saturday afternoon...
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS: ANOTHER "HIGH QUALITY PROBLEM"
Scot, how's it going? So this weekend I went on a hike with a
friend and a bunch of her friends (whom I didn't know).
I hit it off amazingly with a girl. Halfway though the hike, one of
the guys refers to her as 'babe' and only then did I realize they
were a couple... I mean, this girl was flirting with me the whole
time up until then.
I even pulled a "Superman" with her by catching her when she'd lost
her balance and was going to take a nasty 50 foot drop. It was, as
you put it, "movie quality" stuff.
So after I realize they're together I give her room and start
hanging out with some of the other people on the trip. But for the
last 1/4 of the hike, she was back--and she'd been the one to come
to me.
Over the last two years I've become the kind of guy with "quality
problems'" such as this one (much of the credit for that goes to
you).
I have options, I'm not desperate, and I don't want to break them
up--that's out of the question. I would, however, like to keep
my foot in the door. Any suggestions?
P.S. You've helped me a bunch over the last year or so. I think
you've answered about 3 or 4 of my emails extensively.
I'd love to actually buy some of your advanced material. What
program would you suggest I look into?
Emilio (Gallup, NM)
=====
Hello Emilio, and thanks for writing.
Ah yes...a "high quality problem" indeed. Perhaps yours could
arguably be considered the "highest quality problem" possible,
which I'll elaborate upon.
But first things first: You are absolutely correct in not wanting
to break those two up.
To do that would openly demonstrate a distinct lack of character.
Ultimately, lacking character is one of the most POISONOUS ways to
kill your ability to deserve great women. It has a way of catching
up with you, sort of like eating a dozen Krispy Kremes a day for a
few weeks in a row.
Nonetheless, and perhaps ironically, you're going to find that as
you become more and more of the kind of man who represents to women
what they really want you'll see situations like this more and more.
I've been kicking around a certain concept for a while, and it's
one so unique that it's a challenge to make it relatable to most
guys.
Nonetheless, I'm going to share it with you because I think you'll
"get it".
Here we go...
When you become a masculine man who ignites femininity, something
bizarre and at times even flat-out unbelievable happens.
For lack of a more subtle description, EVERYTHING FEMALE starts
loving you.
And this doesn't necessarily have to be an overtly sexual thing.
Girl's moms love you. Grandmas love you. Your two-year old twin
nieces love you. Heck, in my life Emily's DOG (which is female)
even loves me. She's horribly jealous of Emily.
There's just something about MASCULINITY that FEMININITY cannot
resist.
This, among other things, is why little girls need dads.
When my daughter was very young, she'd greet me when I came home
from work by racing to the door and literally leaping upward
into my arms.
With every fiber of her being she trusted that I would catch her...
which I did, every single time.
Given even minimal thought, all of this makes perfect sense. A
REAL MAN brings an aura of safety and protection. He conveys a
sense of order and purpose.
He knows what he believes. And since his character is built on
that solid foundation he is consistent, trustworthy and reliable to
"deploy" with impeccable precision.
Simply put, when a MAN is around women feel real comfort. They
know that things will be "handled".
Fear evaporates. Bitterness and frustration are forgotten.
As such, they feel secure and able to convey the warmth and joy
that they so want the freedom to both enjoy and give away...probably
TO YOU.
And yes...the combination of all those things is also what drives
intense sexual attraction when appropriate...accompanied by the
freedom to express it and new found passion in doing so. Nice.
Therefore, this female friend of yours really couldn't help being
drawn to you.
After all, you consistently demonstrated a textbook example of what
I've described above...even LITERALLY when saving her from a
disastrous misstep.
The "problem" is hers and her boyfriend's, frankly. You are who
you are, and make no apologies. What...were you going to let her
FALL 50'?
Of course not.
And where was her boyfriend when she most needed him, anyway?
Order. Safety. CHARACTER.
You mentioned "Superman", and that's a valid analogy. Women want a
HERO.
You've provided a clear demonstration, and I've now explained the
concept in words that any man can understand.
So as for keeping the door open, don't even worry about it. You
need not act in any "shady" or underhanded way trying to "steal
her" from her boyfriend or something...either directly OR indirectly.
When she breaks up with this guy (which may be sooner than later
now that she can put a finger on what's lacking there) she'll come
find you. There's no need to push the issue.
In the mean time, it sounds to me like you are in complete control
and hold all the options.
Considering where you are, in answer to your request I'd recommend
reading How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life. You'll
enjoy it because you'll relate to it and love how it reads like a
launching pad to unimagined levels of success with women.
You can grab a copy of that when you visit our store:
http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/store
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
Reading Emilio's story and my response to it, my guess is that you
couldn't help but imagine what it would be like to be in a position
like his.
I mean, come on--with all of the focus on "pickup" and "openers"
elsewhere in the Seduction Community, stories like this serve to
completely flip much of the material you've been reading out there
right over on its side...probably scattering loose papers everywhere,
right?
Seriously. If you are like most guys nowadays, the concept of having
a woman seek out your company first pretty much fries your circuits.
But see, Emilio was able to attract a woman who (unbeknownst to
him) even had her BOYFRIEND with her because he was HER HERO. By
understanding what REAL MASCULINITY is about, the woman was IGNITED.
As I said, she really couldn't help it. Emilio isn't about getting
his jollies by "AMOGing" some guy's girlfriend. But when she
dumps the chump who "failed to deploy" (and rightly so), she'll
know where to find him.
The truth is that the world is SORELY LACKING in men who "get it"
these days. Yet, the great women are STARVING for guys who do.
Can you be that guy?
Can you "unwire" the programming that comes from either "Mr. Nice
Guy" brainwashing OR "dark side" tactics that dehumanize women?
After all, what does a great man want with waffle irons...err
women...who will succumb to such manipulation?
It's time to start getting exactly the HIGH QUALITY women you WANT
MOST in your life. The kind who are feminine, emotionally stable
and happy to offer you unsolicited approval...not to mention sexy
enough to stop traffic.
You do this by DESERVING WHAT YOU WANT. And then, you build upon
that by gaining full understanding of how to attain and manage a
wildly successful dating life where YOU have the power...and the
options.
Forget flowers, candy and "kissing up".
Ramp up a woman's attraction the RIGHT way, with 100% pure
MASCULINE presence...and make women LOVE you for it.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.