[X&Y] Why ANY Guy Can Get Beautiful Women <-- This Might Surprise You
Published: Mon, 08/13/12
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IN THIS EDITION: You're about to find out exactly why ANY guy
can get a "hot" woman. More importantly, you'll also discover why
you can and should be MUCH MORE than just "any guy"...and therefore
achieve much more fulfilling results.
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TAKE THIS WITH YOU
Got a late-summer road trip planned?
OK, well then how about a 20-minute commute to work tomorrow
morning?
No matter where you're going, why not skyrocket your skills
with women along the way rather than listening to sports
radio or your old Led Zep CDs for the thousandth time?
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
Got a late-summer road trip planned?
OK, well then how about a 20-minute commute to work tomorrow
morning?
No matter where you're going, why not skyrocket your skills
with women along the way rather than listening to sports
radio or your old Led Zep CDs for the thousandth time?
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
OK, I'll admit that I could probably listen to my old Led Zep
CDs a thousand times myself.
But even so, that's not going to turn me into Jimmy Page on
the guitar by osmosis.
This is different. This really, actually will make a massive,
transformational difference...literally. That's why it's called
"The Difference":
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
It's true. The most far-out program of mine (with the funkiest
website to match) isn't for everyone--only guys who want all
the master-level tweaks that inspire awestruck wonder in women.
Want one of those women who's got those little hearts popping
above her head every time she looks at you?
That's pretty much what I had in mind when I put my "evil genius"
to work on this for about two full years (and counting):
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
I'll tell you, there's a LOT of fluff-free content in The
Difference--enough to keep you busy from NY to LA (or for
a couple of months on the commuter trail).
So why don't I just slap a 50% coupon on this bad boy and make
it easier than ever for you to acquire this life-enriching
collection of secrets that most men will NEVER figure out?
OK...done. Use the coupon code "difference50" between now
and Wednesday night and you'll get a full 50% off.
Don't forget to snag a free month of Power Sessions with it
so you can ask me questions via e-mail.
=====
WHY ANY MAN CAN GET BEAUTIFUL WOMEN
Not too long ago we were hanging out at one of our favorite places
for Sunday night karaoke, an upscale Irish pub near where we live.
During a trip to the bar for a pint of Guinness, as any self-
respecting man would partake of at such a fine establishment, I
couldn't help but notice a woman who's own self-respect seemed
decidedly in doubt.
She was probably no more than 23. A petite brunette with a bright
smile and the personality to match. And for the record, she had a
body that would make most men take notice.
Here's the crazy part.
With her were two guys. One of them was probably about 40, the
other at least fifty. Both were tremendously overweight AND
undertall.
One was bald, the other probably hadn't taken a shower in several
days.
Both were wearing t-shirts and jeans. Neither appeared to be
particularly wealthy.
In fact, throw any classification of "limiting belief" you can
think of at these guys and one, the other or maybe even both
probably fit the description to textbook specification.
But the hottie wasn't only WITH these two guys, she was ALL OVER
THEM.
At one point she was shamelessly grinding her tail into one guy
while LICKING the other guy...all the while giggling and flirting
back and forth.
The guys, for their part, took turns staring wide-eyed in shock at
one another and laughing their heads off in joyful disbelief.
So to top it all off, they were less than suave and debonair about
the whole thing.
Here it is, gang. By NOBODY'S STANDARDS did these guys have ANY
GAME whatsoever.
Now I know what you're expecting me to say. You're expecting me to
tell you to get over whatever "limiting belief" you have and go out
there and talk to some sexy women.
Well, yeah. But that's obvious.
If you've been reading this newsletter for long you know by now I'm
not about re-packaging what you've already heard before.
What I want to do here is take things to another level for you by
pointing out HOW and WHY this stuff is the way it is.
When I pointed out the above scenario to Emily, she offered an
immediate explanation without having to think twice.
A woman with particularly low-self esteem will sometimes actually
PUNISH HERSELF by flirting with the grossest guys she can find and
letting them get all over her.
Crazy, isn't it?
So yeah, if you are a pretty gross dude, take heart. There are
hotties out there literally seeking you out.
And were we all that shallow around here, then that would be your
"lesson of the day". Then I'd probably go and write some book on
how to pick up strippers or something.
But I have MUCH higher regard for you than that.
And as such I'd rather frame things in a different perspective.
This means that ANY man who is about deserving what he wants--and
who wants only the women who bring the "whole package" to the
table--can feel free to expect MUCH, MUCH more than just a woman who
looks good.
"Hot" truly isn't "enough" for a great man.
To illustrate all of this as vividly as I know how, let's get under
the hood and find out how self-esteem is affected differently in
men than in women.
If you were a man who suddenly woke up and had every woman in the
world crazy about you, you'd probably get a significant ego boost
from that.
And seriously, I can't really say I've seen too many GQ-looking
dudes grinding up against a cackling throng of physically
unattractive women in order to "punish themselves". (Then again,
I've never been to a "Chippendales" show either, thankfully.)
Sexual desirability is NOT a source of self-esteem for women as it
is men. In fact it can be the EXACT opposite.
When a woman learns at a very young age that she is sexually
desirable to men, there are inherent social dangers involved.
Quite possibly, she is continuously met with advances from guys who
only "want something" from her.
If she doesn't perceive there to be much depth to anyone's interest
in her beyond something purely sexual, she may begin to believe in
her own mind that her worth is limited to sexual desirability.
So then, since she is so used to the flattery and perceives purely
sexual intentions behind it, there's no help to her self-esteem
there.
Worse, with the stigma placed on female sexuality in this society,
if she feels that all people perceive her to be good for is a
sexual thrill, then she can quickly start believing very negative
things about herself.
So what does this mean to you, as a guy?
If you read most men's dating and seduction advice, it teaches us
as guys to value "getting the lay" as the main goal.
And yeah, I think most of us can agree that sex is a good thing.
But if you are purely sex-focused, what you MUST realize is that
you are FEEDING THE MACHINE of female low-self-esteem.
And remember, for every woman who hates herself for being
considered purely a "sex object", there's one of US out there who
is ashamed of his own male sexuality--having been brainwashed into
believing that WE AS MEN are the cause of women's problems with
self-esteem and the like.
After all, there are PLENTY of women out there with low self-esteem
ready to pile on.
It all starts following logically and making sense, doesn't it?
This really can all become a vicious cycle.
Yes, there are some women out there with such issues that they'll
let any guy have his way with them, as we've seen above.
BUT...there are other women--in far greater numbers--who simply find it
EASY TO REJECT men who appear to want them only for sex. To those
women, YOU are part of the PROBLEM, not the SOLUTION.
So guys who are sex-focused do not see that women who reject them
often do have low self esteem.
Either that, or...um...they have HIGH self-esteem. Enough to know that
they aren't going to settle for a guy who only wants sex.
Either way, YOU LOSE.
Unless of course, you like the thought of being the guy women
"punish themselves with" whenever you believe yourself to be
"getting lucky".
Now let's be fair.
Sometimes women with low self-esteem will even refuse interested
men who have a solid, respectful, holistic approach to identifying
and associating themselves with great women.
It's not unheard of for such women to DRIVE SUCH GUYS AWAY because
they may not feel good enough for them.
This is NOT to be confused with rejection. This should be
considered part of the natural "weeding out" process that you as a
man of high standards expects.
After the dust clears, which women are left?
Value women on a deeper level than purely as sexual conquests, and
gain the advantage of more quickly identifying the most fantastic,
beautiful women out there who also happen to have tremendous
emotional health and stability.
And as a nice surprise, gain the advantage of having the highest
echelon of women on Earth WANT to be close to you BY CHOICE.
Either that or go find a woman who's willing to "punish herself" by
being with you. Your choice.
So what's it going to be?
Deserve what you want, guys. It's the only way to fly.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Here's a cool surprise for you. I've just added some
sweet new 1-on-1 coaching options, each designed to meet your
needs better than ever.
I'll be rolling them out soon after we finish tweaking the
website.
In the mean time, if you're considering putting me to work for
you as your personal trainer for success with women, you can
get a head start by dropping me a quick note at
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com and telling me your story.
=====
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This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
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and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.
CDs a thousand times myself.
But even so, that's not going to turn me into Jimmy Page on
the guitar by osmosis.
This is different. This really, actually will make a massive,
transformational difference...literally. That's why it's called
"The Difference":
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
It's true. The most far-out program of mine (with the funkiest
website to match) isn't for everyone--only guys who want all
the master-level tweaks that inspire awestruck wonder in women.
Want one of those women who's got those little hearts popping
above her head every time she looks at you?
That's pretty much what I had in mind when I put my "evil genius"
to work on this for about two full years (and counting):
http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers
I'll tell you, there's a LOT of fluff-free content in The
Difference--enough to keep you busy from NY to LA (or for
a couple of months on the commuter trail).
So why don't I just slap a 50% coupon on this bad boy and make
it easier than ever for you to acquire this life-enriching
collection of secrets that most men will NEVER figure out?
OK...done. Use the coupon code "difference50" between now
and Wednesday night and you'll get a full 50% off.
Don't forget to snag a free month of Power Sessions with it
so you can ask me questions via e-mail.
=====
WHY ANY MAN CAN GET BEAUTIFUL WOMEN
Not too long ago we were hanging out at one of our favorite places
for Sunday night karaoke, an upscale Irish pub near where we live.
During a trip to the bar for a pint of Guinness, as any self-
respecting man would partake of at such a fine establishment, I
couldn't help but notice a woman who's own self-respect seemed
decidedly in doubt.
She was probably no more than 23. A petite brunette with a bright
smile and the personality to match. And for the record, she had a
body that would make most men take notice.
Here's the crazy part.
With her were two guys. One of them was probably about 40, the
other at least fifty. Both were tremendously overweight AND
undertall.
One was bald, the other probably hadn't taken a shower in several
days.
Both were wearing t-shirts and jeans. Neither appeared to be
particularly wealthy.
In fact, throw any classification of "limiting belief" you can
think of at these guys and one, the other or maybe even both
probably fit the description to textbook specification.
But the hottie wasn't only WITH these two guys, she was ALL OVER
THEM.
At one point she was shamelessly grinding her tail into one guy
while LICKING the other guy...all the while giggling and flirting
back and forth.
The guys, for their part, took turns staring wide-eyed in shock at
one another and laughing their heads off in joyful disbelief.
So to top it all off, they were less than suave and debonair about
the whole thing.
Here it is, gang. By NOBODY'S STANDARDS did these guys have ANY
GAME whatsoever.
Now I know what you're expecting me to say. You're expecting me to
tell you to get over whatever "limiting belief" you have and go out
there and talk to some sexy women.
Well, yeah. But that's obvious.
If you've been reading this newsletter for long you know by now I'm
not about re-packaging what you've already heard before.
What I want to do here is take things to another level for you by
pointing out HOW and WHY this stuff is the way it is.
When I pointed out the above scenario to Emily, she offered an
immediate explanation without having to think twice.
A woman with particularly low-self esteem will sometimes actually
PUNISH HERSELF by flirting with the grossest guys she can find and
letting them get all over her.
Crazy, isn't it?
So yeah, if you are a pretty gross dude, take heart. There are
hotties out there literally seeking you out.
And were we all that shallow around here, then that would be your
"lesson of the day". Then I'd probably go and write some book on
how to pick up strippers or something.
But I have MUCH higher regard for you than that.
And as such I'd rather frame things in a different perspective.
This means that ANY man who is about deserving what he wants--and
who wants only the women who bring the "whole package" to the
table--can feel free to expect MUCH, MUCH more than just a woman who
looks good.
"Hot" truly isn't "enough" for a great man.
To illustrate all of this as vividly as I know how, let's get under
the hood and find out how self-esteem is affected differently in
men than in women.
If you were a man who suddenly woke up and had every woman in the
world crazy about you, you'd probably get a significant ego boost
from that.
And seriously, I can't really say I've seen too many GQ-looking
dudes grinding up against a cackling throng of physically
unattractive women in order to "punish themselves". (Then again,
I've never been to a "Chippendales" show either, thankfully.)
Sexual desirability is NOT a source of self-esteem for women as it
is men. In fact it can be the EXACT opposite.
When a woman learns at a very young age that she is sexually
desirable to men, there are inherent social dangers involved.
Quite possibly, she is continuously met with advances from guys who
only "want something" from her.
If she doesn't perceive there to be much depth to anyone's interest
in her beyond something purely sexual, she may begin to believe in
her own mind that her worth is limited to sexual desirability.
So then, since she is so used to the flattery and perceives purely
sexual intentions behind it, there's no help to her self-esteem
there.
Worse, with the stigma placed on female sexuality in this society,
if she feels that all people perceive her to be good for is a
sexual thrill, then she can quickly start believing very negative
things about herself.
So what does this mean to you, as a guy?
If you read most men's dating and seduction advice, it teaches us
as guys to value "getting the lay" as the main goal.
And yeah, I think most of us can agree that sex is a good thing.
But if you are purely sex-focused, what you MUST realize is that
you are FEEDING THE MACHINE of female low-self-esteem.
And remember, for every woman who hates herself for being
considered purely a "sex object", there's one of US out there who
is ashamed of his own male sexuality--having been brainwashed into
believing that WE AS MEN are the cause of women's problems with
self-esteem and the like.
After all, there are PLENTY of women out there with low self-esteem
ready to pile on.
It all starts following logically and making sense, doesn't it?
This really can all become a vicious cycle.
Yes, there are some women out there with such issues that they'll
let any guy have his way with them, as we've seen above.
BUT...there are other women--in far greater numbers--who simply find it
EASY TO REJECT men who appear to want them only for sex. To those
women, YOU are part of the PROBLEM, not the SOLUTION.
So guys who are sex-focused do not see that women who reject them
often do have low self esteem.
Either that, or...um...they have HIGH self-esteem. Enough to know that
they aren't going to settle for a guy who only wants sex.
Either way, YOU LOSE.
Unless of course, you like the thought of being the guy women
"punish themselves with" whenever you believe yourself to be
"getting lucky".
Now let's be fair.
Sometimes women with low self-esteem will even refuse interested
men who have a solid, respectful, holistic approach to identifying
and associating themselves with great women.
It's not unheard of for such women to DRIVE SUCH GUYS AWAY because
they may not feel good enough for them.
This is NOT to be confused with rejection. This should be
considered part of the natural "weeding out" process that you as a
man of high standards expects.
After the dust clears, which women are left?
Value women on a deeper level than purely as sexual conquests, and
gain the advantage of more quickly identifying the most fantastic,
beautiful women out there who also happen to have tremendous
emotional health and stability.
And as a nice surprise, gain the advantage of having the highest
echelon of women on Earth WANT to be close to you BY CHOICE.
Either that or go find a woman who's willing to "punish herself" by
being with you. Your choice.
So what's it going to be?
Deserve what you want, guys. It's the only way to fly.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Here's a cool surprise for you. I've just added some
sweet new 1-on-1 coaching options, each designed to meet your
needs better than ever.
I'll be rolling them out soon after we finish tweaking the
website.
In the mean time, if you're considering putting me to work for
you as your personal trainer for success with women, you can
get a head start by dropping me a quick note at
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com and telling me your story.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2012. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.