[X&Y] Three "No Brainer" Steps To Post-Valentine's Day Success [Read This]
Published: Fri, 02/15/13
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Have you heard the good news?
It really is true that the week or so AFTER Valentine's Day
represents an even BIGGER opportunity to meet women than the week
or so BEFORE February 14th.
The reason why is simple.
Sure, many women may be busy looking for a date in the days leading
up to Valentine's Day.
But what if they didn't FIND ONE?
Heck, never mind that. What if they even DID have a date for
Valentine's Day...but it either didn't work out so well or they got
stood up?
Here's the plain truth: Unless a woman is one of the relatively
few who is already in a blissfully happy relationship, all she can
probably think about right now is what a DISASTER her dating life
is.
As a matter of fact, it might be really eating her up that she
doesn't have a DATE, let alone a steady boyfriend.
And what do we as human beings (regardless of gender) tend to want
to do when we're experiencing something painful?
We want to GET RID OF THAT PAIN, don't we?
Ah...well guess what my good friend? It's very true that YOU may be
the bearer of that magic elixir that cures all for the woman of
your choice.
That's right. I said "woman of your choice".
Don't kid yourself, even for a second. It's not at all like every
amazing woman on Earth is already in one of those aforementioned
"blissfully happy relationships".
You have such a ridiculous bounty of beauties before you this time
of year that it's almost mind-bending to think about.
And every lasting, blasting one of them is DYING to meet a guy...and
be asked out.
So how about it? Are YOU going to be the "knight in shining armor"
who rescues a terrific woman (or three) from dateless distress?
You can and should be...but it's FAR, FAR more likely to happen if
you follow these three steps:
Above and beyond everything I've told you so far, let's cut to the
chase.
If a woman is officially "single and looking" on February 15th and
shortly thereafter, you can virtually rest assured that she doesn't
have any guy in her life whatsoever who "does it" for her...at all.
I mean, think about it. If there WAS a guy around for her to go
out with earlier this month, they went out last weekend.
And assuming that was in fact the case, had that date gone well
she'd probably be thinking more about the second date than about
checking her online dating messages, right?
So in other words, what's racing through her head about now is
pretty much the PAINFUL REALITY I've described at the beginning.
Importantly, this translates to the breathtaking reality that
literally EVERY woman who's been "active within 24 hours" on sites
like Match.com or PlentyOfFish could REALLY, REALLY use some
positive reinforcement on the dating front.
That's right. Right about now, you have ZERO pre-existing
"competition" when it comes to getting their attention online...as
in, ALL of their attention.
Based on what I've seen over the course of the last 24 hours it's
my educated guess that MOST guys are trying to leverage the
"post-Valentine's Day funk" in some tangible way.
This translates into first messages to women online--or even
"openers" with women in real life--that objectively suppose that
things didn't go well for her on February 14th.
Examples:
"So hey, I see you're still online. I guess you didn't meet the
man of your dreams on Valentine's Day this year."
"Another Valentine's Day came and went...so what do you say you and I
get a head start on making it better next year?"
"Looks like we've got something in common...we both didn't have
Valentine's Day work out as planned, huh?"
Now see, on the surface it seems like a GREAT idea to "seize the
moment" and take full advantage of the situation at hand.
There's only one problem. The "situation at hand" basically
SUCKS...at least as far as she's concerned.
Therefore, why on Earth are you reminding her of it?
Frankly, you don't even HAVE TO spell out what's causing the
"funk". You can rest assured it's there...we ALL KNOW the deal.
So then, what DO you write to her instead in that first e-mail, or
say to her when you see her in that coffee shop?
Here's the disarmingly simple answer: You write or say exactly
what you would if it was ANY OTHER DAY.
That's right, proceed as NORMAL.
Keep your head about you instead of blurting out some trite "post
Valentine's day" cliche...and just quietly expect startlingly
positive results unlike what you've seen before.
Believe me, women will respond VORACIOUSLY to your attention...all
without you having to call attention to why that is.
Valentine's Day is "water under the bridge". It'll make her feel
much warmer and fuzzier toward you if you point her toward the
soon-to-be-springlike future (i.e. good) rather than past
nightmares (i.e. bad).
3) DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED (OR DIDN'T) ON VALENTINE'S DAY
Consider this to be kind of like a "don't ask / don't tell" policy.
Don't ask her why she's still dateless in mid-February, and don't
volunteer why you are.
Either of those conversations won't end well for you.
In fact, it's a great idea to get outside of your own head in
general here.
Bear in mind that what I'm sharing with you today is fairly
advanced thinking. Even though you've now been armed with this
"insider's view" into what's all going on in her head, she probably
hasn't.
So in other words, she's NEVER going to think of YOU as having
"failed" on Valentine's Day when you show interest in her.
Why? Because she'll likely be too wrapped up in HER OWN
self-perceived Valentine's Day "failure" to get around to that.
Besides, she'll be hard-wired to hold great expectations that
you're the amazing guy you truly are who'll sweep her off of her
feet...and away from the pain.
Again, today is no different than any other day. You'll only look
needy and desperate if YOU choose to make it so.
So let's wrap this up.
In summary, the three steps to post-Valentine's Day success are:
1) Know what's going on in her head, 2) Stay mum about Valentine's
Day and proceed as you would on any other day, and 3) Drop any
self-conscious concern over your own crappy Valentine's Day
experience.
These three steps really sound incredibly basic, don't they?
They are.
But the crazy part is that if you follow them you'll be LIGHT YEARS
ahead of virtually every other guy out there who somehow never
thought them through on his own.
And that's exactly what makes these three steps GOLDEN ones, even
if they're "no-brainers".
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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