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WHAT'S INSIDE:  If you are a man who deserves what he wants, you
deserve to be picky.  But wait a minute...are you being picky for the
RIGHT reason or for the WRONG one?  Here's the simple way to tell...

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"WHAT DO I DO NEXT?"


You might find yourself confronted with that daunting question
EVERY time you even THINK about approaching a woman and starting a
conversation.

But let's say you go ahead and introduce yourself. 

She says, "Hello".

THEN WHAT?

What WILL you do next? 

Freeze up?  Try to "wing it"?  Panic?

Well clearly, none of those options are any good at all.

And here's the truly frustrating part.  Even if you DO get past
"hello", chances are you're STILL going to reach a point where you
"draw a blank",

That's because no matter WHO you are, depending on some flow chart
of techniques and tactics will ALWAYS end up leaving you hanging
somewhere.

It might be right when you meet her, soon thereafter or even MONTHS
into your relationship.

But make no mistake, unless and until you've figured out how to DO
AWAY WITH that checklist of routines you're going to live--and
die--by it.

So how do you release yourself from such a burden?

The answer is disarmingly simple:  You become a man who represents
to women WHAT THEY ALREADY WANT instead of trying so hard to "paint
by numbers".

But importantly, you've got to be that man from the VERY MOMENT you
meet a woman, and you've got to KEEP ON being that man for as long
as the relationship lasts.

No worries, however.  What I'm talking about here is a LEARNED
SKILL.  Sooner than later you can be that guy on "auto pilot" any
time you're around an attractive woman.

Here's my plan for showing you exactly how to get that done.

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HOW EXACTLY TO BE SELECTIVE ABOUT THE WOMEN YOU DATE


Here's a wild guess. 

You just might be as sick of hearing that same old mantra from your
friends and relatives as everyone else is who has heard the same
thing over and over:



"You're too picky.  You're never going to find a woman who meets
all your requirements!"



Am I right on target?

Man, that's irritating, isn't it?  Especially if it's coming from
people who you clearly sense have settled for less than they wanted
in their OWN relationships, right?

I mean, what...are YOU supposed to settle for someone you don't
really want and end up miserable too?

Well, you know my answer.  Absolutely not.

You have every single right to be as selective as you need to be.  

I'd even go so far as to say you should have a detailed list of the
top traits you desire in a woman as well as a list of all the "deal
breakers" you've identified.

BUT...there is one very sincere caveat.

If you're "picky" or "selective" (or whatever you want to call it),
it's got to be for the RIGHT REASON...which is because you REFUSE to
settle for less than you deserve.

I call that concept "Proactive Pickiness" because you have the
foresight to AVOID getting roped into a BAD relationship that you
never really wanted.  Instead, you're actively CHOOSING the partner
you want.

That's all good stuff, all the time.

And, of course, if you're a "big four" man (confident, masculine as
women define it, able to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in
your presence, of strong character) who deserves what you want, the
reason for your selectivity is reasonable indeed.

What often happens, however, is that some people pronounce
themselves to be "very, very, very, very picky" even as they're
doing VIRTUALLY NOTHING to be the kind of person that their "dream
partner" will ever be attracted to.

What's up with that?

Well, even though that mindset is not only confusing to observers
but also utterly counterproductive to the best interests of he or
she who holds it, there may be method to the madness.

Now, while I'm not going to discount the idea that there may be
some truly delusional souls out there who firmly believe that their
selfish will is enough to somehow trick and/or trap exceptional
MOTOS into their snare, I think there's something more to it.

What it often REALLY comes down to is that same old nemesis that we
as men in particular have such a hard time staring down:  FEAR OF
"REJECTION".

If you have The Man's Approach (and are actually making good use of
it, no less) you've heard me talk about "Shyness-Induced Snobbery".

Essentially, this is a bizarre principle that comes into play when
a man chooses to COMPLETELY IGNORE a beautiful woman, lest he give
her the benefit of knowing he's attracted in any way, shape or form.

That way, you see, he retains his "oneupmanship" over her as
opposed to giving her any indicator of attraction that she might
just, in turn, use to clobber him over the head with in some
humiliating manner.

But the irony of it all is that those in such a man's social circle
deem him to be a SNOB, when in reality he was just too shy to make
a bold move toward the very women he desired to be with the most.

As silly as it sounds, I personally suffered from that disorder for
YEARS...and I've heard from a multitude of y'all who can definitely
relate.

Well, tragically enough a dynamic very similar to that is THE major
contributor to the state of becoming "picky" for the WRONG reasons.

That's when what I call "Pickiness That Prohibits" has kicked in.

On the surface, it merely looks like UNREASONABLE pickiness. 

The list of desired traits may be a mile long, typically featuring
plenty of esoteric nonsense that has little to do with real
attraction OR real compatibility (e.g. "we must have the same
favorite move, 80's hair band and Taco Bell menu item, etc.)

Or, I don't know, maybe that list is also replete with mutually
exclusive requirements that flat-out defy the laws of physics,
chemistry AND biology.

But see, what's REALLY happening there is that "extreme pickiness"
is being positioned as a mere EXCUSE to avoid going out and meeting
women.

It's a way to insulate oneself from ANY possibility of "rejection"
by MOTOS...all by preventing any conceivable situation where
"rejection" could potentially happen to begin with.

And as much as I hesitate to say it, THAT may be what your friends
and relatives are so concerned about when they harp on how "picky"
you are.

That's because when you get right down to it, both "Shyness Induced
Snobbery" AND "Pickiness That Prohibits" are a LOT like sticking
your head in the sand.

In either instance, you're KIDDING yourself if you think you're
EVER going to meet the woman of your dreams that way.

You're WAY, WAY better off making the BOLD MOVE to deserve what you
want. 

After all, once you see clear progress there you'll then feel much
more comfortable making BOLD MOVES to meet great women.

And at that point, as long as the list your newly-transformed
"Proactive Pickiness" is based on doesn't violate the laws of
science, you'll be richly rewarded.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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