[X&Y] They Were The Ulitmate "Alpha" Dudes...Until SHE Showed Up
Published: Wed, 05/01/13
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WHAT'S INSIDE: How do you "out alpha" an alpha chick? At least
one guy has figured it out.=====
THIS ABSOLUTELY CAN'T HURT. IT CAN ONLY HELP.
You're either going to love this or the opposite. (But I wouldn't
send you anything I didn't think was totally worth your time).
The thing is, it requires an "open mind". You got one?
If it turns out you like this it's going to be because it's shows
you a decidedly OUT OF THE BOX way to impress women and "bring the
charm" that you probably never imagined doing (But probably always
wished you could).
My verdict? It's worth watching:
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THEY WERE THE ULTIMATE "ALPHA" DUDES...UNTIL *SHE* SHOWED UP
It's been six or seven years now since that lazy summertime afternoon
we found out the annual air show was going on out at Lackland AFB and
decided to get off our tails and go check it out.
Along with the usual spectacle involving "warbirds" from WWII, aerobatic
wizardry and guys jumping out of perfectly good airplanes, the world-famous
USAF Thunderbirds were on hand to provide the big finale.
Now, I really enjoy air shows and was looking forward to checking out the
T-birds for the first time having seen the Navy's Blue Angels on at least
six or seven occasions.
But since I do what I do for a living, I couldn't help considering what
the dating lives of T-bird pilots must be like.
After all, can you think of any more "alpha" a bad boy lifestyle than
performing as one of the six most publicly bad-to-the-bone fighter pilots
walking the planet?
Surely this has to at least help when it comes to attracting women.
Except that one of them--Maj. Nicole Malachowski at slot "3"--was a woman.
As you can imagine, this plot twist caused me to ruminate on the subject at
hand all the more deeply.
If Thunderbird pilots have what could be argued the ultimate trump card
when it comes to establishing "social proof" with women, how does that
translate for Maj. Malachowski?
When the T-birds made their customary sound off before taking flight, the
decidedly feminine exclamation of the word "Three!" roused at least one
response of "Dude, that was a chick!" from an apparently startled
adolescent boy.Indeed. And "Major M." was runner up for Homecoming Queen back in high
school, to complicate matters even more.
So first we had Danica Patrick, driving Indy cars over 200 mph while
looking pretty good all the while. Now this.
I think the verdict is in, guys. Being a racecar driver or a "flyboy"
isn't what makes you a "man".
Think about that if ever tempted to feebly coerce a woman into somehow
believing you are attractive because of whatever you do on weekends,
whatever car you drive or "whatever" else external.
And apparently Nicole Malachowski must get a kick out the steady stream of
guys who persist in this lame-o peacock ritual.
According to reports, one of Nicole Malachowski's routines when out on
the town has historically been to challenge men who approach her with
five chances at guessing what she does for a living.
If 'stumped', the 'loser' would have to buy her a drink.
I'll say.
Did you happen to note a certain ambiguity in this article's title? That
was purely intentional. Whichever way you read it, it resonates.
Whether Maj. Malachowski is the one who doesn't share her peers'
interest in being an "alpha male" or the other five pilots aren't
going to see their social position in the same light they may have used
to is irrelevant...the point stands either way.
We all know that the sharpest of women have an incredibly "challenging"
time finding men who are worthy of them in general.
Imagine all the men who fell short of the mark with the Lady T-Bird--
they themselves the likely 2% (max) of the single male population who
weren't too intimidated to even say "hello".
But check it out, this is where things get even more interesting...Nicole
Malachowski is happily married.
To a man.
Specifically, to a man who somehow, somewhere managed to win her
affection, and presumably her respect.
Now granted, I know very little about either one of the Malachowskis except
for what I've read in a few Internet snippets from "Feature" sections
nationwide.
So you'd better believe I'd love to interview them (And if the
Malachowskis have been forwarded this article somehow and are reading,
I've got a podcast episode with their name on it).
That said, my educated guess is that Mr. Malachowski (also an Air Force
Major, curiously) is an inherently masculine man with a genuine sense
of self-confidence.
Whatever the case is, she found a "keeper", didn't she?
And you know what I also have a tendency to believe?
It's pure conjecture, of course, but I believe her husband might say
he found a "needle in a haystack" himself.
I'm sure he was willing to settle for no less than he deserved, a
sentiment that his wife no doubt shares.
The fact that he met Nicole, was not intimidated by her and chose to
spend his life with her tells me something.
It tells me that having an "inner game" as bulletproof as his makes him an
even badder ass than his wife is. Which is exactly why Mrs. Malachowski
must dig him...majorly.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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