[X&Y] 6 Dating "Wake-Up Calls"
Published: Fri, 07/19/13
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WHAT'S INSIDE: If you've EVER allowed yourself to endure ANY of
the following heinous dating disasters (and even EXCUSE them as
"normal"), it's time to "snap out of it"...
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6 DATING "WAKE-UP CALLS" (PART ONE)
Every day I talk to men and women who are facing a challenge or two
that's similar to what nearly all of us deal with at one time or
another in the dating world. That's to be expected, and is part of
the human experience. At least nowadays it is.
But man...from time to time I encounter stories and/or situations
that are definitely non-standard.
Particularly interesting are the brouhahas men and women get
themselves into that involve clear passage into the realm of
"cognitive dissonance", which is essentially the concept of
continuing to believe that something is the case when the evidence
is overwhelming that such is indeed NOT the case.
And it's that great desire to have someone we are practically
obsessed with "love and accept us for who we are" which leads us
into this particular brand of turmoil. Every time.
Unfortunately, when we want so badly to believe that someone who is
indifferent (or even flatly uninterested) is someday, somehow going
to accept us and become romantically attracted to us we open the
door to being manipulated, trifled with or flat-out USED.
Here are some specific scenarios that I have seen in real life.
If you can personally relate to any of what follows it's time to
WAKE UP and realize that someone you have the "hots" for is being at
best opportunistic with you or--at worst--is going to milk her
relationship with you for all you are worth.
1) Financial Appeals
One time a few years ago I picked up a woman at her home to take
her out. She informed me that she would need a few more minutes
because she was IMing with a guy two thousand miles away.
She said it was important because although she had no interest in
ever really meeting this man he "sent her money all the time".
So she was essentially leveraging her "feminine wiles" for purely
ulterior financial motives (which I referred to immediately as
"Typing For Dollar$").
Inexplicably, the lonely guy on the other end of the conversation
willingly let this go on and actually sent her checks.
In case the inherent subtlety of the whole scenario slipped by
unnoticed, let me reiterate: She was typing to this guy while I
was standing there, and readily admitted to what was going on.
Predictably, this same woman woke up a few days later to an empty
driveway, her SUV having been repossessed.
I'll never forget the phone call where she demurely purred a
request that I "lend her $17,000". I may never forget that phone
call, but I forgot her. Fast.
Actually, I should have seen that coming and dropped her like the
bad habit she potentially was days earlier when I found up what her
IM strategies were like. Shame on me.
2) Requests For Favors
Unfortunately, situations like unto what I'm about to describe are
not rare.
Back in my mid-twenties I lived with several roommates, all of whom
attracted women easily and often.
One day I came home and was mildly surprised to find that a
pleasantly attractive young woman with a particularly sweet
personality was nearly finished with what must have been the
monumental task of deep-cleaning our typically filthy house from
top to bottom.
Speechless, I asked what prompted her to do such a thing. "Oh",
she said, "Your roommate hired me to be your maid."
It turns out he "forgot" to pay her the paltry five bucks (!?)
in payment that they had agreed upon up front. Yet, she was back
again the next week for more of the same.
My roommate never so much as asked her out. Ever.
Now see, I bet you thought I was going to cite a woman doing this
sort of thing to a guy, didn't you? Wrong. None of this stuff
is gender-specific.
3) Invitations To Spend Time And Resources
What if someone invites you to go somewhere or do something that's
particularly expensive and/or far away? What if the same person
who invited you casually expects you to foot the bill and/or do the
driving?
I believe the answers to these deep questions are rhetorical. Yet,
it's amazing how many single people have an iPhone full of willing
minions.
So that's the first three. Hang in there, because I'll follow up
with the second half tomorrow. Stay tuned...and expect to be left
utterly blown away by the last three.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Holy mama, did that blog post yesterday ever create some
CONTROVERSY. I definitely woke up some people's opinions on that
one.
In case you missed it, take a look and join in the conversation:
http://www.edumckaytion.com/blog
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6 DATING "WAKE-UP CALLS" (PART ONE)
Every day I talk to men and women who are facing a challenge or two
that's similar to what nearly all of us deal with at one time or
another in the dating world. That's to be expected, and is part of
the human experience. At least nowadays it is.
But man...from time to time I encounter stories and/or situations
that are definitely non-standard.
Particularly interesting are the brouhahas men and women get
themselves into that involve clear passage into the realm of
"cognitive dissonance", which is essentially the concept of
continuing to believe that something is the case when the evidence
is overwhelming that such is indeed NOT the case.
And it's that great desire to have someone we are practically
obsessed with "love and accept us for who we are" which leads us
into this particular brand of turmoil. Every time.
Unfortunately, when we want so badly to believe that someone who is
indifferent (or even flatly uninterested) is someday, somehow going
to accept us and become romantically attracted to us we open the
door to being manipulated, trifled with or flat-out USED.
Here are some specific scenarios that I have seen in real life.
If you can personally relate to any of what follows it's time to
WAKE UP and realize that someone you have the "hots" for is being at
best opportunistic with you or--at worst--is going to milk her
relationship with you for all you are worth.
1) Financial Appeals
One time a few years ago I picked up a woman at her home to take
her out. She informed me that she would need a few more minutes
because she was IMing with a guy two thousand miles away.
She said it was important because although she had no interest in
ever really meeting this man he "sent her money all the time".
So she was essentially leveraging her "feminine wiles" for purely
ulterior financial motives (which I referred to immediately as
"Typing For Dollar$").
Inexplicably, the lonely guy on the other end of the conversation
willingly let this go on and actually sent her checks.
In case the inherent subtlety of the whole scenario slipped by
unnoticed, let me reiterate: She was typing to this guy while I
was standing there, and readily admitted to what was going on.
Predictably, this same woman woke up a few days later to an empty
driveway, her SUV having been repossessed.
I'll never forget the phone call where she demurely purred a
request that I "lend her $17,000". I may never forget that phone
call, but I forgot her. Fast.
Actually, I should have seen that coming and dropped her like the
bad habit she potentially was days earlier when I found up what her
IM strategies were like. Shame on me.
2) Requests For Favors
Unfortunately, situations like unto what I'm about to describe are
not rare.
Back in my mid-twenties I lived with several roommates, all of whom
attracted women easily and often.
One day I came home and was mildly surprised to find that a
pleasantly attractive young woman with a particularly sweet
personality was nearly finished with what must have been the
monumental task of deep-cleaning our typically filthy house from
top to bottom.
Speechless, I asked what prompted her to do such a thing. "Oh",
she said, "Your roommate hired me to be your maid."
It turns out he "forgot" to pay her the paltry five bucks (!?)
in payment that they had agreed upon up front. Yet, she was back
again the next week for more of the same.
My roommate never so much as asked her out. Ever.
Now see, I bet you thought I was going to cite a woman doing this
sort of thing to a guy, didn't you? Wrong. None of this stuff
is gender-specific.
3) Invitations To Spend Time And Resources
What if someone invites you to go somewhere or do something that's
particularly expensive and/or far away? What if the same person
who invited you casually expects you to foot the bill and/or do the
driving?
I believe the answers to these deep questions are rhetorical. Yet,
it's amazing how many single people have an iPhone full of willing
minions.
So that's the first three. Hang in there, because I'll follow up
with the second half tomorrow. Stay tuned...and expect to be left
utterly blown away by the last three.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. Holy mama, did that blog post yesterday ever create some
CONTROVERSY. I definitely woke up some people's opinions on that
one.
In case you missed it, take a look and join in the conversation:
http://www.edumckaytion.com/blog
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2013. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it.
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