[X&Y] Getting Sent To The "Just Be Friends Zone" Is A Preventable Disorder
Published: Sat, 08/03/13
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Why do we go out on dates with a woman and HIDE our
masculine sexual nature out of shame? What is it we expect to gainfrom that? Here's a new game-changing mindset for you...
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IT'S AUGUST...FANTASY FOOTBALL TIME AGAIN
If you're here in the U.S. you're getting fired up for another
intense NFL season. I know I am--after all, my beloved Ravens
have a championship to defend.
And if you're enough of an NFL fan, you're probably into fantasy
football.
Well, what if I told you that you have an EXCELLENT chance of
actually WINNING your league this year?
How would it feel to actually win a 'chip of your own?
Here's the weird part...you really CAN and SHOULD win it all
this year.
Why? Because if you play it right, you'll probably be the ONLY
guy in your league who arms himself with THIS mission-critical
weapon:
Now, sometimes I tell you about cool new projects by some of my
friends. Well, this time my own good family name is attached
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That's right. My brother, Dave McKay, was actually a former
producer at none other than ESPN and these days has made a name
for himself as a fantasy sports expert.
Pretty cool huh?
Well, one look at HIS latest project and I KNEW I had to get
him to roll out a special deal for you on his ENTIRE game plan
for total fantasy football domination:
Yes, Dave has made it EASY to use. It's not about complex
player rankings or bizarre algorithms.
Instead, you'll learn the carefully guarded secrets of real
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badass is that?)Now, as you can imagine I've obviously known Dave for quite a
while. So when he says that you can become a fantasy football
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GETTING SENT TO THE "JUST BE FRIENDS ZONE" IS A PREVENTABLE DISORDER
Sometimes there are certain topics I choose to write about that fry
my circuits to a crisp.
This would be one of them.
I mean, who knows WHY in the world we as guys even NEED to be
reminded that heterosexual women are FEMALE...which means that they
are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to men (aka guys like you and me)?
But we do.
Message after message literally POURS into my overflowing inbox
from guys who wonder aloud why they keep getting banished to the
evil "Just Be Friends Zone" by women.
Let's cut to the chase. 99.9% of the time the reason that happens
is because women are just not FEELING IT for the guy.
The tragic part? The tendency to land in the JBF Zone is a
PREVENTABLE disorder.
And if you've got the fever, the only cure is to freely and PROUDLY
unleash your natural, genuine masculinity the next time you're
around a woman.
Stop starting "neuter" conversations about the weather, celebrity
gossip and especially how work sucks.
Instead, start the road to recovery by acknowledging the simple
fact that she's a WOMAN and she has needs.
One of those needs is to have her FEMALE sexuality charged up like
a super-magnet.
As basic as it sounds, finally--once and for all--allow yourself to
BELIEVE that truth.
You see, for whatever reason modern men are literally AFRAID of
being masculine in a woman's presence nowadays.
Perhaps it's all the "sensitivity training" and "sexual harassment
seminars" we've taken that have brainwashed us into somehow
thinking that sexual polarity is OFFENSIVE to women.
We've been led to believe that simple, innocuous flirting is an
AGGRESSIVE ACT.
Think of it this way. We already know that women really do follow
a man's LEAD.
So when we show up on a date and LEAD with being a "friendly" but
neuter person rather than with unabashed masculinity, what's
naturally going to happen?
If you answered, "she'll follow your lead and think of you as 'just
a friend'", give yourself a gold star.
Meanwhile...women are pulling their hair out wondering where all the
"real men" went.
The devastating truth is that we haven't gone ANYWHERE.
We're all still here...we just need to snap out of the funk we're
in--no thanks to the social messages we've been fed.
Here's the stone cold, shocking truth gentlemen:
There are TWO kinds of people walking this planet. People who are
sexually attracted to MEN and those who aren't.
Heterosexual women are the FIRST type, and if you're reading this
YOU are the other.
That means YOU might not understand a woman's sexual cravings.
But that doesn't mean they aren't there, that they aren't valid and
that they don't need to be SATISFIED.
They're just DIFFERENT than yours. Rest assured, for example, that
the VAST MAJORITY of women do NOT want "a woman with a penis" for a
boyfriend.
And as odd as I feel typing this obvious fact, it needs to be said:
Men are NOT the "root of all evil" and women are NOT "infallible
divine goddesses" on pedestals.
We're all HUMAN beings. There are some with black hearts and
others with hearts of gold representing BOTH genders, I assure you.
So once we "unwire" our counter-productive thoughts on how men and
women relate, how exactly do we translate that into REAL WORLD
successful interactions with women?
The solution here is SIMPLE (if not necessarily easy if you've
developed an "unconscious" habit of being neuter over the years).
Masculinity and femininity are the FUEL that supercharges sexual
polarity.
So dress like a man, move like a man and talk like a man.
Build your confidence by doing what you excel at more often, seeing
yourself as others see you and flat-out forcing yourself to
recognize that you were BORN to attract women...literally.
Make simple, relatively innocuous decisions (like what to order off
of a menu) more quickly.
Be sure to have a PLAN...in the moment AND for the long-term future.
Have your own thoughts rather than agreeing with everything she
says. Slow down and choose your words carefully.
If the opportunity comes up to make her laugh or to tease in a
playful way, SEIZE IT.
Show some leadership by BRINGING OUT the "playful" in her. That
makes her feel like a woman, and shows her you're a man.
Lean back and relax rather than crowding her space and "getting all
up in her chili".
Stop trying to "paw her up" like a hungry Chihuahua and MAKE HER
WAIT with delicious anticipation.
And by all means face fear when the chips are down with COURAGE
rather than casually slipping out the back door while nobody is
looking.
The bottom line is this: Men are SUPPOSED to be men just like
women are SUPPOSED to be women.
That design WORKS...and has done so for millennia without question or
challenge.
Masculinity and femininity are not "cultural inventions". On the
contrary, masculine / feminine polarity can be readily observed
with amazing consistency all over the world.
I've seen this with my own eyes as I've traveled to 87 countries
all over the world.
So once again, I can assure you with utmost confidence: She's
FEMALE, you're MALE...and that's OKAY.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I've got more videos and some hard-hitting special reports on
the way for you...all f-r-e-e. Don't touch that dial.
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