[X&Y] Are You Letting The Poison Creep Into Your Life?
Published: Tue, 08/06/13
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IN THIS EDITION: What kind of women do you believe are out there?
Chances are those very women are the ones you are going to meet.
Make sure you're well informed before drawing conclusions, because
a shocking truth awaits...
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WHAT IF YOU'VE ALREADY MET A GREAT WOMAN...NOW WHAT?
So how about it? Are you interested in being a pickup artist for
the long term or are you really all about meeting the greatest
woman you've ever met and getting on with having a great life
with her?
As I mention in today's newsletter below, MOST guys are after the
latter.
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knowing how to master long-term relationships with women.
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ARE YOU LETTING THE POISON CREEP INTO YOUR LIFE?
You know well enough by now that we talk a lot around here about
"deserving what you want". The premise is simple but often
overlooked: In order to get a great woman, you've GOT to be the
kind of man who deserves her.
A day or two ago I was conversing with a friend when something very
interesting came up. If "deserving what you want" is what you are
all about, then by the very nature of things YOU are also becoming
who a great woman deserves in the process...which is a great thing.
Of course, this also means that RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW not only is
the bar at a certain level insofar as who you will successfully
attract, but YOU are also who a certain cross-section of women is
EXPECTING to attract.
And my friend and I couldn't help but agree that people tend to
attract EXACTLY who they've prepared themselves to meet.
Case in point.
The other day I was visiting a particularly well-traveled forum in
the "men's dating advice" world when several posts caught my eye,
all centered around a common theme: How all women--especially
American ones (according to American guys, natch)--were basically
lying manipulators who'll cuckold you and take all your money
someday.
It was like a train wreck. I didn't want to look, but I couldn't
help myself. And the more I read, the clearer the picture became.
To say these guys were a little...um...BITTER was an understatement.
And the most unfortunate part was that the threads continued for
pages and pages, all in a chorus of high-fives and hand pounds.
There was not one dissenting viewpoint represented.
It was then it occurred to me. All the guys who would potentially
disagree weren't hanging out in that forum complaining. They were
probably too busy out enjoying the company of a great woman.
Guys all over the place are GETTING exactly what they PREPARE FOR
from women.
Rest assured, there are plenty of women out there who are warm,
generous, playful, fun, virtuous and--yes--faithful AND beautiful.
Some even have their own six-figure incomes and don't really need
your money. Seriously. And most are great in bed too (because
they deserve to be).
Can you believe that? Do you think that I'm a naïve dreamer who's
kidding himself? Do you think Emily is less than genuine?
Are friends of mine who have, like me, dated hundreds of women each
only to ultimately select ONE GREAT WOMAN all fooling themselves
and doomed to life in "The Matrix"?
Well, whatever helps you sleep at night.
Except I think it's really keeping you awake at night.
What if it's all true? What if there really are great women out
there? Deep down you probably know there are indeed.
But here it is: You are attracting into your life EXACTLY the
kind of woman you expect to meet...WHATEVER she's like.
This really isn't a "Law Of Attraction" thing either, necessarily.
It's actually all about LEADERSHIP.
Lookit. If you have no respect for women and believe that they are
generally selfish, manipulative, morally bereft beings who are only
good for the purpose of sexual release...then so be it. That's your
choice.
And congratulations--you deserve what you want.
You'll continue to meet a steady stream of women who tend to believe
that "all men are dogs", that you "only want one thing" and that
you're inherently untrustworthy and must be tapped of your "natural
resources" before you spend everything on gambling and "gentleman's
clubs".
You'll grow more frustrated by "man haters" in equal measure with
the disdain you express for them.
That's like drinking the proverbial "purple Kool-Aid" though, man.
It's like willingly drinking something poisonous and letting it
pervade your system.
That's a killer, by definition.
But meanwhile the truth remains true whether it's acknowledged or
not.
There indeed ARE great women out there who respect and actually LIKE men,
and want to be good to them. But a woman like that is not about to
get mixed up with a guy who doesn't believe she exists.
And on the flip side, no man who respects women and has mastered the
art of igniting femininity is going to put up with a woman who hates men.
He has reserved the right not to have to.
The most breathtaking part of this whole scenario is how focused
one's tunnel vision can become in a very short amount of time.
Sooner than later, if you choose to believe that all MOTOS (Members
Of The Other Sex) are bad news you are going to be one lonely
dude...and a sexually frustrated one, too, for that matter. All
because your core belief will have become in a very real way your
reality.
So why doesn't everyone--man or woman--wake up to what's going on?
The answer is a simple one. Blame is the path of least resistance.
Were someone to believe that there were MOTOS out there who did
indeed live up to a higher standard, he or she would have to look
squarely in the mirror.
And that, friends and neighbors, is often more painful to bear than
the loneliness of a world where all MOTOS are pretty much the enemy.
Or is it? Who knows for sure? It seems like many of us are too
lazy to test the premise...at all.
Complaining is hella easier than deserving what you want, huh?
If so, don't be surprised when it's only you and those who are like
minded keeping each other company on the forums.
Your female counterparts will be waiting for you over on the
"Oprah Channel" watching the latest "Jenny Jones" wannabe.
Yeah well, don't be that guy. It's not automatic--you can choose
NOT to fall for the hype.
Do you have the guts as a man to step up and claim leadership over
your right to deserve great women in your life?
If so, you are already further along the path to deserving the
highest echelon of women on Earth than most men, shockingly enough.
You'll have to excuse me now...Emily is telling me she has a bubble
bath ready.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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