[X&Y] Make Her Trust You In Record Time
Published: Sat, 11/02/13
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WHAT'S INSIDE: If a woman feels safe and comfortable around you,
that means she TRUSTS you. Here's a simple way to build that trustFAST.
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MORE WOMEN ON WEEKENDS
Today is Saturday.
Did you have a great evening with a great woman last night, or did
you sit at home watching reruns?
Do you have plans in place tonight to meet that hottie whose phone
number you got this past week...or is it going to be another night at
the sports bar?
Did you even GET that hottie's phone number this week?
If the answer is NO to any or all of the above questions, there's
only one question left to ask:
Isn't it time to get serious about turning this part of your life
around?
If you're like a lot of guys who are reading this, you have
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That's where I come in.
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And now, let's talk about how to build a woman's trust in record
time...
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BUILD TRUST IN RECORD TIME
Granted, I rarely draw comparisons between what happens in the
animal kingdom and human male/female relationships.
To be honest, I'm generally suspect of that sort of thing.
But sometimes the shoe really does fit, if simply for demonstrative
purposes.
So with that said, I believe there's something to be learned about
how we as humans tend to interact with dogs and cats relative to
the topic at hand today, which is helping a woman TRUST you as
quickly as possible.
Hopefully, I don't have to harp much on why getting her to trust
you is so important.
Suffice it to say that causing a woman to feel safe and comfortable
around you--which is one of the Big Four ways to get a high quality
woman into your life--has TRUST as it's cornerstone.
If a woman is attracted to you and feels SAFE with you, just about
ANYTHING goes in terms of how you choose to direct the
relationship...so long as you have her best interests at heart.
Alright then, about those dogs and cats...
Think about what happens when you encounter a dog OR a cat that
you've never met before.
The dog may be super friendly at first or growl at you. It all
depends on the dog's temperament, right?
Meanwhile, the cat is likely to blink slowly as it turns it's head,
and then trot away...at least for the time being.
So if you want to help the dog or cat to feel more comfortable
around you, what do you do?
Well sure, you can have the dog sniff your hand and/or you can give
a "treat" to either the dog or the cat.
Now, rest assured I'm not going either one of those places when it
comes to women. I'm reserving the right to believe we're more
evolved than that.
BUT...there IS another very useful way to "break the ice" with new
canine and feline acquaintances.
That's to be PLAYFUL with them.
If a dog or cat does venture in your direction, you might naturally
rub it on the head in a friendly way as you kneel down to be more
eye-level with it.
And if you're particularly astute when it comes to house pets,
you'll play tug-o-war with it using a doggy toy or something
similar to that.
In doing so, you'll lighten the mood.
Amazingly, most dogs and cats will utterly TRANSFORM their demeanor
with you once you've demonstrated you know how to be PLAYFUL with
them.
The most dramatic display of this fact occurs with a dog or a cat
you've just met will roll over on it's back and let you know it'd
like you to scratch it's tummy. Very nice.
Consider that the front parts of ANY mammal are by far the most
vulnerable. Therefore, exposing them to a stranger inherently
involves A LOT of trust. They have to be completely confident that
you mean them no harm.
OK, so this newsletter isn't specifically about getting a woman to
expose her front parts to you as quickly as possible.
But as far as end results are concerned that may not be too far off
base, just the same.
The point is that we as humans tend to assign TRUSTWORTHINESS to
PLAYFULNESS in much the same way as dogs and cats do.
It's just that for whatever reason we typically don't quite have as
much experience applying that principle to each other as we do with
pets.
But don't kid yourself. Women are ALL ABOUT playfulness, and when
you as a man LEAD in that direction you can only see GOOD things
happen.
Playfulness, as I've mentioned in the past, is a FEMININE gift to
us as men. But since women respond to our lead as men, so it's up
to us to FREE her up to be playful.
So if you've ever wondered why words like "teasing" and "banter" so
often accompany any teaching on how to meet women, I've just told
you why.
Making a woman FEEL feminine makes her HORNY for you almost
instantly.
AND...sort of like a "double bonus", instilling a sense of
playfulness in her causes her to TRUST you as well as being
ATTRACTED to you.
Why is that, exactly? Well, when you cause a woman to think of
"fun" when she thinks of YOU, she can't help but expect the BEST
from you in other ways as well.
At the baseline level, she responds to you with optimism rather
than pessimism...for lack of a more basic way to put it.
But whatever the nature of the "magic" that happens when you bring
the playfulness and get trust in return, the phenomenon is VERY
REAL and that's the most important truth to remember here.
Think of that the next time you are tempted to bust out with the
default "interview questions" on a first date. I've yet to ever
experience a "playful" interview...how about you?
Instead, keep the conversation LIGHT. Don't fear a slight bit of
straight-up silliness as much as you've perhaps been told to in the
past.
Even James Bond, Paul Newman and John Wayne weren't dead serious
all the time.
Oh, and by all means, please don't apply ANY of what I've talked
about here unless you really ARE trustworthy and really DO have a
woman's best interests at heart.
It won't end well otherwise...I promise.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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