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IN THIS EDITION:  What kind of women do you believe are out there?
Be careful how you answer and make sure you're well informed
before drawing conclusions, because a shocking truth awaits...  

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I'VE EITHER GOT SOME REALLY GREAT NEWS...OR SOME REALLY BAD NEWS


Here's the deal:  It's YOU who's going to decide by the end of this
newsletter whether you've just been handed GOOD news or BAD news.

You see, by now you know well enough that we talk a lot around here
about "deserving what you want".  

The premise is simple but often overlooked:  In order to get a great
woman, you've GOT to be the kind of man who deserves her.  

A day or two ago I was conversing with a friend when something very
interesting came up.  

If "deserving what you want" is what you are all about, then by the
very nature of things YOU are also becoming who a great woman
deserves in the process...which is a great thing.

Of course, this also means that RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW not only is
the bar at a certain level insofar as who you will successfully
attract, but YOU are also who a certain cross-section of women is
EXPECTING to attract.  

And my friend and I couldn't help but agree that people tend to
attract EXACTLY who they've prepared themselves to meet.

Whoa...pretty deep stuff.  But it really isn't so hard to grasp when
you see the dynamic in action.  

Case in point.  The other day I was visiting a particularly well-
traveled forum in the men's dating advice world when several
posts caught my eye, all centered around a common theme:  How all
women---especially American ones (according to American guys,
natch)--were basically lying manipulators who'll cuckold you and
take all your money someday.  

It was like a train wreck.  I didn't want to look, but I couldn't
help myself.  And the more I read, the clearer the picture became.

To say these guys were a little...um...BITTER was an understatement.

And the most unfortunate part was that the threads continued for
pages and pages, all in a chorus of high-fives and hand pounds.

There was not one dissenting viewpoint represented.

It was then that it occurred to me...and a chill went up my spine.
All the guys who would potentially disagree weren't hanging out in
that forum complaining.  

They were most likely too busy out enjoying the company of a great
woman.  

Guys all over the place are GETTING exactly what they PREPARE FOR
from women.  

Rest assured, there are plenty of women out there who are warm,
generous, playful, fun, virtuous and--yes--faithful AND beautiful.

Some even have their own six-figure incomes and don't really need
your money.  Seriously.  And most are great in bed too (because
they deserve to be).  

Can you believe that?  Do you think that I'm a naïve dreamer who's
kidding himself?  

Following that line of logic, do you then think Emily is less than
genuine?  

Are friends of mine who have, like me, dated hundreds of women each
only to ultimately select ONE GREAT WOMAN all fooling themselves
and doomed to life in "The Matrix"?

Well, whatever lets you sleep at night.  Except I think it's really
keeping you awake at night.

After all, what if it's all true?  

What if there really ARE great women out there?  Deep down you
probably know there are indeed.  What you may NOT know is that
there is FAR, FAR less competition to ultimately win their hearts
than you think.

But here it is:  You are attracting into your life EXACTLY the kind
of woman you expect to meet...WHATEVER she's like.

This really isn't a "Law Of Attraction" thing either, necessarily.
It's actually all about LEADERSHIP, really.

Lookit.  If you have no respect for women and believe that they are
generally selfish, manipulative, morally bereft beings who are only
good for the purpose of sexual release...then so be it.  

That's your choice. And if so, congratulations--you deserve what you
want.  

You'll continue to meet a steady stream of women who tend to
believe that "all men are dogs", that you "only want one thing" and
that you're inherently untrustworthy and must be tapped of your
natural resources before you spend everything on gambling and
"gentleman's clubs".

You'll grow more frustrated by man haters in equal measure with
the disdain you express for them.

But the truth remains true whether it's acknowledged or not.  

There indeed ARE great women out there who respect and actually
LIKE men, and want to be good to them.

But a woman like that is not about to get mixed up with a guy who
doesn't believe she exists.  

And on the flip side, no man who respects women and has mastered
the art of igniting femininity is going to put up with a woman who
hates men.  

That's because he has reserved the right not to have to.

The most breathtaking part of this whole scenario is how focused
one's tunnel vision can become in a very short amount of time.

Sooner than later, if you choose to believe that all MOTOS (Members
Of The Other Sex) are bad news you are going to be one lonely
dude...and a sexually frustrated one, too, for that matter.  

All because your core belief will have become, in a very real way,
your reality.

So why doesn't everyone--man or woman--wake up to what's going on?

The answer is a simple one.  Blame is the path of least resistance.
 
Were someone to believe that there were MOTOS out there who did
indeed live up to a higher standard, he or she would have to look
squarely in the mirror.  

And that, friends and neighbors, is often more painful to bear than
the loneliness of a world where all MOTOS are pretty much the enemy.

Or is it?  Who knows for sure.  It seems like many of us are too
lazy to test the premise...at all.  

Complaining is a LOT easier than deserving what you want, huh?  

If so, don't be surprised when it's only you and those who are
like-minded keeping each other company on the forums.  

Your female counterparts will be waiting for you over on "Oprah"
and "Jenny Jones".  

Yeah well, don't be that guy.  It's not automatic.  You can choose
NOT to fall for the hype.  

Do you have the guts as a man to step up and claim leadership over
your right to deserve great women in your life?  If so, you are
already further along the path to deserving the highest echelon of
women on Earth than most men, shockingly enough.   

If NOT, then you'll keep on gettin' what you've always
gotten...whatever type of woman that is.

You'll have to excuse me now...Emily is telling me she has a cold
beer and a "pleasant surprise" for me.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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