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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Women who catch our eye aren't always by
themselves.  What's a real man to do?

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WOMEN WANT TO DO *ANYTHING* FOR YOU. SO WHY AREN'T YOU LETTING THEM?


The headline above is very, very true...even if most men tragically
go through their entire lives never realizing it.

The crazy part is that most of us are standing in the way of our
own success.

Sometimes we end up doing things that push women away when we
should really be drawing them in magnetically.

Or worse, other times we actually give up on ourselves before
we even give women a chance to do ANYTHING.

Well, check it out.

When you find a woman attractive, isn't it natural to want to
DO something for her?

And doesn't it make you feel like a MAN when you do so successfully?

What most guys never understand is that this phenomenon is NOT
gender specific.

Women feel that way also...toward US.

When we know how to present ourselves the right way and start
interacting with women as a real man should, it's as if the veil
gets lifted on a whole new world.

And in THAT world, a woman will bend over backwards to do
wonderful things for a high quality man...all because it makes
her feel like a WOMAN.

You've GOT to get in on this party, once and for all:



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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS


I have a question. I am applying the things I am learning
from you everyday and I am paying special attention to the
podcasts on approaching women and where do you meet them.   

My obstacle now is I keep seeing women I would like to get
to know better at obscure moments like coffee shops, waiting
in line, etc.

They seem to be giving me "signals of interest" but how do
you go about trying to flirt and get a number when there are
two girls present?

With this there are the issues of jealousy or if the other
friend will try and hinder your attempts because you
approached the other girl.  

This happened today at a coffee shop with two girls talking
to each other at a table.

We strategically sat at the middle table where all the girls
could see us.  

I didn't make the attempt to go talk to the one girl that
seemed interested because her friend was there, but she did
go to the bathroom.

Maybe that was my opening but even then to get a number from
someone you just met with just 2 to 3 minutes to do it in is
strict.

There is a way to accomplish this?  So what I am doing wrong
with my mindset?

Thanks again for your time and help, I appreciate it and can
say I am making the sincere decision to put myself on the
path to deserving what I want.


Nelson -- California



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Hey Nelson.  Thanks for writing.

I'm glad that what we talk about around here is working for you
some already.  I know that is most certainly did for me
personally, and has for countless other guys worldwide as well.

Regarding your first question about groups of women, I
think you might very well be over-analyzing.  

Doing such in any situation--be it meeting women or whatever
else you do in life--causes you to manufacture self-doubt at a
record pace.  

I'm sure you've heard the term "analysis paralysis", and it
applies here.  If you don't even try, you are guaranteed to
fail...every time.

If you see a woman you like who just so happens to be with
her friends, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a
specific interest in her, even if you perhaps aren't "feeling
it" so much for her friend.

Remember first, however, that it's a mistake to "pre-approve"
any woman before actually talking to her and evaluating what
she's really like.

Believe me when I tell you that I've experienced situations
similar in context to the one you shared in which I ended up
MORE interested in the woman who I didn't initially expect to
like as much.

I know...ironic, right?

So it's easy to see how the smart plan is to be cordial with
and bring some energy to the entire group, even if it's only
natural (and expected) that you'll end up particularly
attracted to one in particular.  

Women are grown-ups too, remember.

Besides, think of it this way.  How's it going to look if you're
trying to get with BOTH of them?  (Unless that's something that
seems to be their own idea, of course.)

If "in the unlikely event of a decompression" your concern is
validated and the other woman somehow manages to "act up" in
either a jealous and/or immature way, that's not really even
your problem.

Rest assured that any woman who would put on this display is
behaving in no manner to indicate true friendship toward the
woman you are interested in.

With some field experience, you'll soon realize that most
women are very gracious in return when a man graciously
approaches a certain woman in the group.  

You are only going to get blatantly "blocked" when either:

1)  She's not single after all, or  

2)  You are an I/J (Idiot/Jerk).  

So be the kind of man who deserves what he wants, and there's
very, very little potential for shame.  

If one girl actually does behave like a brat, believe it or
not it may HELP your cause as the one you prefer apologizes
upon finding herself in a position of embarrassment.  

But all this is a contingency plan for the unlikely.  

Women know better than to be that catty towards their friends
in such situations.  In fact, they often are happy for one
another--interestingly enough.

So in the end, what's the worst that can happen?  Nothing is
ever as bad as kicking yourself later because you straight-up
"failed to deploy" at all.


Be Good,

Scot McKay
 



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