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WHAT'S INSIDE:   Got a woman you're already seeing (or two?) 
Here are a couple of UNBEATABLE New Year's Eve strategies...
especially if you're not really a partier.
   
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WHAT TO DO ON NEW YEAR'S EVE IF YOU'RE ALREADY DATING SOMEONE


I'm still getting numerous e-mails asking about New Year's Eve, and
more specifically how to how to make it a great night if you've
already got at least one woman in your life.

So let's get on with it.  Here are my two best tips for guys who are
dating someone, whether it's casually or exclusively.



1)  Take Two, They're Small


Oh man, I love this.

If you've got a woman in your life it's always fun to invite her
to hang out with you somewhere cool on New Year's Eve...even if
it's a quiet enclave somewhere rather than a full-on blowout of a
party.

And true to form, most of us would simply make sure she's on our
calendar to join us wherever we're going on December 31st and leave
well enough alone.

But you, being the thoughtful and considerate guy you are, might
choose to add a bit of depth.

Simply call your female friend of choice and ask her if she has any
particularly sharp friends who she thinks might not have anything
planned for New Year's Eve. 

Tell her she should invite one or two of them along...you know, just
to make sure they don't sit at home lonely.

Sure, your female friend might give you a response that indicates a
bit of jealousy.  If so, drop it...no big deal.

But in my direct experience it's far more likely that she'll just
LOVE your idea.  

If you think about it, by making such a suggestion you present
yourself as a guy who's probably not focused simply on getting her
alone later. 

Moreover, you occur as a man with a plan who's all about giving
women a sense of security.  Outstanding.

From there, you simply proceed to your planned New Year's Eve
destination with an entourage of cuties. 

After all, we know that fun, attractive women tend to have fun,
attractive friends--and those are the particular ones that SHE is
going to want to invite, hang out with and be seen with this Tuesday
night...right?

And believe me, since your female companion approves of you so much
already, SO WILL HER FRIENDS.

Plan on lots of positive attention from multiple women--and that only
STARTS with the women you brought with you.

Oh, and by the way...don't worry about getting alone with your main
squeeze later.  She'll be the one who makes sure that happens after
you drop the others off, if in fact that's how you want it.



2)  The "Easy Road" Can Indeed Be The Road To Success


You've got a great woman in your life.  Maybe you've been with her
for a while, or perhaps you've just met her...it doesn't matter for
sake of this discussion.

If that's the case, all I can say to you is THINK OUT OF THE BOX.

Or maybe I should say, "think INSIDE the box".
 
Either way, here's the deal.  Stop pressuring yourself to GO OUT
with her on New Year's Eve and STAY IN instead.

I'm gunfighter serious.  If you plan a New Year's Eve at your place
it could be the greatest night of your life.

Here's what you do.

Invite her over at about six or seven and cook an amazing dinner
for her...or with her. 

At dinnertime, take it slow and enjoy savoring every course.

Afterward, tell her you've got a great dessert but since you're
both still full from dinner it's best to save it for later.

Then, assuming you're in a neighborhood that lends itself to
walking around after dark, GO DO EXACTLY THAT.

Offer her your arm as you walk together--with you on the outside of
the sidewalk--and enjoy the Christmas lights around you.

All you need to do is walk around the block...that's more than enough.

If fate has smiled upon you, you live in a place where it's cold
outside without being ridiculously so.  As it turns out, that's a
thumbs-up this time of year for over half of you who are reading
this.

So when you return, naturally she's going to be COLD.

That's when--genius that you are--you wrap her up in a blanket,
stream a great movie from Netflix and go make some tea or coffee
on the fly while the titles start.

And yes...we're talking the caffeinated version here.  You'll need to
stay up pretty late, so 20/20 foresight is GOLDEN here.

When you return to the couch with the warm winter libations, it
will be absolutely natural to get close.

Importantly, there's no need to push here for "getting physical".
Just enjoy the movie.  You may get around to dessert, or you might
not...whatever.

After the movie's over, it should be getting pretty close to
midnight.  Go ahead and turn on whatever network's New Year's Eve
show you prefer and count it down together.

That's when you break out the bottle of sparkling wine.  Unless
you're a big spender, the $10 type from your local store will be
fine.  Try Barefoot Bubbly...everything from that vineyard seems
to be particularly decent for the price.

You may also want to go to Wal-Mart or Target and splurge seven or
eight bucks on a couple of champagne flutes.  That's a nice touch.

When 2012 happens, you toast the new year together...and you
absolutely KISS HER. 

In fact, If you haven't kissed this woman by exactly 12:01 am DO
NOT WRITE ME if you're confused why she ran out of the house and
slammed the door behind her.

Let's just say she's not there at that point--alone with you in your
home--because she hopes you'll "fail to deploy".

Okay, so once that's all done you'll have undoubtedly created one
seriously romantic setting, having been ramping it up all night.

She's GOT to be loving every minute of it. 

Maybe it's time to eat dessert then if the two of you are a bit
hungry by then, or maybe not.

But what happens next is the most magical part of the whole thing.

OBVIOUSLY, were she to drive home now she'd be sharing the road
with a bunch of drunks.  You don't want that, and neither does she.

So you show her you have her best interests at heart by telling her
she doesn't have to drive home, considering how dangerous it would
be.

Women tend to LOVE ready-made situations where they can completely
justify their potentially naughty actions...and blaming the impending
"sleepover" on drunk drivers is perfect.

BUT...just to make sure the two of you don't break out in a chorus of
"Baby It's Cold Outside", you volunteer someplace OTHER than your
bed for her to spend the night.

Yes, I realize this is amazingly counter-intuitive at every
level--including the fact that YOU aren't offering to sleep on the
couch. 

No worries...all of that will sort itself out as the scenario unfolds
before your very eyes.

But for now, just watch and wait for clear signs that she is JUST
FINE with you continuing the romantic progression of things.

In fact, now that you've given her NO DOUBT that you're ALL about
providing, protecting and acting in her best interest...she just
might physically attack you.

But notwithstanding that, if she's hinting that she doesn't
necessarily need a separate bed (and ANY hint is a solid one in
this situation, if that isn't obvious), simply smile and act as if
you're possibly going to "reconsider".

You might say, "OK...you don't HAVE to sleep on the couch, but you've
got to promise to be a good girl."

She'll either promise or she categorically won't.  The former is
good, the latter is even better.

Then, you say..."OK, but look.  I don't go to sleep without taking a
shower first.  But on a night like tonight, I'm thinking 'bubble
bath'.  Are you in or not?"

Money.  Be sure to bring the champagne along with the bubbles, if
you get my drift.



OK, maybe I got a bit carried away with that second one.  But it's
a brilliant option--especially if you're not much of a "partier".

Besides, I'll tell you straight-up that your effective leadership
might very well get the SAME end result as I have just described. 

Just don't wimp out on me (or her).

And hey, can you blame me for writing a newsletter AND planning
Tuesday night for Emily and I at the same time?  That's called
"killing two birds with one stone".

Anyway, if you're thinking you'd like to plan something similar for
your girl and yourself this coming New Year's Eve, you might be
feeling about now like you'll want to arm yourself with every shred
of information possible.

You know, just to make sure everything turns out PERFECTLY.

Well, I've actually got an inexpensive but comprehensive resource
on how to plan EVERY DETAIL of that perfect romantic evening for
two at your place.

That's my book Cook For Your Date, of course:



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I don't talk about it much in my newsletters because it's been out
for a few years now, but I have to tell you this could be my very
best work.  

In fact, Cook For Your Date has the highest customer satisfaction
percentage of any X & Y Communications e-book or program.

That's because what's in it is absolute, pure GOLD.  I give you
step-by-step plans that you really can follow--from beginning to
end. 

Plus, I give you fall-out-of-bed easy recipes for really impressive
and delicious stuff that's super easy to make--even if you can't
even boil water.

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By the way, whatever you do make sure you go with the foolproof,
killer dessert I recommend in the book.  It's a "nuclear weapon".

I've had more reports than I can count from guys who have
pronounced it the best tip in X & Y Communications dating advice
history...and they could be right.

Happy New Year to you guys in advance.  Whatever plans you decide
upon, enjoy.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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