[X&Y] Get A Great Woman In 2014...And Enjoy All The Surprise Benefits

Published: Tue, 12/31/13



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IN THIS EDITION:  What you can REALLY expect from having a great
woman in your life, and a little incentive to make it happen for
2014...

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MASTER THE ART OF TEXTING WOMEN


In today's newsletter I'm going to talk about two different
types of guys.

But did you know that when it comes to texting women there are
probably also only two camps that you fit into?

Seriously, it's one or the other.

Either you use text messaging to delight and enchant women
into dropping everything to be with you...

...or you can't understand why you NEVER hear from women again
once you start texting them.

Amazingly, some guys are the 2nd kind of guy, yet they've never
made the direct connection that it's their misuse of texting
that's been CRUSHING their chances with women.

So my question to you is this:  Are you SURE that you're doing
more GOOD than HARM to your fortunes with women every time you
pick up the phone and send a message?

Or do you sort of take a deep breath and hope for the best,
often with deeply frustrating results?

The bottom line is this.  You've GOT to get text messaging
right or you'll LOSE women you could have otherwise kept in
your life.

Period.  End of story.

Let that one sink in a bit.

So how can you master this mission-critical skill once and for
all?

Here's the best way I've ever seen to do that:



How To Text Women The Right Way



When you click that link above, you'll not only discover the
most POWERFUL and EFFECTIVE way to use text messaging with
women, you'll also be handed THREE TEXTS that you can get the
ball rolling with.

This is a "must see", for sure:



How To Text Women The Right Way



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GET A GREAT WOMAN IN 2014...AND ENJOY ALL THE SURPRISE BENEFITS


First off, today is New Year's Eve.  I trust you're well-prepared having
read the two GOLDEN newsletters I sent you about a week ago.

Let tonight represent the ultimate start to what promises to be a great
2014.

Right here and right now, as we stand here on the last day of another
year that'll soon be in the books, it's probable that your mindset can
be described in one of two very different ways.

First off, you may be completely frustrated by a continued lack of
success with women, and are starting to think I'm full of it for
suggesting that things could go any differently for you.

OR...you may be looking back on 2013 in complete, utter awe...amazed
at the transformation that's happened allowing you to enjoy the
company of more women than ever before (or even a great girlfriend).

With that very poignant thought in mind, I figured I'd share some of
the feedback I've been getting lately with you:

First, here's a note from Craig in the UK:



  "I emailed you a while ago thanking you for giving me the courage
  through your work not to settle but to break up with my girlfriend
  of 2 years, who although she was a great girl, wasn't my 10.
 
  Well, after breaking up (which was difficult!) I met a beautiful
  girl at the end of August and immediately we both knew this was
  IT!  We got engaged on Christmas Eve and I have never been
  so captivated by anyone. 

  She has beauty, character, intelligence, humour and believes (like
  me) that the guy should take the lead in the relationship.  I did
  this right from the start - planning dates, picking her up, being a
  MAN - and she LOVED it!
 
  What you teach works.  Character and being a masculine man who
  leads is what every girl wants deep down.
 
  Anyways, hope you and Emily and the kids had a great Christmas and
  that you have a great New Year.
 
  Thanks and God Bless."



Obviously, I'm thrilled for Craig.  But it's odd how just behind
Craig's message in my inbox was this anonymous unsubscribe message:



  "I accepted failure as a human being and gave up trying to have
  relationships.  I shall spend my days alone and childless.  Sux 2 B
  me."



Now I have to tell you, there's nothing I'd rather do than reach
out through the Interwebs and do whatever I could to convince this
guy otherwise. 

After all, based on what I've seen out there thus far, I find
myself believing that were you to take a look at Craig and Mr.
Anonymous side-by-side you'd see two perfectly normal guys.

The difference? 

One actually TOOK ACTION in his life and MADE SOMETHING HAPPEN. 

The other implied "trying", but "trying" and "doing" are two
different things. 

Think about it.  Whenever someone says, "I'll try", what usually
happens?  You got it:  NOTHING.

Granted, I could be way off base here about both Craig and Mr.
Anonymous being regular guys.

But I bet I'm not. 

After all, I've personally seen even guys with TREMENDOUS personal
challenges do amazingly well with women.

The bottom line?  Whoever you are, I can give you solid information
and coach you to greatness with women.  But I can't actually DEPLOY
for you.

Were I a skydiving instructor, I could show you how to "arch, look,
reach and pull".  But ONLY YOU can jump out of the plane.

So again, I believe 100% that you can achieve greatness with women.

I trust you do also, and that you are ready to get on with it...if
not already on that road trip.

Here's a surprise.  Today I'm going to tell you a great secret:  What
happens AFTER you've invited a great woman into your life.

Look at what I JUST received from Richard in Germany, even as I'm
writing this:
   


  "...if you haven't already, I would really love for you to cover the
  topic in the future of having a life besides women or a life purpose
  that is independent of women...or at least hear your perspective on
  this."



Well Richard, you've come to the right place.

The great secret I'm sharing with you today is called "The Leapfrog
Effect".

And here it is:  Once you have a great woman in your life, your
level of focus and execution when it comes to your true life purpose
is about to EXPONENTIALLY INCREASE.

Actually, your life purpose doesn't really happen independently
from having a woman in your life, but it is definitely AMPLIFIED by
her presence.

How's that for a mind blower?

Here's what I mean.  After my divorce in late 2002, I turned my
attention to getting better with women.

But the rest of my life was a MESS.

I won't lie to you.  My physical fitness suffered, my relationships
with friends suffered, even my career suffered.

But I accomplished the goal of getting a great woman in my life--
dating lots of women and continuously "raising the bar" right up
until when I met Emily.

But once I selected my "100 out of 100" (and those of you who have
read How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life know what
I'm talking about), THAT'S when I entered the latest (and current)
stage of my life.

Today I wake up in the morning changing more lives for the better
than I ever have.  My work is more fulfilling and my sense of
meaning clearer than ever also.

You see, when you recognize that it's time to get your level of
success with women where it needs to be, it's REALLY easy to think
that the be all/end all is having a great woman--especially having
read some of the misguided dating-advice that's out there.

I mean, some of them would have you think that getting ANY woman
would be the "be all/end all".

But here's the reality:  Once she's THERE, you then move on to
GREATER accomplishments with her as your cheerleader. 

So WHAM...It's as if you've barely had time to bask in the glory
of getting a great woman in your life, when you realize that
the true gift goes WAY, WAY beyond that.

YES...she most certainly fulfills upon what only a great woman
uniquely can.  In the bedroom, outside of the bedroom,
EVERYWHERE. 

She is the jewel in your crown as King Of All You Survey.

No "greener grass" elsewhere.  Ever.  That box is checked off
permanently.

And having a great woman in your life means PARTNERSHIP.  Like I
said, she's your cheerleader.  A great woman supports a great man
in his dreams and believes in his leadership.

This propels you to GREATNESS.  You are empowered by that woman's
utter belief in you, even as you dare not breach the trust
inspired by your leadership as a man of character.

Her inspiration is the fuel that feeds the engine of your ambition.

And, of course, the greater the woman the higher-octane the fuel.

End up settling for a woman who thinks "all men are dogs", and
you might as well fill your tank with tap water.

If she's the "jealous type", afraid of success or out to make your
lives miserable in some other way, pour a pound of sugar in the
tank with the tap water.

If you don't happen to be a car guy, let's just say "don't try
that at home".

So yes...getting a great woman in your life is an amazing feat of
accomplishment.  Make no mistake about it.

But in doing so, you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of where you'd be in just
about any aspect of life without her.

And you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of other guys who don't yet have that
partnership. 

It happens at work, on the basketball court, and even in in terms
of your LIFE EXPECTANCY.  Statistics prove that happily married
guys LIVE LONGER.

Now listen up.  I'm not telling you any of this to bum you out if
you haven't found a great woman just yet.

Quite the opposite, in fact.  I want to ENCOURAGE you that the goal
you're looking at isn't only REACHABLE, but that the STAKES ARE
BIGGER than you perhaps have ever imagined.

In short, this is SO WORTH GETTING RIGHT because "The Leapfrog
Effect" is SO PROFOUND as to affect every single corner of your life.

So here it is.  2014 will be here in under 24 hours.  Let's make
this year THE year.

In 2006 I made the same pact with myself.  I was enjoying dating,
but it was time to move on to a life with the greatest woman I'd
ever met.

So you can do this.  And I've got your back all the way.

I want to see YOU meet the greatest woman ever THIS YEAR,
and put "The Leapfrog Effect" into action for yourself.  

The only question remaining is, do YOU want this bad enough to make
it happen? 

If so, there's no stopping until the goal is reached.  Period.


Be Good,

Scot McKay

 
P.S.  You know, more dating experts and even PUA gurus than you
might think are married.  Some are even PARENTS (or soon to be). 

Yet, for some unknown reason they hide all that from their readers
...presumably because they think it'd "blow their cover".  In their
minds all guys (including you) are only interested in "getting
laid" and living a sort of Hugh Hefner-esque lifestyle forever.

Guys, don't kid yourself--what you are feeling in your soul to be
the right path (i.e. having a great woman in your life, having her
adore you, and leaving a legacy that really matters) is ABSOLUTELY
where it's at. 

Be the "one percenter" who deserves what he wants and you will be a
happy man also.  Don't think for a second that PUA training is any
substitute for that.

Remember, if you're ready to find a great wife--once and for all--
then contact me.  I have a new coaching program that's guaranteed
to make you successful:



scot@deservewhatyouwant.com




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