[X&Y] A Little Weekend Motivation (Letter From A Reader)

Published: Sat, 01/18/14


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Gentlemen:

It's not often that I cut and paste a success story directly
from my e-mail inbox into a newsletter.

For sure, every single day I get e-mails from you guys sending
along a quick thanks and/or telling me you've met your dream
woman.  I appreciate every single one of them.  Hearing about
your great results motivates the heck outta me.

But what you're about to read from Jason in Atlanta is simply
too inspiring (and too well written) to pass up.

Now, let me warn you ahead of time.  If you're just starting out
on the road to getting better with women, your first impulse
might be to resent Jason's success.

And if you indeed feel that twinge of resentment coming on as
you read what follows, all I can say is RESIST that urge.

I'm sharing this with you because I believe YOU can tell a
story similar to Jason's in the relatively near future.  

In fact, I just might believe in your success more than even
YOU do at this point in history.  That's been known to happen.

But that's why I do what I do, and why I wake up excited to
go to "work" every morning.  I know first-hand what the light
at the end of the tunnel looks like, and now so does Jason.

So let his story empower you to greatness with women... 


 
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LETTER FROM A READER


Hey Scot,

The other day I was sitting around thinking about how far I've come
in terms of dating and how working with you had skyrocketed my
confidence.  
I'm sure you remember when I first came to you, had gone through
a bad breakup, and had plenty of trouble getting over her.  It was
definitely a low point for me in terms of dating.

Since that time, I can't tell you how things have changed.  

You always mentioned people routinely don't complete the 10
Ten-Plus sessions with you.  I'm going to say do it.  Complete all 10.  
Because no matter how good you think you are and how far you have
come, you can always improve in one area or another.  Even if you
are already dating a girl, you can always tweak things.
The great thing about all of this is I went from being a semi-
chooser/chaser who would give my power away, to a chooser who
keeps my power and invites girls into my world if I choose.  It
only keeps getting better.  
In the last 4-6 months I now have friends trying to set me up with
girls, girls approaching me, and am no longer afraid to walk up to
a girl and start a conversation.  Very empowering.

Oddly enough, I now know how it feels for a girl who constantly has
guys pining for her attention.  Believe it or not, so many
beautiful, intelligent women out there have ruined their chances to be
with me, just by acting needy.  
I now look for a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't
automatically give her power away.  

Subsequently, I've found one.  This girl was top 15 in the Miss Kentucky
pageant, been ranked as one of Atlanta's most eligible people,
attended an Ivy League University on a full scholarship, has a
successful career and is extremely comfortable with herself.  

Not only that, but she has openly come out and said, "I get to be the
one in charge in my day to day life, I like it that you take charge
and lead the relationship." 

She also openly supports my career pursuits and so far has been
behind me 100%.  In addition, I'm still in a place where I have
control over my feelings, and I know if it doesn't work out I have
many, many options.  

She's expressed to me a few times (a mature communicator), she's
ready to move forward.  This is all just the tip of the iceberg.

I'm sure you get a lot of success stories, but I thought one more
wouldn't hurt.  It's taken many years of hearing all these things about
your inner game and confidence, but now I finally know what it feels
like.  

Change isn't for the faint of heart, but if you're strong enough to
tackle it, it's well worth it.


Best,

Jason (Atlanta, GA)



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Needless to say, this really did make my day.  

By the way, one thing Jason DIDN'T mention that I happen to know
is that he dated an Atlanta Falcons cheerleader along the way,
also.  

Probably the most important part of what he DID mention, however,
is the very LAST thing he said.  Getting to where he is now took
some serious introspection and he didn't get there in an instant.

But it's like I've always said.  I promise never, ever to teach
anything just because it sounds good--as if it's like pressing
the "easy button"--if it doesn't really WORK in the real-world.

For sure, there are some amazing changes you can make that will
indeed help you out very quickly.

When it comes to deserving what you want and meeting the
greatest woman you've ever met, though, it does take some effort.

But yes...you CAN do this.  

Imagine the feeling Jason must have had while writing that e-mail
to me.  Follow the right path and you'll have the life you want
also, and I've got your back every step of the way.
 

Be Good,

Scot  McKay




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