[X&Y] More On How To Have Amazing Social Skills
Published: Tue, 01/28/14

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WHAT'S INSIDE: Yesterday I shared a golden secret to amazing social
skill. There's more...
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MORE ON HOW TO HAVE AMAZING SOCIAL SKILLS
In yesterday's newsletter I gave you some golden secrets to having
the kind of social skills that, in the immortal words of Dale
Carnegie himself, "win friends and influences people".
Just for good measure, here are some other thoughts on the subject...
all pertinent.
1) A "needy" or "clingy" approval-seeker's primary problem is that
he is still in his own head, rather than considering others first.
"Neediness" means he is preoccupied about getting his own needs
met.
The one who is willing to prioritize GIVING validation over
RECEIVING validation is the one who is more likely to GET
validation and approval. This is because such approval is a REWARD
rather than something that is demanded.
2) Similarly, RESPECT cannot be demanded effectively any more than
approval. He who respects himself enough NOT be anyone's doormat
can in turn respect others accordingly. The desired level of respect
is therefore naturally earned in a "bloodless coup" of sorts.
Contrast this with "badboy" guys who "command" respect through fear
and intimidation. The "respect" afforded them is hollow and
therefore unfulfilling, especially from women.
3) "Manipulation" is the fake shadow of effective social skill.
It's an imitation, exactly as quick-fix pickup techniques are an
"imitation" of genuine manhood in a social context with attractive
women. The manipulator should only expect to effectively
manipulate "doormats" who will have no real foundation for
bestowing respect, as we've already noted.
In other words, "manipulation" cannot bring about genuine respect
or approval...only disingenuous imitations thereof.
4) The manipulator is self-serving, which is a perversion of
self-respecting in every sense.
The manipulator's mindset is not evolved enough to realize that ham
fisting one's desired results on one's own terms can only--at best--
result in the effect the manipulator himself envisions.
There will be no creative "pleasant surprises" from others that are
outside of his own expectation.
Meanwhile...
5) ...He who respects self and therefore others finds that his social
rewards are lavished upon him by others on THEIR terms, which very
often exceeds imagination's grasp. Such rewards are typically BETTER
and MORE EXCITING than any outcome that could have been manipulated.
So by definition, this experience far exceeds any potential hollow
"fulfillment".
All of the above, when considered together, should describe once and
for all why sex-focused men often complain that women are "dead lays".
Wham...how's that for a wake-up call?
Similarly, now you have a clear picture as to why the man who
provides leadership with confidence, direction and genuine positive
concern is the one guy you'll NEVER hear complaining that "there
are no good women in [insert his own country here] nowadays".
He operates with a clear conscience. He naturally draws the
adoration and respect of those around, especially highly desirable
women.
It is he who understands how it is a man becomes a chooser versus
a chaser.
He deserves what he wants.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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