[X&Y] Grant Finlayson Sits In For Scot McKay
Published: Fri, 11/02/07
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Hello Everyone:
By the time you read this, Emily and I will be
on our last full day of the honeymoon before
flying back to the US. With that in mind,
today's newsletter features the second
installment of my "guest writer" series.
Grant Finlayson is from the UK and is one of
Europe's premier dating coaches. He and I often
think a lot alike, and Grant was one of the
very first high-profile guys to give a strong
vote of confidence to my first book Deserve What
You Want.
You already know I tend to respect guys in the
"dating coaching" business who are effective
family men. Grant is right there with the best
of them. And hey, Grant, keep your 8-year-old
son with the charming British accent and the
professional mack-daddy training away from my
7-year-old daughter, will you? Haha.
Oh...and PLEASE remember that Grant's opinions
are his own. Your regularly scheduled program-
ming will return after I'm back in the country.
Enjoy!
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Make Her Laugh
-by Grant Finlayson
TODAY'S TIP:
A little while ago, my eight year old son came
to me and asked "Dad, how do I get a girl to
like me?"
(aaaaaaw)
Now, obviously I can't give him any of the
usual dating advice as he's only eight years old
but it brought it home to me that some of the
best things in life are the simplest.
"Make her laugh" I said.
After all, every decision anyone ever makes is
tied to how it will make them feel (or how they
THINK it will make them feel). This is the basis
of people making a decision that will make them
move away from pain or towards pleasure.
You know, it's true what they say...
girls just wanna have fu-un!
So today's tip is about making people laugh but
if you have difficulty with this then here is a
back-up:
Make others smile!
How?
YOU SMILE FIRST!
Smiling is contagious. Go ahead and spend some
time frowning and scowling at people and notice
that you will be ignored.
Then spend the rest of your life smiling at
others and notice how many others will reciprocate,
strangers will say hello, others will start
conversations with you out the blue. You have just
received a refresher on how to make yourself TEN
TIMES MORE ATTRACTIVE.
Check out the 'wet her pants' link on my website
for a GREAT read:
http://www.datinganswers.co.uk/wet-her-pants.html
Until next time,
DO UNTO OTHERS - THAT WHICH YOU WANT DONE TO YOU.
Be funny,
Grant.
http://www.datinganswers.co.uk
P.S. What's you're most burning questions...?
email me - grant@datinganswers.co.uk
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