[X&Y] The Password Test
Published: Thu, 09/20/07
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IN THIS EDITION: Women want you to 'get a clue', guys...literally.
Today we give an example of how exactly she might find out whether
you have one or not...
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And now, on to today's topic, born as often is the case directly
from one-on-one coaching sessions with guys...
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THE PASSWORD TEST
Remember the classic old-school game show? If not, take a few
minutes and watch this vintage YouTube clip:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdqMzfk7wuo
The object of "Password" of course, was to take a simple verbal
clue from your partner and correctly guess what the secret answer
was. The catch, of course, was that you couldn't use a form of the
word as a clue. If your partner got the "password" right, then you
won the round. If not...then the competing duo got a shot.
Popular for literally decades, the intrigue of the show was largely
built on the viewer's anticipation of hearing the right answer vs.
the feeling of incredulous frustration when certain contestants
failed to get it right even in the face of apparently obvious
clues. How could these players be so, well, clueless?
Close your eyes and you can hear host Allen Ludden exclaim for the
10,000th time, "Nooooo!...Back to you, Betty White."
Well, obviously when we spend time with a woman we're getting to
know the conversations don't typically take place in single-word
increments...hopefully. Nonetheless, it's important for most women
to get a real handle on what kind of guy she's out with. She wants
to know how he thinks. What his attitudes are. Whether or not his
persona is compatible with hers. Most of all, she wants to know
what kind of character he possesses.
Clearly, she can't come right out and ask a guy objectively about
these things. All she would get are the telegraphed answers he'd
guess she wanted to hear. That doesn't cut it. Instead, a woman
needs a more subjective way to figure out whether the guy can "get
a clue" or not.
So, essentially, what she does is run her own version of the
"Password" show. And make no mistake: this is an ingenious,
highly effective thing to do. Here's an example of how it might go:
Her: "You know, the last time I was on a date we were out late and
the guy drove me home. He got to the front gate of my apartment
complex and dropped me off there. I walked back to my building
from there."
Him: "Well, you're a big girl now. He knew you could fend for
yourself."
Allen: "Nooooo!...Back to you, Jack Klugman."
To the other side the password goes...
Her: "You know, the last time I was on a date we were out late and
the guy drove me home. He got to the front gate of my apartment
complex and dropped me off there. I walked back to my building
from there.
Him: "Not on my watch would that happen. My style is to walk you
to your front door and drive away only after you are safely inside."
Allen: "Yes!...You control the board."
In the given example, the woman is able to learn a lot of what she
needs to know about a man by presenting a hypothetical situation
and discovering how he would respond. And make no mistake--there
are indeed right and wrong answers.
Remember, as always, the Big Four. Women want a man who is
masculine, confident, inspires confidence (including a sense of
safety in his presence, which was key to the example above) and
possesses great character. If you bring a level of excitement to
her life that was absent before she met you (not to be confused
with the uneasiness of traipsing through the apartment complex's
parking lot at 2am), that's a bonus.
Women may often use indirect means like The Password Test to find
out in a very real way exactly what kind of man you are. This may
come in the guise of any number of specific scenarios, but always
in a similar format to the example I've provided. Keep a vigilant
eye out for it.
Get The Password Test right and you may not end up driving away
from her front door so soon after all. Get it wrong and she goes
to Jack Klugman instead. You don't want that. So get a clue...and
deserve what you want.
Be Good,
Scot
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