[X&Y] Is THIS What A Masculine Role Model Should Look Like?
Published: Fri, 02/21/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Today's man is in crisis. We've somehow lost our
field-vision regarding what being a man truly is supposed to looklike. And is it even our fault? After all, more of us than not
don't even have a solid example to follow.
But the high quality women of the world sure wish we did. Read on...
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IS THIS WHAT A ROLE MODEL IS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE?
Recently I had the rare and highly sought-after chance to go over
some market research done by MTV networks.
In it, the state of the modern man was broken down into fine detail.
I mean, this research must have cost hundreds of thousands of dollars
to produce.
Yet there it was...on my desktop. Obtained by purely legitimate
means.
And after devouring page after page, one of the findings that
literally jumped off the screen and latched onto me like a pit bull
was this:
"Over 50% of all North American men, across all socio-ethnic
demographics and regardless of age, DO NOT HAVE AN IDENTIFIABLE
ROLE MODEL."
Let that sink in for a while.
In other words, most of us have NO IDEA what a real man even looks
like.
The more I thought about it, the more I started to realize that
MTV's money might actually have been well spent. As hard as it is
to admit, I believe what's written in their report to be an
accurate statement.
Being immersed as I am in what I do for a living, I've found myself
thinking a lot about that haunting statistic as I look around at
what's being taught out there. We're being told that the
"yardstick" by which we might measure "success" as a man is the guy
in a bar or club who can get the most phone numbers.
And outside the Seduction Community?
Whoever is the NBA MVP, hip-hop artist du jour or actor in the
latest action flick is who we tend to hold up as wanting to belike...at least for the moment while we're watching that particular
"channel".
It has been over twenty years now since then NBA all-star
Charles Barkley proclaimed "I am not a role model", therebystirring controversy.
Given the intent behind Sir Charles' words, I don't see where the
"controversy" is. As he basically said, he's not supposed to be
raising other parents' kids...THEY are.But even today nothing has changed. We still behold guys who do
cool OUTWARD stuff, and decide they're the ones who we want to be
like.
And the guy on TV, the silver screen, the basketball court--or yes,
the club--can't teach us how to be a man.
They can only do something we wish we could do. It's all "outer
game".
So what do we do? We try to emulate what we see, and even if we
are successful at doing so we're still left EMPTY.
That's because deep down within us, at our inner core, nothing
changed.
Listen, it's no joke that more and more high-profile pickup-artists
and seduction teachers are doing things like GETTING MARRIED and
FATHERING CHILDREN.
That's because after you master pickup, and after you realize you
can get phone numbers, you're still left wanting MORE.
And in this case "more" means a history with a great woman. Having
that great woman back you 1000% in your ambitions. And maybe even
having the legacy of a great kid or two.
Let me tell you, watching my boy Scot Jr. grow up as clearly a
"chip off the old block" is as sobering as it is amazing.
I love watching him grow and do terrific things. It's immensely
rewarding.
But the sobering part is that it's UP TO ME to make sure he doesn't
become a "statistic".
One of the most meaningful things to me in life is that my boy is
going to have a true role model, even if it takes all of my energy
to be that guy for him.
And you know what? As long as I breathe oxygen (and probably
beyond) the die has been cast. That boy sees me as his role model
ALREADY whether I like it or not.
The craziest part of all? Watching me interact with my son makes
Emily hot. Wow...it's like catnip.
Why do I tell you this?
Because if YOU want to start making women want you--and I'm talking
about GENUINE high quality women of character here--then you'd
better not be a "statistic" either.
You have got to rise above average. Because "average" hasn't a CLUE
what real man looks like.And, following logically, "hasn't a clue" turns off high quality
women.
Do you want to know why women are joining together in the battle
cry of wanting their men back? I've just explained it to you.
But here's the good news. It's never too late to go back in time
and recover what is belongs to you already...your birthright as a manwho was BORN to attract women:
Seriously, gentlemen. You can't "be like Mike" and expect that to
be enough.
If you want to be a woman's HERO--and if you want to be your son and/or
daughter's HERO someday--you've got to be a REAL MAN at the core.Consider the greatest men in history.
They weren't the fastest runners. They weren't the ones beating
their chest the hardest. And they certainly weren't the ones with
the biggest scrolling LCD belt buckle at the nightclub.
They were the confident, masculine men of character who knew how to
empower those around them. They knew how to handle tough
situations...and did so.
They knew how to make everyone around them feel just a bit better
about themselves. And they knew how to inspire confidence...
not just in women, but even in their fellow men.And world-class women loved them for it just the same.
Nobel laureates. Heads of state. Captains of business. Changers
of the world. All "big four" guys like I just described.
I've now had more reports than I can count on both hands that The
Master Plan is something "every man should have the chance to hear".
So right now, I'm going to make that happen. Through the weekend
only, I'm going to give you The Master Plan for 50% OFF the regular
price:Just use the coupon code "mp50" on the order page and click
"recalculate" to see the savings appear before your very eyes. And if The Master Plan has the impact on you that it has for
literally every other man who has acquired it already, you'll want
to go through it multiple times until you've really, truly made a
dent in becoming the ULTIMATE version of your authentic,
masculine self.Let's just say it'll become a core resource for you for years to
come.
So why am I doing this?
Listen man, I'm a fellow traveler. I'm just the messenger,
learning more day by day about how to apply the message.
But the message is clearly this: Being a "man" on the surface
doesn't count. You've got to have seen the example of REAL MANHOODand made the effort to make it your own.
PRESENCE trumps PERFORMANCE every single time.
Women don't care what you can do. They want to know WHO YOU ARE.
And being a "big four" man is what's going to propel you above the
fray of the "clueless" every single time. True, real-world
greatness is found there.
It's what makes a high quality woman hot for you, and it's what's
going to make your son someday want to be like you.
Don't let them down.
And I'll talk to you again soon. Have a great weekend.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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