[X&Y] What To Do If She Says You're Not Her "Type"

Published: Thu, 02/06/14




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IN THIS EDITION:
  Sometimes a woman we like won't like us in
return.  We may feel "rejected", but is that really what happened?

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BETTER THAN "BODY LANGUAGE"


A while back I introduced you to Rob Brinded in an episode of The
Chick Whisperer podcast.

Let's just say you were REALLY, REALLY glad to make his
acquaintance.

When I personally first met Rob, it was in person at the Summit
2010 conference where we both were on the list of speakers.

He was a nice enough guy, but I have to admit that as I listened to
his presentation I thought what he was teaching was flat-out weird.

In fact, I thought he was "off his rocker" to be perfectly frank.
I even TOLD HIM SO.

But finally I got over myself and TRIED what he was talking about
myself.  All I can say is WOW...it works:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/rob



Since I told you about Rob months ago A BUNCH of you have given his
ideas a try also.  And you've consistently been BLOWN AWAY by the
results.

And hey...isn't ANYTHING new and innovative almost always perceived
to be a bit "out there" when it's first rolled out?  But sooner or
later if it WORKS, people catch on, right?

That's most definitely the case most of the time, and this is no
exception.

So what's the big deal?  Why are Rob's ideas so groundbreaking?

Simply stated, Rob is an expert in HUMAN MOVEMENT.

And this is WAY, WAY beyond mere "body language".

What Rob is going to do is show you how to tweak how you MOVE so
that you'll be INSTANTLY more attractive to women.

It's in how you walk. 

It's in how you carry yourself. 

Whenever you are in MOTION, you're either ATTRACTING women...or
you're not.

Think that sounds crazy?  Well, how about this.  The next time a
woman catches your eye, consider how much HER movement has to do
with it.

Women who walk like a man are LESS attractive.  But women with that
smooth, fluid, almost feline hip motion make us WANT THEM, don't
they?

Rob's breakthrough?  Women respond to how WE move in an EVEN MORE
POWERFUL way than how we respond to how THEY move.

You already know that FIRST IMPRESSIONS are all-important.  A woman
will notice HOW YOU MOVE and make an instant, unconscious judgment
call based on THAT ALONE.

It all adds up to one conclusive truth:  You've GOT to get this
handled.

If that makes sense to you (and it should), don't miss this video
where Rob explains all:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/rob



And by the way, if you remember having seen Rob's Code Of The
Natural program before, rest assured you haven't seen the LATEST
version.

Rob's added some seriously powerful new content, made his
world-class secrets dramatically more affordable, and set things up
so you can get all of his content RIGHT AWAY.

He's got something going on just for you as a subscriber to this
newsletter, and it won't last very long.  So enjoy the video and
take a good, honest look at Rob's system:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/rob



You want something original that gives you an edge over other guys?
I'd say Rob's system is an excellent example of exactly that.



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WHAT TO DO IF SHE SAYS YOU'RE NOT HER "TYPE"



So you get the nerve to approach a woman, introduce yourself, and
maybe even have a scintillating conversation.

But when you get around to the part where it's time to make plans
with her, you hear the following:  "I'm sorry, but ...you're just not
my type."

You feel "rejected".  After all, she definitely was YOUR type...but
you got no interest from her in return.

Conventional wisdom would dictate that you somehow messed up.  You
were too "nice", or too nervous, or not masculine enough to ignite
her femininity.

You may even wonder to yourself if you somehow creeped her out.

Well sure, it's a good idea to run through the file cards asking
ALL those questions.

But what if your "game" checks out?  What if you're all but certain
you got everything right?

You could really start beating your head against the wall.  But
guess what the issue might really, truly be? 

It might be that, um...you're just not her type.

That's right.  You didn't do ANYTHING wrong.  Nothing is YOUR fault
here.

Now admittedly, scenarios like this are particularly unnerving if
you're not exactly used to approaching a lot of women.

It can be really easy to believe that a woman whose boat you don't
exactly float is actually speaking for ALL women.   But even if
some chick is rude enough to say something to that effect to you,
PLEASE rest assured that nothing could be further from the truth.

Here's the deal.  I'm on record with my personal opinion that over
half of the women on any given list of the "100 Hottest Women On
Earth" (or similar) do absolutely NOTHING for me. 

Tons of other guys have told me the same thing.

That's because if your "type" happens to be "girls next door",
petite cuties, "librarian" types or anything BUT leggy supermodels
with fake boobies, frankly, your opinion is going to be sorely
under-represented by the likes of FHM and Maxim.

And THAT'S OKAY.

Uma Thurmann and Heidi Klum probably couldn't care LESS that I have
no idea what any man sees in them.  That's because my opinion
decidedly does NOT speak for every other man on Earth.

Not every woman can be my type, nor can every woman be your type.

So why do we have such a honkin' difficult time accepting that
women are wired just like we are in that regard?

Go ahead.  Accept it.  It'll be okay...and here's why.

The bottom line is that any human being's taste in MOTOS (members
of the other sex) is very likely to make ZERO sense to anyone
else.

Try this sometime.  Get women to talk about famous guys--movie
stars, musicians, sports figures, etc.--they're attracted to.  Then
watch in amazement as they totally disagree with each other.

What they say will often surprise you.  I've heard preposterous
things.  One young woman I know told me she "carries a
huge torch" for Bob Ley from ESPN.  Bob Freaking Ley, of all
people.  If you don't know who he is, Google him.

Some will like long-haired hippies and others will like "emo"
dudes. 

Others will rattle off a list of guys who turn them on who
ostensibly have NOTHING in common with each other.

I remember there was one woman I dated who was genuinely crazy
about me, but her "celebrity crush" was Rasho Nesterivic--the
Slovenian center for the Toronto Raptors at the time.  The guy is
seven feet tall.  Go figure.

Yeah, sure...the guy who might have the highest percentage of what
I'll call "sexual favor" from women just might be that generic,
"Ken doll" kind of guy. 

That's because there's no reason NOT to like him.  He's GENERIC.
He's a DEFAULT choice.

But here's what I've found.  Even when women actually DO go out
with "Generic Handsome Guy", they generally get BORED.   I know
more guys like that than I can count who can't get second dates.

So don't think for a second that you'd rather be that guy than the
best, most authentic version of who you REALLY are.

The simple truth is that in this life anyone or anything that tries
to appeal to EVERYONE usually ends up appealing to NOBODY.

If EVERYONE approves of your "message", it's probably not honest,
groundbreaking, edgy, intriguing or exciting enough.  If you get
no complaints whatsoever, it's probably because your deal (or
yourSELF) is just straight-up bland.

You can't be attractive to every woman.  But the best news ever is
that you most likely don't WANT to be.

Be that unique guy who stands out and let the women who CRAVE your
"type" make themselves known.  Their passion toward you will be
much greater than any "Generic Handsome Guy" will ever experience.

Mark my words on that.


Be Good,

Scot McKay


P.S.  The new episode of The Chick Whisperer Podcast will be
released tomorrow.  Man, is it ever a weird one.  Wait until
you hear it...




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