[X&Y] How Much Does Your Leadership REALLY Matter In A Woman's Eyes? (You Might Not Believe This)
Published: Mon, 02/10/14
IN THIS EDITION: Women are hard-wired to follow your lead. It's
time to consider the full-on ramifications of that...and they'reHUGE. Read on...
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YES...WHAT THEY SAY THEY'RE DOING OVER THERE IS 100% TRUE.
AND IT CAN BE TRUE FOR YOU TOO.
When I first told you about Daygame.com a while back, I started
getting messages in my inbox wondering aloud things like, "Hey
Scot, those guys seem pretty impressive...but can they actually get
the results they're claiming?"
Others of you were saying, "Those are some of the boldest claims
about meeting women I've ever heard. Is this for real?"
Yes. Andy and Yad are the real deal. I've said it before and I've
just said it again.
Basically, they've devoted their ENTIRE FOCUS to meeting women in
places other than bars and clubs. Actually, you can cancel the
word "basically" from that last sentence. This is ALL they
do...period.
So you can definitely put any doubt aside. Not only do these guys
demonstrate step-by-step how exactly to meet women the way they do,
they go so far as to give you VIDEOS proving it works.
The Daygame Blueprint is the result of several years of honest-to-
goodness field testing.
It wasn't released until they were sure that everything they knew
was in it, and that everything they were teaching flat-out works.
See for yourself now before it's too late. (By the way, it's NOT
like Andy and Yad are "Mr. GQ" or anything, either):
They stand behind their program with a 100% money-back guarantee.
I know these guys personally. Not only are they good at what they
do, they're good for the guarantee if you disagree.
In all seriousness, though, I strongly suspect that you'll be
thrilled with Daygame Blueprint and the results you get from it.
This is hands down THE definitive program for guys who just aren't
so into the bar and club scene:
By the way, I've got a solid bonus for you this time around.
Order Daygame Blueprint from a link on this page to support this
newsletter and the podcasts, and I'll send you a sweet, full-version
copy of The Man's Approach to go with it.
That's a $97 value unto itself, of course. Just email me your
receipt: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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HOW MUCH DOES YOUR LEADERSHIP REALLY MATTER IN A WOMAN'S EYES?
I'll never forget one first meeting in particular with one of the
many different women I met online.
She was giggly and fun; very feminine with an almost "innocent"
quality. That's all pretty amazing and intriguing to see in a
single mom, no doubt.
After about ten of fifteen minutes, though, her countenance changed
as she began to talk about her ex.
This is almost always a bad choice of subject matter for first
meetings, but in this case I can understand why she felt like I
needed to know some things sooner than later.
Long story short, she was actually not divorced...only "separated".
That's a deal-breaker for me and there was not to be a second date,
but I heard her out in the moment nonetheless.
You see, she really couldn't get a divorce because they couldn't
FIND her husband. They couldn't even figure out if he was alive or
dead, frankly.
Sometime after his face got posted on the wall at the post office
by the FBI for being an interstate fugitive, he sort of vanished
into thin air.
"Probably to Mexico", she offered.
For her part, she was simply glad the law never caught up with her
as well.
After all, though she had been a "church girl" growing up, her
husband had somehow gotten her to work directly with him
trafficking his illicit whatever-it-was back and forth from South
Texas to NYC and LA.
I mean hey, that's a long drive to make by one's lonesome, right?
So as his loving wife, she obliged his request to help him. She
loved him--and probably still did the day she met me--so responding
to his leadership was the natural thing to do.
Protecting and providing for her and the kids (!) was HIS job,
after all. However he proposed to get that done wasn't HER problem;
at least that's how she saw things.
Truth be told, that train of though is typical among women,
although I'll be quick to point out that lots and lots of high
quality women would draw the line before jumping into the "Bonnie
and Clyde" lifestyle.
Still, the whole scenario I just described serves as a poignant and
jarring reminder that women really, truly are HARD WIRED to follow
a man's lead...especially a man they love.
Simply stated, this puts a TON of responsibility squarely into your
hands once you start attracting women like the "big four" champion
you should be.
I could probably stop here and the message of the day would be loud
and clear: Make sure you're LEADING women into a place that's in
everyone's best interest...especially hers.
But far be it from me not to give you a few practical examples of
how all this tends to play out in more "normal" situations.
Consider the following, which I'm coming up with at random here.
If and when you have a woman in your life, do you often get
frustrated with her and call her an "ugly [b-word]" in anger?
Don't be surprised when in six months or a year she really IS both
physically hideous and a raging virago.
Think you can manipulate her into sticking around by poking at her
self-esteem, telling her she's "nothing" and so forth? If so,
you're likely to have a woman in your life who is completely devoid
of what self-respect she used to have sooner than later. That
certainly won't make you happier with her.
Are you the jealous type who constantly accuses her of having
flirted with or even "been with" other guys...even when she's simplyreturning from the supermarket? Don't come complaining to me when
she cheats on you.
Do you find yourself with a woman who is more beautiful than you
ever expected to deserve, so you consider getting her pregnant as
quickly as possible so she'll "need you" and stay forever? You'd
better realize you're encouraging her to become a needy leech
rather than having any sense of independence whatsoever. Is that
what you really want?
Meanwhile, however, I've also known guys who have built up and
encouraged the women in their lives to think more highly of
themselves, take better care of themselves physically and even try
new and adventurous things.
Astoundingly, such women went from the "almost but perhaps not
quite" level in the minds of those guys to their true "100 out of
100s".
It's a heavy thought, but you've just GOT to ask yourself, "Where
am I leading the woman in my life?"
This is not only about your responsibility to a woman you allegedly
care about. Your own happiness and personal satisfaction lie in
the balance too, don't they?
"Deserving what you want" really is a transferable skill...and one
you can lead women to believe in as well.
Be Good
Scot McKay
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