[X&Y] Keep THIS In Mind If She's Not Returning Your Calls
Published: Thu, 03/06/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Sometimes it's really, really important to
remember that tons of women know the same things YOU do about how
to keep MOTOS interested. And yes, it all works...
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WHAT WAS THAT YESTERDAY?
What I sent you yesterday created a LOT of intrigue...especially
with regard to the "x-ray vision" line.
I've been getting a barrage of messages over the last 24 hours,
some with a simple "thumbs up" but most basically DEMANDING I
explain that in more detail.
But first things first. YES...what you're looking at will be the
first all-new X & Y Communications program you've seen from me in
over a year:
Sneak Preview: Behind Closed Doors
It's called Behind Closed Doors and it's official release date is
March 20th.
Note that it will be made available exclusively to you as a
newsletter subscriber on that date. I made sure you will be one
of the first guys on Earth to get your hands on it.
Rest assured, it's going to have every bit as much heart, soul and
energy behind it as any of the previous seven major programs I've
done for you.
So then, what about the "x-ray" stuff?
Well, I'll let you in on a bit of a secret. It was only after the
lion's share of Behind Closed Doors was already produced that a
stunning realization occurred to me.
Actually, truth be told it hit me like a ton of bricks.
Once ANY man is in on what's in this program, an almost instant
transformation is going to take place.
If and when you're one of them on March 20th, you will NEVER look
at women the same way. And I mean that quite literally.
After the briefest of interactions with ANY woman, you'll be able
to SEE her sexual nature with crystal clarity.
Seriously, sometimes you'll gain a full and complete understanding
of it simply by OBSERVING her for a couple of minutes.
You'll know her wants, needs and desires...and you'll already know
what she'll be like in bed.
Now obviously, this is the functional equivalent of SUPERPOWERS.
Only you're not going to have to wear a cape or anything.
And YES...in case you're wondering, every bit of this is "white
hat" all the way. Women WANT you to know this stuff.
So I'm sure you can see why I'm more excited about Behind Closed
Doors than I've ever been for any other X & Y Communications
project in the past. I seriously mean that.
No doubt, what I've told you so far is just scratching the surface.
Whenever I produce a program I go all out, and this is no
exception. I'll be sure to let you in on more of what you can
expect from Behind Closed Doors as we approach March 20th.
For now however, let's just say you can plan on the very first plan
of action EVER for bridging the gap between dating advice and
full-on sex advice.
Very soon you'll see the full impact of what that means and how it
can revolutionize your world view on women and sex.
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IMPORTANT: KEEP THIS IN MIND IF SHE'S NOT RETURNING YOUR CALLS
If you know the basics when it comes to attracting women, you
already know that it's a KILLER to be too available to a woman.
Were you to call her too often "just to say hello" and/or text her
multiple times a day for no apparent reason, it would inevitably
trigger a psychological impulse in her head that you're pouring a
LOT of energy into her.
And for some crazy reason, it's overwhelmingly likely that that
she'd start thinking--even if subconsciously--that she just might
be able to do better than you.
That would be because you're just too, well..."easy to get".
You probably already realize that being less available WORKS, which
is why you DON'T call her and/or text her 50 times a day.
And if you've achieved even a small amount of success with women,
you've seen something even MORE amazing happen. When you stop
pursuing her so fervently and give her the chance to miss you some,
it's AMAZING how much she starts thinking about you.
That's right...she becomes MORE intrigued by you and MORE attracted
to you.
So here's the part I don't understand. How, then, can it be that
even guys who know perfectly well why they themselves should lay
back and play it cool with women get FREAKED OUT when the woman is
less available herself?
Seriously. I get e-mails from guys who are completely up in arms
over the fact that the woman they've been out on a couple of dates
with lately hasn't returned the voice mail they left last night (or
even earlier that morning).
Guys, guys, guys...get a hold of yourselves. Know this: Women are
being taught the EXACT SAME STUFF you are.
In fact, I'd argue that women are taught the lesson on how to "play
hard to get" even MORE often than men. That's like "Section
1, Line A" in the dating advice handbook for women, isn't it?
I'd go so far as to say a good number of them instinctively
know better than to throw themselves at you without anyone even
having to TELL them so.
So yes. When you find yourself interacting with a desirable woman
and hanging out with her some, it's altogether probable that SHE
knows the ropes as well as you do.
So RELAX, man. Give her a day or two to get back to you.
Whatever you do, don't give in to the temptation to lose your cool
and call her a second time hammering her for not returning your
message.
If she's still interested in you, she WILL call you back in due
time.
And if you DON'T hear from her within, say, 72 hours you can assume
one of three things: 1) You threw a wrench in the attraction
process somewhere, 2) you're not her highest priority or 3)
she's into "playing games" with guys.
Here's the thing. If you DO hear back from her eventually and
everything's still cool with her, you can rule out the first
option.
From there, it's up to you to discern whether you need to ramp up
your charm factor as a "big four" man or move on to the next option
you have. My gut instinct says that if you don't see any other
signs of "game playing" on her part, then you should assume the
former option is in order.
So there you have it. Once you put the proverbial shoe on the
other foot, how best to proceed becomes obvious, doesn't it?
Before I wrap this up however, now would be a great time to reflect
on something very important.
The strategy of being less "available" flat-out WORKS, doesn't it?
It's not just another useless theory. When a woman plays "hard to
get" she really does get inside your head, huh?
Well, let this be a subtle reminder of what makes us as human
beings more alike than different, regardless of gender. We're not
talking here about understanding women per se as much as
understanding people in general.
So from now on go ahead and give a woman the equal right NOT to be
needy and clingy, especially during that all-important "get to know
you" stage.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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