[X&Y] The Secret To Sexual Fulfillment (And It's Simple)
Published: Sat, 05/03/14
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Does it seem like the more you try to get women to
have sex with you, the less sex you're actually having? Here's why
that is...
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"BUT ONCE SHE'S ACTUALLY HOT FOR YOU, THEN WHAT?"
As you'll soon see below, in this newsletter I'm going to give you
a powerful solution for truly igniting a woman's sexuality like you
wouldn't believe.
But when you're done reading, come back to this section and click
on this link for sure:
How To Give Women Incredible Pleasure
Actually getting a woman more interested in you sexually is one
thing, but following through with exceptional performance as the
most MASTERFUL lover she's ever had is something else.
This is my #1 recommendation on how to be that guy:
How To Give Women Incredible Pleasure
...And just to confirm what you probably already suspect is true,
it's VERY, VERY GOOD to be that guy.
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THE SECRET TO SEXUAL FULFILLMENT (AND IT'S SIMPLE)
Being in the business I'm in, and being a man, I'm often asked by
guys how to get women to have sex with them.
Ironically enough, my answer typically involves some iteration of,
"Well, genius, stop trying so hard to get them to have sex with
you."
Be that as it may, as many of us have encountered time and again in
life one of the most oft-repeated blunders in the business world is
"if something isn't working, do twice as much of it".
Such a ham fisted redoubling of efforts tends to turn up from time
to time in the dating world also, doesn't it?
Particularly, it seems, this happens when guys aren't getting women
to agree to all of the sex they want as early and as often as they
had hoped.
Yeah, well. "Hope" is not a strategy.
Sure, male or female, we are all sexual creatures. But there is SO
MUCH more depth to us all.
Perhaps ironically, that's exactly the key to being more sexually
fulfilled.
And therein lies today's point. Make sure you are ready for this
one, too. It's something you've never heard before (and I major in
that sort of thing, if you're just getting acquainted with this
newsletter).
Here it is:
Men who prioritize raw sexual fulfillment over actually enjoying a
woman's company in a more holistic sense are almost universally the
LEAST sexually fulfilled people I know of.
Is this attributable to the old theory that "the more you chase
something the more elusive it becomes"? Maybe in part, but there's
much more to it.
Okay, then. Is it because most women are wise to such motives and
don't give in? Unfortunately, that's not it either. Plenty of
women these days are more than okay with casual sex.
Well, what IS IT already?
The answer lies in the very telling likelihood that the guy who
views women as walking life support systems for their vaginas is
the VERY SAME ONE who constantly kvetches about how all [women] are
"dead lays" with absolutely zero sexual skill, drive or creativity.
Bad sex = Low fulfillment
But here's the thing. I submit that maybe the problem ISN'T the
women.
Come on now, you can't really believe that all women are passive,
asexual and/or even frigid, can you? Well, maybe if that helps you
sleep at night.
But really, why should a woman's full sexual potential be
squandered on a guy who, when it comes down to it, is USING her?
Make no mistake. It won't be.
Show me a guy who has a healthy respect for women, and furthermore
actually ENJOYS women...and I'll show you a guy who's partner is so
fired up in the bedroom (and the kitchen, and the closet, and the
shower) that the smoke detectors had better be disconnected.
Most women know all too well that one man's "dead lay" ("D/L") is
another man's "Siren/Vixen" ("S/V"). And men who focus on "getting
laid" at the expense of everything else a woman potentially has to
offer him don't experience "S/V"s so much.
In fact, some have seen such a steady pattern of "D/L"s that they
refuse to believe "S/V"s even exist outside of porn.
Go and try to figure THAT out. And when you do, deserve what you
want.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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