[X&Y] 12 Phrases That Mean You've Won Her Heart
Published: Tue, 04/15/14
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WHAT'S INSIDE: It's one thing when a woman is attracted to you.
It's another thing altogether when she's so hooked on you that
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12 PHRASES THAT MEAN YOU'VE WON HER HEART
I think it's almost archetypal in our society to believe that it's
impossible to understand MOTOS (Members Of The Other Sex).
You know the drill. Women can't figure us guys out, so they say.
But how can this be? After all, we're so "uncomplicated" in our
own minds, right?
Meanwhile, for our part, we go around using words like "enigmatic"
at best (or "friggin' crazy", at worst) to describe the women who
touch our lives.
Yet, women all over the fruited plain shrug their shoulders. In
their minds, they too are easy to understand.
Well, even though we'll never be able to see light from the
opposite gender's eyes, I believe we can nonetheless know when
we've come close to hitting the mark when it comes to truly
knocking their socks off.
Here are the first six of one dozen phrases a woman might use when
she has been truly blown away in the best possible way by the man
in her life.
Sure, lots of women may say some nice things to you from time to
time, but we're talking about the real "clinchers" here--what they
say when they've lost all self-control with regard to playing "hard
to get".
This time we'll focus on words a duly impressed woman may utter to
you shortly after you meet her. Here we go...
1) "When Can I See You Again?"
It's always a good idea to leave a woman wanting more on a date.
If she's asking this question, you've succeeded at accomplishing
exactly that.
In fact, if she's bold enough to make such a statement, she may
already be flat-out obsessed. In that case, you could go on a
72-hour date and she'd still not want it to end.
Remaining at least slightly less "needy" and "clingy" here is all
it takes on your part. Hopefully, that won't be an issue for you.
2) "Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?"
If you are being asked this question, theory may already be
crossing over into reality in her mind. Answer with care, big guy.
Perhaps not by coincidence, this question is often closely followed
by the following one...
3) "How Long Do You Think People Have To Date Before They Get
Married?"
She's likely got visions of white picket fences dancing in her
head. Not that fences can dance.
But you may be left dancing around the issue if you hear this
question very soon after meeting a woman. Take it for the
compliment that it is, though. She is already impressed enough to
be thinking long-term.
One caveat: We're assuming a woman here who isn't leading a life
of "quiet desperation" a la Henry David Thoreau, natch. If she's
got options, rest assured you're first-impression was more like a
head-on collision.
4) "You Haunt My Dreams, {Firstname}."
Regardless of the exact words she uses, if she's literally dreaming
of you at night, you're in like Flynn. This example was chosen simply
because it happens to be my personal all-time favorite.
Come to think of it, an even more powerful message here would be
spoken as, "You haunt my dreams, {firstname lastname}."
5) "I've NEVER Been Kissed Like THAT."
This statement is usually leveled after the fact with a somber if
not downright melodramatic tone, occasionally followed after a long
pause by, "...EVER."
Good job, tiger. You've successfully ignited her femininity in a
way a real man should. Be careful playing with that kind of fire
though, you just might "melt" her.
In case it's not overtly obvious, any similar expression that's
heard during or after any stage of sexual "escalation" carries
similar gravitas. Especially if she reiterates her sentiments
later after a "cooling off" period.
6) "Can I Bear Your Children?"
Ah yes. Nothing says, "I'm completely, irrevocably smitten" like
this particular statement. Especially when spoken relatively soon
after meeting you.
After all, she has clearly abandoned all hope of left-brained
thinking if she's even talking about taking on an 18-year
commitment (at least) on your behalf. I mean, can she even be
sure you will "be half" at that point?
I once had a girlfriend who became particularly frisky when the
term "make babies" was used. So the conceptual power of this
thought in a woman's mind must never be underestimated.
Shortly after #5 above is uttered would be a good time to watch for
this one, kind of like 2 am is a good time to watch for meteor
showers.
By the way, this is not to be confused with "I'm having your baby".
It must be future tense to qualify.
Think I missed one? Drop me a note at scot@deservewhatyouwant.com.
Meanwhile, I'm already hard at work compiling the finalists for
Part Two, which will feature the six phrases a woman you've known
for a long time will use to let you know that you've not only won
her heart, but stolen it away for keeps.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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Come to think of it, an even more powerful message here would be
spoken as, "You haunt my dreams, {firstname lastname}."
5) "I've NEVER Been Kissed Like THAT."
This statement is usually leveled after the fact with a somber if
not downright melodramatic tone, occasionally followed after a long
pause by, "...EVER."
Good job, tiger. You've successfully ignited her femininity in a
way a real man should. Be careful playing with that kind of fire
though, you just might "melt" her.
In case it's not overtly obvious, any similar expression that's
heard during or after any stage of sexual "escalation" carries
similar gravitas. Especially if she reiterates her sentiments
later after a "cooling off" period.
6) "Can I Bear Your Children?"
Ah yes. Nothing says, "I'm completely, irrevocably smitten" like
this particular statement. Especially when spoken relatively soon
after meeting you.
After all, she has clearly abandoned all hope of left-brained
thinking if she's even talking about taking on an 18-year
commitment (at least) on your behalf. I mean, can she even be
sure you will "be half" at that point?
I once had a girlfriend who became particularly frisky when the
term "make babies" was used. So the conceptual power of this
thought in a woman's mind must never be underestimated.
Shortly after #5 above is uttered would be a good time to watch for
this one, kind of like 2 am is a good time to watch for meteor
showers.
By the way, this is not to be confused with "I'm having your baby".
It must be future tense to qualify.
Think I missed one? Drop me a note at scot@deservewhatyouwant.com.
Meanwhile, I'm already hard at work compiling the finalists for
Part Two, which will feature the six phrases a woman you've known
for a long time will use to let you know that you've not only won
her heart, but stolen it away for keeps.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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