[X&Y] When Your Life Gets Disrupted, Do This
Published: Sun, 06/08/14

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WHEN YOUR LIFE GETS DISRUPTED, DO THIS...
It's pretty normal to view whatever causes disruption in our lives
as a great big hassle.
Among examples, the first "biggie" that comes to mind is relocating
to a new city. Not only is moving a bummer in and of itself, but
your entire life is literally uprooted. Your job, your social
circle, everything...including your routine.
But is having your normal, rote way of doing things flipped upside
down really such a bad thing?
If you're like most guys, you've probably gotten all-too
comfortable...if not completely set in your ways.
You've been waking up at a certain time, going to a particular
coffee shop to get your morning brew and driving on the same street
to get to the same old office.
And at night you come to the same apartment and watch the same
shows on TV. Geez, you probably haven't even rearranged the
furniture since, well...ever.
So no doubt, when confronted with the Specter Of Relocation, panic
can easily set in.
It feels like you might be losing just about everything that has
helped you feel at home for so long.
The IT world tends to use the word "disruptive" to describe a new
technology that will change people's thought processes in a good way.
I'm going to make the radical suggestion that the VERY SAME premise
holds for life itself in many, many ways.
Your move to a new city represents a chance to BREAK bad habits and
replace them with new and BETTER ones.
Let's face it, your lifestyle as you currently know it will be
vaporized once you're handed the keys to your new place.
So why not join that massive fitness club two blocks away? You've
been meaning to get into better shape, even as you've been telling
yourself to get out there and meet more women.
And now that there's not a McDonald's so conveniently located on
the track from office to home, why not change your eating habits?
Better still, since you're in a new city with a ton of new stuff to
discover, why not actually get out of the house in general a bit
more often?
Why not make good use of Meetup groups and the like to meet new
people and build your social circle?
Instinctively, you already know every bit of what I'm talking about
here is a fantastic idea. The trick is to make sure you get on
all of it FAST...as in the day after you move in and get a good
night's sleep.
Yes, seriously...you need to make it that high a priority.
Otherwise, your new routine is going to fall into place without a
whole lot of thought.
And you can bet the "brain dead" version will NOT be as focused, as
healthy or even as FUN as the one you've intentionally designed
with a plan in mind.
So, do you need a full-on relocation to make all of this happen?
Not necessarily.
I wouldn't wish health setbacks on anyone, but they're certainly
disruptive. It may be a psychological blow to get into an
accident or receive less-than-optimal blood test results from the
doc.
How many people have cited those dark events as life changers
months or even years later? Plenty.
And then there's divorce, of course. That represents a giant
wrench in the works to your family life and indeed to your
relationships with women.
Some marriages break up pretty suddenly, and perhaps for reasons
that aren't exactly our fault. It's crushing at the time it
happens, and the pain takes its sweet time to heal.
But yes, you CAN move on. And YES, life can be better than you
ever thought possible sooner than later.
I can promise you that because I've walked down that road myself.
I've also been laid off from my dream job only to realize just a
few years later that it was one of the best things that ever
happened to me.
I've been put on meds by my doctor that I wanted OFF of as soon as
possible, which motivated me to start thinking about my health more
than I did when I felt young and invincible. That too is a good
thing.
Sure, disruption is stressful stuff, at least in the
short-term...which is why most of us would just as soon avoid it.
But the next time your life gets "disrupted", see the forest for
the trees and recognize the real, actual opportunity that exists
there for you.
This is no Pollyannaish pep talk here. Very often comfort is
what KILLS.
But when you're finally knocked out of your sanctuary of
familiarity, you're given the gift of motivation to make
changes that you just may have never gotten around to otherwise.
A better social circle, a healthier lifestyle and even
higher-quality women await. Let's hear it for disruption.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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