[X&Y] Do This ONE Thing And Be More Attractive Immediately
Published: Sat, 06/14/14
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IN THIS EDITION: One of the best ways to IMMEDIATELY improve your
attractiveness to women is to get out of the habit of being a"complainer". Here's why...
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STOP COMPLAINING AND BE MORE ATTRACTIVE IMMEDIATELY
I've got a somewhat disarming surprise for you. The title of this
newsletter isn't simply some "rah rah" statement meant to serve as
a one-liner pep talk.
It's the actual solution.
The point-blank truth is that if you're in the habit of finding
fault in most everything and then ranting about it, then women
aren't going to find you interesting at all.
While it's true that "negativity" is a general turn-off for just
about everyone, that's not even the whole story.
In a woman's eyes, the problem with men who are "complainers" is
that they appear HELPLESS.
They occur as lacking PERSONAL POWER.
That's because the "complainer" gets frustrated and bent out of
shape over something that he perceives he either can't change or
doesn't even want to deal with at all.
And if he can't handle life's trivial challenges, then he's
obviously in no condition to be a protector and a provider.Yep...it all comes down to that once again.
So this is very, very real. The VERY MOMENT you make the decision
not to complain about things, you improve your chances with women.
Set a mental trigger in your mind so that you immediately catch
yourself whenever tempted to launch into a negative tirade on some
trivial thing.
Whenever the "alarm" goes off whack yourself upside the head. Make
it stop.
Now, as usual there IS a twist to this whole conversation, however.
Men who constantly paint on a "happy face" no matter what--even when
something "negative" is going on--are every bit as unattractive to
women as "complainers" are.
That's because when the chips are down and something "bad" really
is going on, if you pass it off as a non-event and keep smiling
women will be flat-out disgusted.
Again, this is because you'll be perceived as LACKING POWER.
You'll be like the ostrich who buries it's head in the sand
believing that the problem has "disappeared".
So as you can see, the concept of "negative" people being a bummer
aside, the major issue here really lies in coming off as impotent
rather than willing and able to lead.
A "big four" man differentiates himself from both "complainers" and
"ostriches" by acknowledging when a problem exists, calmly
accepting the reality of the situation and MOST IMPORTANTLY
suggesting a solution and implementing it.
There you go: The "tipping point" between unattractiveness and
making women hot for you in this case comes at the moment you
suggest a proactive PLAN and seek to execute upon it.
Unattractive men "complain". The guy who is "all talk and no
action" makes women roll their eyes.Meanwhile, attractive men recognize problems and solve them.
They're the "heroes" to high quality women everywhere.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. You know, every bit of what I discussed here applies not only
outwardly but INWARDLY as well.
We live in the "How are you? I'm fine" culture where everyone is
expected to present themselves as "perfect" to the outside world.
But when we fail to address what would build our own character
and/or expertise--either due to a cavalier attitude toward it OR
frustration--we're STUCK with our shortcomings.
By far the most "fatal flaw" we can have is to be either
unteachable or apathetic regarding our faults, because THEN we're
stuck with all of our faults forever. That's a sobering thought,
for sure.
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