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WHAT'S INSIDE:  You've heard it time and time again..."Don't be a
wimp".  So then, what's the opposite?  That would be a man who is
bold and courageous. 

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So what's it all about?  24 hours from now it'll all be
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6 TYPES OF INSTANT COURAGE THAT DRIVE WOMEN WILD


We spend a lot of time around here shining the light on "hidden
detractors". 

By this I mean anything that could possibly be keeping you from
meeting the kind of women you want to meet and/or having total
control over continuing the relationship when you so choose, but
which you haven't quite got a handle on yet.

I believe that one of the darkest such "hidden detractors" for
many guys involves Failure To Deploy in the area of courage.

That's right, simple courage.

Courage, as it turns out, is an overarching theme that quite
literally pervades a man's being.

When you successfully inspire confidence in a woman so that
she feels safe and comfortable in your presence, which is one
of the "big four", you have essentially--by definition--succeeded
at assuring a woman of your own personal level of courage.

Boldness relates to confidence, but what exactly does it require
be courageous in the particular way that that women find
irresistibly attractive?

I'll give you a hint:  It's NOT found in the Jeff Foxworthy moments
when we tell everyone, "Hey y'all, watch this!"  Nope, meaningless
foolishness is a turn-off to women, as is "showing off" purely for
the purpose of impressing them.

Careful also with equating courage with an outright lack of fear.

It's better defined as "proactive fear management".  Ask any
Formula One driver, for example, whether being "fearless" is a
good idea.  "Fearless" people die, at least in that context.

So here we go...a half-dozen ways to eliminate wussification forever
and execute with strength:
 


1)  Courage When It's Expected As Obvious


If most garden-variety human beings can stand up to something, so
should you.

It's not unusual to have phobias, even irrational ones.  But know
this:  If you are afraid to fly, cross bridges or take the elevator
you will NOT inspire confidence in a woman who likely has no such
trepidation.

Your ability to inspire confidence takes a direct hit when you are
afraid when even most women are unfazed by.

It's crucial to grasp this concept accurately.  Nobody is asking
you to drive in an ice storm, tail rattlesnakes like freakin' Steve
Irwin or even eat food off the floor.

But if you throw a hissy fit when a bee that you aren't even
mortally allergic to flies within five feet of you, and the women
surrounding you go, "Um...dude, what's the big deal?", those are the
times you know you have to learn how to get over it.



2)  Courage When Faced With The Unknown


What happens when there's a question mark ahead?  Do you hold your
head up and boldly face the music, or do you thrust your head in
the sand and procrastinate for as long as humanly possible?

One key example, made hilariously famous by George Lopez in a stand
up routine of his, of this is when a guy knows he has a medical
issue but refuses to see a doctor. 

Knowing the doctor could tell you any number of things ranging from
the innocuous to the devastating, you really should go anyway and
get it taken care of. 

"It's better not to know...besides, they'll charge me for
everything!" is funny when George Lopez says it, but would
demonstrate to a woman in your life that you are a complete coward
were YOU say it.

If you know the company is announcing layoffs today, you go to
work and face the music.  Whatever it is, unless it's armed and
deadly and you are not, you deal with it.

Women love the initiative and the leadership it takes to do that
--even in instances where the outcome isn't what was hoped for,
believe it or not.



3)  Courage To Accomplish What Motivates You


I don't know how many guys I have heard talking about what they
dream of doing, or where they dream of going...quickly followed by a
phrase beginning with the word "but".

"Oh man, I'd LOVE to go to [insert exotic destination here].  But
what if I got arrested and thrown into jail or caught some weird
illness while there?" 

"Wow...I'd LOVE to get a motorcycle license.  But I'm really afraid
I'd crash."

All this is BORING to women, who are all-too-often often craving
MORE excitement in their lives than LESS. 

I'm wracking my brain, but I believe I've NEVER suggested that a
woman join me for something adventurous and have her flatly refuse
...as long as her confidence was inspired.



4)  Courage When The Chips Are Down


When it's "fight or flight", women are counting on you to keep a
level head and make the right decision.

Like an NBA all star wants the ball when his team is down by a point
with five seconds left on the clock, you should likewise seek to be
the decision-maker when a crisis looms.

Whether it's a family issue, a job loss, a car accident, a spider
in the bathroom or a weird sound in the middle of the night, you're
a man who takes the proverbial bull by the horns.



5)  Courage Among Men


If you are consistently dominated by and generally manhandled by
bolder men around you, women will not be impressed by your passivity.

Have the courage to suggest ideas, take leadership in the face of
ambiguity and remain reasonable when foolishly provoked.

Nothing inspires confidence in a woman more than this.  You aren't
starting bar fights, but you ARE standing your ground and refusing
to be a doormat.

Of course, there's one final linchpin that all of the first five
examples are predicated upon...



6)  Courage Towards HER


You must not be afraid of the WOMAN herself. 

This means that you approach her and talk to her that first time
you meet her without trepidation, which in turn will help her feel
at ease with you.

This also means you don't kowtow and "kiss up" because you are
afraid of either losing her favor or making her angry.

And it especially means that you don't soft peddle every last
original idea you have lest you offend her or disagree with her
opinion.

Most guys are deathly afraid of making women emotional.  You have
to understand that women are more upset by your cowardice in telling
the truth than by your honesty, as long as you keep her best
interests at heart. 



I mentioned that lack of courage is often a "hidden detractor".

Seriously, in this day and age of safe cubicle jobs and couch
potato lifestyles it's deceptively easy for us guys to completely
miss the fact that we are even lacking in this area.

Make no mistake--women have a sixth sense for this stuff.  So
building genuine courage, backed by solid reasoning skills, should
be the goal of every man.

But here's the thing.  I could give you a set of rules to follow.

I could give you a checklist of things to do that might allow you
to, at least for the time being, fool a woman or two into thinking
you had it all together.

But ultimately, the checklist would fail you.  You can't be
fumbling for notes when a situation calling for genuine courage
comes up.

I can't think of a better example of why honestly becoming the kind
of man who genuinely deserves what he wants will trump the "quick
fix" approach.

Every.  Single.  Time.

If you have been following these newsletters, you already know that
courage is just one of endless examples of what drives women wild,
but which also cannot be faked.

Unless you become the man women crave, life will continue to be one
"hidden detractor" after another.  You'll fix one only to have
another jump out at you.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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