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WHAT'S INSIDE:  As crazy at it sounds, you may very well have been
barking up the wrong tree your ENTIRE LIFE in an effort to attract
women...especially if we're talking about an ex-girlfriend you really
want back.

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WIN YOUR EX BACK


Do you miss your ex-girlfriend and want her back so much it hurts?
Are you worried about the fact that sooner than later she'll be
sleeping with another man?

As a man facing an angry or disinterested ex, you know that
getting your words or methods wrong right now might mean
the difference between getting her back or watching her
walk out of your life...gone forever.

You already know I'm not easily impressed, but my friend Mirabelle
Summers really has the definitive "last word" on this particular
subject:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/2ndchance



If you don't do something soon, she WILL meet another guy who
clicks all the right buttons for her the way you USED to.

The sad part is that you'll have been every bit as worthy as he
is...had you only had the right plan of action from the very start:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/2ndchance



Look, don't give up just yet.
 
Even if she already HAS met someone else, it's still not too
late...but you have to get yourself out of "neutral" and into
high gear.

Fair warning:  This is an alarmingly accurate but gut-punching
account of how to make her attracted to you again:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/2ndchance



By the way, if you already have a girlfriend you want to keep
around for a while, what Mirabelle is saying might even be MORE
important for you to hear. 

You know what they say:  20/20 foresight (aka "wisdom") is
ALWAYS more useful than 20/20 hindsight (aka "regret").



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THE #1 WAY GUYS BLOW THEIR CHANCES WITH WOMEN
   

The other night I was on the phone with a truly great guy who's
going through a tough time in his life right now.

In fact, he's going through exactly what I was describing above.
Despite being a man who's got just about every logical strength
going for him in this life, the love of his life has left him.

And needless to say he really, really wants to get her back.

Well, we experienced a breakthrough while talking that I really
felt was potentially valuable enough to share with ALL of you.

And guess what?  Stay tuned because what I'm about to spill here
applies whether you've got an ex you want to win back, a woman
you're currently seeing or simply a woman you'd LIKE to start
dating.

It's that foundational to creating and sustaining attraction.

Here's the deal.  By now you know I talk a lot about the importance
of being a "big four" man.  

You know, that guy who's confident, masculine in the way women
define it, able to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in his
presence, and who has strong character.

You've also heard me discuss the whole idea of being a high
quality man instead of doing a series of items on some checklist
in order to create attraction, right?

The bottom line?   You just can't TALK any woman into being
attracted to you.

In other words, you just can't focus your energy on appealing to
her sense of REASON and expect to get anywhere when it comes to
relationships.

That's because at the most fundamental, baseline level attraction
is a FEELING rather than a THOUGHT PROCESS.

In that respect, it's much like a religious argument whether or
not a woman is attracted to you or not.

Imagine a devout Catholic and a Sunni Muslim sitting down together
to debate whose worldview is more worthy of lifelong faith.  

Can you imagine either one of those guys successfully converting
the other to his way of thinking during such a conversation?

Most likely not.  If you've ever been handed a pamphlet exhorting
you to change your religious belief on the spot, you don't need me
to tell you it probably wouldn't work.

The truth is that if you want to convert the masses to your way
of believing, you've just GOT to live your life in a way that makes
others NATURALLY WANT to be more like you.

In other words, it's all based on EMOTIONAL response rather than
LOGICAL debate.

Guess what?  Getting a woman to like you is EXACTLY like that.  In
essence, if you'll pardon my rather rough analogy, you really are
out to convert her.

Stay with me here--especially you guys who'd like to reunite with an
ex-girlfriend, because what I'm giving you here is GOLDEN.

Most guys go HORRIBLY WRONG in such instances by trying to use PURE
LOGIC to win the heart of a woman.

But that's just not how it works.

She may even already know in her MIND that you're a "nice guy",
that you have a good job, that you'd make a nice daddy for her
future kids, or even that you're handsome, play guitar really well,
etc.

But until she "feels it" for you, all of HER logic will be tied to
supporting her EMOTIONAL state of mind.

You've got it.  Everyone--man or woman, actually--tends to make
decisions regarding what they want to do or don't want to do based
on how they emotionally FEEL about the whole thing.

Then, the logic is applied accordingly.

Said another way, people make EMOTIONAL decisions...and then attempt
to SUPPORT them with logical reasons.

Maybe you yourself have done this in the past.  Perhaps you wanted
a new motorcycle, and came up with reasonable excuses for
spending the money on what is an entirely unnecessary purchase.

Or maybe tickets to the big game were dropped in your lap, which
happened to fall on the same night as a previous commitment.  You
likely rationalized why you should go to the game instead.

This is exactly how women are processing their feelings for YOU. 

And importantly...it's why good women end up with men who are WRONG
for them, even as a "great guy" or two is left on the sidelines to
watch.

Women either LIKE YOU or they DON'T LIKE YOU.  Seriously, it's as
dead-simple as that.

Like vs. dislike is that emotional decision.  From there,
whatever sense of logic they have falls into line with their
emotions.

As such, trying to talk a woman into liking you will NEVER, EVER
work.

Now, here's an extra-critical point that I don't want you to miss.

It absolutely matters not whether any particular woman seems to
have a rational ability to make good decisions, or otherwise.

In fact, she can be downright flaky, if not completely irrational
and impossible to predict.  Heck, she can even be flat-out
clinically insane and living in a wholly separate reality of her
own.

NONE OF THAT MATTERS because whether her logic is flawed or not,
it's ALL going to be aimed at supporting her emotional mindset of
LIKING you or NOT LIKING you.

Can you grasp that?

I've personally watched guys spend hours and hours dissecting and
analyzing a woman's thoughts, words, actions and even behavioral
patters in an attempt to make the right chess move to get her
back into their lives.

It's as if by figuring out how her logical mind works, they'll
somehow crack the code to DOING the right thing to get her to
DECIDE to come back...or decide to go out with him to begin with, if
that's the applicable scenario.

As you might imagine, the more irrational a particular woman's
thought and behavior patterns tend to be, the more frustration a
guy is going to experience trying to figure out what to say or do
to get her back.

But the problem is that she will never, ever DECIDE anything
relative to her level of attraction for you.

As David DeAngelo used to say, "Attraction is not a choice".  What
I've now done for you is give you a "logical" reason why it's all
about emotional feelings.

Figuring out what to do in response to a woman's moves, what to
say, what action to take, whether to call or not is all utterly,
completely IRRELEVANT vis-à-vis getting on the right side of that
emotional decision.

As such, 100% of your attention should be given to being a "big
four" man who will naturally cause a high quality woman to crave
you. 

To be sure:  Any woman, be she logical or illogical will either
LIKE YOU or NOT.   The secret is to get her to LIKE YOU at the
emotional level.  Then the logic (or lack thereof, for that
matter) WILL fall into place. 

It's about BEING instead of DOING.

Stop trying to figure her out or to talk her into why she should
be with you. 

Rather, live as a man who makes women horny without them even
understanding why themselves.  That's the only way to go.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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