[X&Y] The Top 6 Limiting Beliefs: Eliminated Forever
Published: Mon, 07/21/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Every single one of us has battled limiting
beliefs. They crawl inside our head and tell us we can't deserve
the kind of woman we want.
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NO, SERIOUSLY. YOU SHOULD BE MEETING WOMEN ONLINE.
A while back I had a nice conversation with a former Sports
Illustrated swimsuit edition COVER MODEL on Twitter.
I am not making this up.
If you think I'm going to tell all 53,000 of you who it was and let
the last six or eight creepazoids left on my list hammer her and
embarrass us all, forget it.
But if you really want to know, Twitter streams are public info and
the record exists. She's a sweetheart, and I ended up introducing
her to Emily. Go figure...
The point is this: If I'm getting supermodels to respond to me on
Twitter when I'm NOT EVEN FLIRTING with them, then my guess is that
you should probably get your hands on Online Dating Domination.
When you consider that I met a former Miss Texas USA contestant,
the world's sweetest kindergarten teacher, the hottest flight
attendant at Southwest Airlines, over 100 OTHER amazing women AND
my wife Emily on dating sites as well, you can begin to see why
I'm so convinced.
Other guys I've worked with have met former contestants on The
Bachelor, Olympic gymnasts, the local TV weather girl, NFL
cheerleaders AND NBA cheerleaders online also.
Seriously, you need to be in on this, once and for all.
The choice is yours. Let's see:
1) Sit at home and play X-box wishing you had a woman to hang
out with. (While a bunch of other guys are out with women even
as you fantasize about it.)
2) Pay to get on Match.com and quit in frustration after 90
days of futility--even when the secrets to wild success were
available to you all along. (Ouch.)
3) Dominate your metro area on the dating site of your choice
(or even Twitter AND Facebook, if you'd rather), and get ALL
the women for yourself.
Which is it going to be? If you chose option "3", then here's your
link:
Online Dating Domination 2.0 + Your Choice
And here's something completely different (by request of MANY of
you).
When you grab your copy of Online Dating Domination 2.0 I'll even
give you your choice of any other program of mine to go with it.
How's that for a stellar 2-for-1 deal?
All you have to do is specify your choice of The Master Plan, The
Leading Man, The Man's Approach, Virtuosity, The Difference or
even Behind Closed Doors in the space provided on the order page
and I'll send you BOTH programs for the price of one.
In fact, I've even got a little extra pleasant surprise in there to
sweeten things...but you'll just have to see what happens after you
hit the "recalculate" button.
I'm only keeping the doors open on this most excellent of
opportunities for the next 48 hours only.
Here's the conclusion I've come up with. If you are unwilling to
ACT FAST to gain mastery in online dating, then you probably will
just let the program gather virtual "e-dust" on your iPod even if
you DO get it.
But if you REALLY sense the opportunity and are ready to make
online dating success happen, you'll be all over this...
especially since I'm handing over a SECOND complete program of
your choice to go along with Online Dating Domination 2.0.
Need all the information on what's included first? Of course you
do, because there's A LOT there. I've got your back:
Online Dating Domination 2.0 + Your Choice
Remember to specify which other program you'd like for me to
send you for free in the appropriate space on the order form.
And with that, let's flip the light switch on limiting beliefs and watch them scurry outside through the hole in the screen door
...where they belong.
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THE TOP SIX LIMITING BELIEFS: ELIMINATED FOREVER
So how about it? Are you ready to put aside some of the excuses
that have kept you from meeting women?
I realize that seems like a rhetorical question, but believe me--I
talk to guys every day who would appear to be more comfortable
clinging to excuses than really, actually succeeding with women.
It's true. But since you're reading this newsletter, I'm going to
continue on the premise that you're ready to truly get this stuff
handled...as opposed to simply talking about it to assuage yourself.
Fair enough?
Right on. With that, welcome to an objective discussion of what
very well could be haunting YOU every single day in your journey to
greatness with women.
Here are a half-dozen super-common limiting beliefs that almost
all of us face, along with a quick solution for making each
respective one DISAPPEAR:
1) "I'm Not Good Looking Enough"
As much as we're told looks don't matter to women, you'd think
we'd get the message.
But we don't.
Why is that?
Simply put, we as guys tend to default to an understanding of
women's thought processes as if they were dead similar to our own.
As we've talked about before, the irony is that we go around
thinking like this even as we say "women are impossible to
understand".
Guys tend to pre-value women based on their physical appearance,
therefore we assume that women do the same. But women indeed view
the world differently.
Bottom line, you can look around you and see guys who would appear
to have been buffeted repeatedly about the head and shoulders with
an ugly stick--make that an ugly SHOVEL if you will--in the company
of GREAT women.
And those women adore them.
Overweight? Undertall? Bald? Same thing.
For sure, do the best with what you've got. Women appreciate that.
But if you represent the "Big Four" to a woman, you really can
become the most debonair man she's ever had the pleasure to behold.
Your core masculinity, confidence, character and ability to inspire
her confidence IS flat-out beautiful to her.
2) "I'm Not Rich Enough"
Even in the face of cold hard facts, SO MANY guys continue to
believe that only rich guys get amazing women.
First of all, if the only reason you ARE getting a woman is because
of your money, you're in for a tough life. Need I say more?
But again, look around. Plenty of guys who can't rub two cents
together have great women.
In the immortal words of Allen Iverson, "It's not about the money".
In sports, whenever you hear that it REALLY IS "about the money".
But this is a whole different ball game.
Money can be a by product of ambition. Money also tends to
demonstrate that you could potentially provide security for
a woman and any kids you have together.
But it's the AMBITION ITSELF that tells women you have a plan
...one that they can hitch their wagon to.
And the reality of making a woman feel safe comes from your
CONFIDENCE and CHARACTER, not from your wallet. Really.
High quality women are looking for you to represent security to
them. Even if you DID have millions of dollars, that alone
wouldn't cut it for them.
You become the "Big Four" man a woman craves, and all she'll care
about is living a great life with you holding her and telling her
everything is going to be okay.
And if she BELIEVES you when you tell her that, it really wasn't
the money.
3) "I Don't Have The Right Personality"
Every person is unique. Like a diamond. This alone means that
there can't possibly be one, single personality type that attracts
women.
If you think about it, the simple fact that WOMEN are all different
means that each one is going to have unique tastes...just like you do.
Yet, this doesn't stop guys from thinking that women ALL want "life
of the party" guys if they're NOT that guy.
Meanwhile, I hear from very outgoing guys who firmly believe they
need to tone it down because women apparently want the "strong
silent type".
What gives? Are we ALL the wrong type of guy?
Come on, man. That CAN'T be true.
And we especially can't ALL be wrong for ALL women.
Whoever you are, you'll attract the women whose personality type
you mesh with. That's a good thing. So why stand in the way of
it?
Stop pretending you need to do a 180 and deserve what you want
instead--which is someone you'll actually get along with.
The MORE you fight your natural personality type, the LESS likely
that is to happen.
4) "Women Don't Want To Be Bothered"
Look what four decades of "feminization of manhood" has done to us.
Just last week I was in a discussion with a woman who claimed that
"human sexuality is limited to physical features...all the rest is
socio-cultural".
Femininity and masculinity were relative and negotiable to her.
When I suggested that she therefore not be too hard on the next guy
who was only sexually attracted to her body parts, the conversation
ended abruptly.
Check it out gentlemen. Those women are the minority.
The rest of them are still proud to be 100% woman, feminine
through-and-through.
And they WANT a man around. The question is simply whether you
are going to MAN UP, realize that, and BRING IT.
You are sexually attracted to women, as I'm sure you've already
figured out.
NEWS FLASH: Women are usually sexually attracted to men. You're
not bothering them. Really.
To think otherwise is to give in to faulty programming from a vocal
minority. Either that, or it's just a flimsy excuse. It's one or
the other.
5) "No Matter What I Do, It's Just Not Going To Work"
You've been out with some women, and you're not getting second
dates.
Meanwhile, your friends and family wonder why you're single and
don't have a girlfriend.
The reason for all of this? You've been LEADING. Even on those
disastrous first dates.
Sure, you do just fine socially...until you're in front of a woman
you're attracted to.
Face it: it's YOU who is different in those situations.
It's not that women hate you or something.
The good news is you can CONTROL the outcome. You are NOT a
victim.
If you are doing fine elsewhere with people, it means your
personality WORKS.
Now it's simply a matter of killing the "too good to be true factor".
Stop submarining your confidence thinking there's no chance a woman
YOU like could possibly like you back.
Let her decide that on her own rather than YOU leading her to a
negative outcome.
What difference could being as confident of others' approval in the
presence of a hottie as you typically are in all other situations
mean?
In a very real way it could mean shredding up this limiting
belief once and for all.
6) "I Haven't Learned Enough Yet"
Sure, having tons of knowledge about how women think and what they
want is IMMENSELY valuable.
And sure, maybe you recognize that there's a journey ahead of you
in becoming the "Big Four" guy YOU envision yourself to be.
BUT...you can't wallow in theory over there forever.
You've GOT TO PRACTICE.
If you play golf, you might read some Golf manuals and magazines,
then you go hit a bucket at the range.
You may take notes, come back and read some more, then maybe play
18 with a few friends.
Improvement happens over time through a combination of KNOWLEDGE
and PRACTICE.
It follows logically that succeeding with women is a similar process.
Unless, of course, you're looking for an excuse to remain terrified
of women. Then you'll continue to "fail to deploy".
Pull the trigger, gentlemen. Relax and have fun...the women dig you.
So you thought you were alone, did you?
If there's ANY takeaway from what you've just read, it's that even
though every one of us thinks we're ALL ALONE in dealing with our
self-perceived inadequacies, the truth is that WE ALL tend to battle
VERY SIMILAR demons.
Can you get your head around that, realize that what you're up
against is completely normal, and use that information to RISE
ABOVE the adversity?
Your answer to that very question will decide whether or not you'll
have the stones to step up and make success happen with women...or not.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If you're going after the 2-for-1 I announced above, I suggest
selecting The Master Plan as the second program if you don't have
it already.
In it I give you every weapon you need to blast away anything that's
holding you back from becoming the "Big Four" guy I talk about.
Masculinity. Confidence. Inspiring HER confidence. Character.
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