[X&Y] Reader Comments On Whether Looks Matter Or Not
Published: Sun, 07/27/14
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Still need some encouragement after reading
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READER COMMENTS ON WHETHER LOOKS MATTER OR NOT
Yesterday I wrote to you about how better looking guys aren't
necessarily more successful overall than guys who are more
"average" in that department.
I got an unusually heavy amount of feedback from that newsletter,
including lots of messages from guys who felt like what I wrote
sounded a bit "too good to be true".
Well, I ALSO got some e-mails from both men AND women who
seconded every bit of what I was talking about.
Allow me to share a couple examples of the latter with you guys who
may still be doubters. They're sure to make you think, if not
fire you up with some serious motivation.
First, this comes from a guy who claims (or admits?) that he's
considered good looking by women:
Hi Scot,
Good newsletter. Took the words right out of my mouth.
I'm definitely one of those "GQ handsome" guys you talked about,
and yet I'm still single.
I can get first, even second dates...but a relationship, forget it!
I've been dumped by women for guys who are "average" and even BELOW
"average".
Guess I need to aim higher and go for the real hot ones, don't I?
Even THEY are insecure and have low self esteem sometimes, though.
Be good,
Sam (Workin' on an oil rig in Iraq)
Interesting, right?
Well, check out this from Vince in Colorado. No matter who you
are, this should be enough to get you seriously stoked about
meeting more women:
Hey Scot,
I just have to tell you about something that happened, that proves
you're the Jedi master of knowing how to attract women.
Now up front, let me say that I consider myself as fairly average.
I'm very athletic, and take good care of my body, but I'm
definitely NOT a pretty boy.
That said, I had three strange things happen just the other day.
I was in the grocery store, when I spied this smokin' hot young
lady. The kind of woman who could easily don a bikini and go model
for the cover of SI.
OK, so for the first strange thing. Have you ever gotten the
feeling that someone was following / watching you? I'm not talking
about the paranoid feeling that someone is out to do you harm here,
but just the feeling that someone is looking you over.
Well, it seemed everywhere I went in this store, this woman was
never far behind. It didn't make sense that she would be interested
in an average guy like me, but far be it from me to complain if she
was.
So I headed to a small section where they have movies for rent and
sale. Lo and behold, she comes waltzing into the same little
section.
Now for the second strange thing. I actually took some of your
advise to heart. I just "manned up" and went over and started a
conversation with her. Believe me, that is VERY strange for me - to
ever listen to the advise of anyone else.
The third strange thing was that she turned out to be really sweet,
great personality, sense of humor, and intelligent as well.
The final strange thing that happened, was I asked her for her
email, and she actually pulled out her own pen and paper and wrote
it down with absolutely NO hesitation. Surprise, surprise!!!!
That was two days ago. I found out she's into rock climbing, and I
know of a perfect spot for rock climbing that she has never been
to.
Even if it doesn't work out, I figure what the heck, there are
still many other hot ladies out there that I can do the same thing
with. But I think the entire scenario speaks volumes about so much
of the advise that you give to guys like me every day.
Keep it comin' and thanx.
Vince (Colorado)
Right on, guys.
Sam, I have NO IDEA how you're meeting beautiful women on an oil
rig somewhere in Iraq, but I've learned to stop asking questions
about things like that.
The point is YES. Start going for the women you really want.
And Vince, that was actually FOUR strange things you listed...but I
promise that the more you boldly approach women like that the less
weird it'll seem for them to respond so powerfully to you.
Women really enjoy when we start conversations with them. As long
as you respect yourself AND them, it's almost shocking how well it
goes...almost always.
To this day there has NEVER, EVER been any guy who's come to San
Antonio for a Ten-Plus Live and was treated rudely and/or humiliated
by ANY woman he approached and talked to. That's EVER.
Let this all be of immense encouragement to you, guys. It really,
truly doesn't matter whether you look like a Hollywood movie star
or not.
As long as you're a MAN and do the best with what you've got, women
will respond favorably to you more often than not, at the very
least.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I also reprinted a particularly great e-mail response from
a WOMAN on the Facebook Page. Take a look and let me know your
thoughts:
http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily
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