[X&Y] 6 Reasons To Change Your Mind About Online Dating
Published: Thu, 08/14/14
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Have you always come up with some sort of excuse to
avoid online dating? Or worse, have you tried it before...only to
quit in frustration? Here are the first three of six solid reasons
to give online dating some further consideration anyway.
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ARE YOU E-MAILING WOMEN...AND GETTING NOTHING IN RETURN?
It's an amazing, thrilling feeling to see a woman's picture
on your computer screen one day, and THEN actually have her in
front of you the next day...ADORING you.
Oh yeah... That's what makes online dating great.
But if you're like 95% or more of guys out there, the problem
is that you've got to go through HELL to get there.
The WORST part is spending hours upon hours trying to write
witty, charming e-mails to as many women as you can...only
to find an EMPTY inbox the next time you log in.
Can you relate?
I know it's frustrating. It makes you feel like women just don't
want ANY of what you've got to offer.
Well, what if there was a way to make sure your e-mails WORKED
(for a change)...and better yet, you could get the ball rolling
with as many women as possible without ANY of the hard work?
In other words, what if you could OUTSOURCE the "heavy lifting"
of writing and sending all those e-mails to someone (or something)
else?
Well, starting today you CAN. You've got to see this:
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Thanks to this genius (and inexpensive) new software, sending
all the right messages to all the right women just got as
easy as pressing a button (no kidding):
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All of the results, none of the work. This is HUGE.
There aren't many genuine quick fixes in this life, but when
you find one I recommend GOING FOR IT:
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6 REASONS TO CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT ONLINE DATING [PART ONE]
Obviously, you know by now that we're HUGE fans of online dating
around here. But I'm completely aware of the fact that you may NOT
be.
And this may surprise you, but I fully GET why that may be the
case. Some of the complaints I hear most often include:
1) You have to be desperate to resort to that
2) The chicks are all pig-dogs
3) There are too many scammers and fake profiles
4) I'm no good at writing
5) Nobody writes back
6) I tried eHarmony and it sucked
Okay, I'll concede the sixth one to you. eHarmony is friggin'
horrible.
That's why I wholeheartedly recommend choosing your own women on
Match or OKCupid instead of leaving it to some computer with
unknown intentions for your social life.
But as for the rest, they're all ultimately just lame excuses if
you ask me.
For starters, all you have to do is run a real-time search and
you'll see the hotties appear before your very eyes. If you
haven't done that lately, give it a shot.
Yes, they're all right there online...including actresses, NBA
cheerleaders, nurses, teachers, paralegals, hot mommies and all
other types.
The year is now 2014 and online dating is normal, mainstream stuff
nowadays. In fact, if you're single and DON'T have an online
profile somewhere, other people are going to wonder why not.
Scammers and fakes are easy to weed out--if not on sight, then most
certainly within an e-mail or two (Hint: women who you've never
met shouldn't ever ask you for money.)
As for not being able to write, there are ways around that also.
Let's just say that's one of many HUGE advantages Online Dating
Domination 2.0 gives you.
So how about it? Can we put aside the excuses for now?
Let's turn our attention to something much more positive.
I've come up with at least SIX reasons why online dating could
actually be your MOST POWERFUL way to meet women, if only you're
willing to transform your mindset.
Here are the first three, for now:
1) Women Online Are NOT In Your Social Circle
Thank you "Captain Obvious", right? Well hold your horses, pardner.
Have you ever really considered the brilliant ramifications of this?
Consider the social framework that's in place whenever you start
dating a woman who is in your group of friends, a relative sets you
up with or--worst of all--is a co-worker.
Invariably, the two of you run with a common crowd, at least to
some degree.
That means that a woman can't help but expect whatever happens on
dates with you to become everyone else's business.
Given the way society tends to operate, that means she might be
extra-reserved sexually lest anyone brand her a "slut". She might
take her time getting to know you, and probably won't dare invite
herself over to your place.
Meanwhile, you can't exactly date anyone else in your social circle
until your relationship with the first woman has run its course,
right?
That would be "burning the candle at both ends" since the two of
them probably shouldn't ever find out about each other.
Now consider that women online are far more likely to have ZERO
direct connection to your existing social circle.
So...how does that change the dynamics of any potential relationship
you have with them?
Ever seen one of those commercials with the tagline "What Happens
In Vegas Stays In Vegas"? Bingo. When you're outside the social
constraints of the usual crowd you run with, the inhibitions tend
to subside.
2) You Can Know All Sorts Of Things About Women Online Before You
Even Meet Them
Have you ever met a woman you thought was attractive, only to
figure out that her beliefs, interests and vegan diet were
completely incompatible with anything you had going on?
The beauty of an online profile is that you get an entire stat
sheet on a woman before making the decision to pull the trigger on
contacting her or not.
I realize that sounds pretty basic, but consider this.
I've met more women than I can count on both hands who would really
love to date men their own age or older, but since they look 12 to
15 years YOUNGER than they really are, only college kids ask them
out.
The question you might be asking yourself about now is this: "Holy
Mama...how many amazing women have I failed to meet simply because I
THOUGHT they were too young for me?"
Online dating, of course, solves this little problem. Let's just
say you never have to worry about a 23-year-old woman lying on her
profile about how she's actually 35.
Or said another way, you're now free to date all the 35-year-olds
who seem 23 that you can handle.
3) There's An Immense Savings In Time, Money And Resources
Let's cut to the chase on this one. You can forget going to
expensive clubs, buying pricey tickets to events, spending time
getting ready to go "sarging", or anything like that.
Thanks to online dating you can literally sit at home in your boxer
shorts drinking a brewski while messaging several women at once.
You only invest time in actually MEETING them when you're
reasonably sure it'll go well.
And let me tell you, once you master the simple art of screening
women online, that part's a piece of cake.
To be honest, most guys mess it up because they're overly
optimistic (read: "desperate") even in the face of strong evidence
that the woman's going to disappoint.
So how about it? The first three bullet points alone make a pretty
solid case for giving online dating a chance (or second chance)
Well, hang in there because I've got the second half coming atcha
tomorrow.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. In the meantime, I need to remind you of something. The weekend
is coming up and Saturday morning is one of the most PRIMO times to
write women online.
=====
Obviously, you know by now that we're HUGE fans of online dating
around here. But I'm completely aware of the fact that you may NOT
be.
And this may surprise you, but I fully GET why that may be the
case. Some of the complaints I hear most often include:
1) You have to be desperate to resort to that
2) The chicks are all pig-dogs
3) There are too many scammers and fake profiles
4) I'm no good at writing
5) Nobody writes back
6) I tried eHarmony and it sucked
Okay, I'll concede the sixth one to you. eHarmony is friggin'
horrible.
That's why I wholeheartedly recommend choosing your own women on
Match or OKCupid instead of leaving it to some computer with
unknown intentions for your social life.
But as for the rest, they're all ultimately just lame excuses if
you ask me.
For starters, all you have to do is run a real-time search and
you'll see the hotties appear before your very eyes. If you
haven't done that lately, give it a shot.
Yes, they're all right there online...including actresses, NBA
cheerleaders, nurses, teachers, paralegals, hot mommies and all
other types.
The year is now 2014 and online dating is normal, mainstream stuff
nowadays. In fact, if you're single and DON'T have an online
profile somewhere, other people are going to wonder why not.
Scammers and fakes are easy to weed out--if not on sight, then most
certainly within an e-mail or two (Hint: women who you've never
met shouldn't ever ask you for money.)
As for not being able to write, there are ways around that also.
Let's just say that's one of many HUGE advantages Online Dating
Domination 2.0 gives you.
So how about it? Can we put aside the excuses for now?
Let's turn our attention to something much more positive.
I've come up with at least SIX reasons why online dating could
actually be your MOST POWERFUL way to meet women, if only you're
willing to transform your mindset.
Here are the first three, for now:
1) Women Online Are NOT In Your Social Circle
Thank you "Captain Obvious", right? Well hold your horses, pardner.
Have you ever really considered the brilliant ramifications of this?
Consider the social framework that's in place whenever you start
dating a woman who is in your group of friends, a relative sets you
up with or--worst of all--is a co-worker.
Invariably, the two of you run with a common crowd, at least to
some degree.
That means that a woman can't help but expect whatever happens on
dates with you to become everyone else's business.
Given the way society tends to operate, that means she might be
extra-reserved sexually lest anyone brand her a "slut". She might
take her time getting to know you, and probably won't dare invite
herself over to your place.
Meanwhile, you can't exactly date anyone else in your social circle
until your relationship with the first woman has run its course,
right?
That would be "burning the candle at both ends" since the two of
them probably shouldn't ever find out about each other.
Now consider that women online are far more likely to have ZERO
direct connection to your existing social circle.
So...how does that change the dynamics of any potential relationship
you have with them?
Ever seen one of those commercials with the tagline "What Happens
In Vegas Stays In Vegas"? Bingo. When you're outside the social
constraints of the usual crowd you run with, the inhibitions tend
to subside.
2) You Can Know All Sorts Of Things About Women Online Before You
Even Meet Them
Have you ever met a woman you thought was attractive, only to
figure out that her beliefs, interests and vegan diet were
completely incompatible with anything you had going on?
The beauty of an online profile is that you get an entire stat
sheet on a woman before making the decision to pull the trigger on
contacting her or not.
I realize that sounds pretty basic, but consider this.
I've met more women than I can count on both hands who would really
love to date men their own age or older, but since they look 12 to
15 years YOUNGER than they really are, only college kids ask them
out.
The question you might be asking yourself about now is this: "Holy
Mama...how many amazing women have I failed to meet simply because I
THOUGHT they were too young for me?"
Online dating, of course, solves this little problem. Let's just
say you never have to worry about a 23-year-old woman lying on her
profile about how she's actually 35.
Or said another way, you're now free to date all the 35-year-olds
who seem 23 that you can handle.
3) There's An Immense Savings In Time, Money And Resources
Let's cut to the chase on this one. You can forget going to
expensive clubs, buying pricey tickets to events, spending time
getting ready to go "sarging", or anything like that.
Thanks to online dating you can literally sit at home in your boxer
shorts drinking a brewski while messaging several women at once.
You only invest time in actually MEETING them when you're
reasonably sure it'll go well.
And let me tell you, once you master the simple art of screening
women online, that part's a piece of cake.
To be honest, most guys mess it up because they're overly
optimistic (read: "desperate") even in the face of strong evidence
that the woman's going to disappoint.
So how about it? The first three bullet points alone make a pretty
solid case for giving online dating a chance (or second chance)
Well, hang in there because I've got the second half coming atcha
tomorrow.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. In the meantime, I need to remind you of something. The weekend
is coming up and Saturday morning is one of the most PRIMO times to
write women online.
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