[X&Y] Part Two: 6 Reasons To Change Your Mind About Online Dating

Published: Fri, 08/15/14



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WHAT'S INSIDE:  As promised yesterday, here are the other three
excellent reasons to give online dating a fair shake.

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THE SURE FIX TO THE #1 ONLINE DATING PROBLEM


Ask any guy who's ever given up on online dating in disgust
and he'll tell you exactly why.

Women just DID NOT answer his messages.

You and I both know how much that SUCKS.

You write messages and hear NOTHING in return.

Then you make the extra effort to be creative and original...but
still NOTHING.

After a while, enough is enough.  A man can only take so much.

Meanwhile, what's the ONE major difference between guys who
quit online dating and those who are meeting so many women
that they're practically addicted to it like laughing gas?

You got it:  Women answer their messages.

Now, before you think that the guys who win are all rich
studs, let me remind you that I won...majorly.

And I've never been accused of being a "rich stud" before. 

Actually, that thought makes me laugh.

I'll tell you what though, there was a TON of trial and error
before I finally got it right.

I can only imagine what would have happened if I, like you,
had THIS:



Write Women Amazing E-Mails And Get Them To Respond



Let me just throw it out on the table:  Now that you have a
fast, effective, sure-fire SOLUTION for the #1 online dating
pitfall, why on Earth would you not get your hands on it?



Problem: SOLVED



Seriously...where was THIS back in 2005?  It could have saved
me YEARS of hard labor.



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6 REASONS TO CHANGE YOUR MIND ABOUT ONLINE DATING [PART TWO]
   

Hey, I understand why so many guys are so turned off to the idea of
online dating. 

But I'm not going to let that keep me from doing what I can to shed
some light on why online dating actually ROCKS, if you give it the
chance.

Yesterday I listed the first three of six solid reasons why any guy
who's written off the idea of meeting women online should rethink
his position.

If you didn't happen to catch that, go ahead and sift through your
inbox for it.  It's good stuff.

Meanwhile, since I'm a man of my word, here's the second half of
the list:



4)  You Can Set Up Dates In Other Cities Before You Even Get There


Got a business trip coming up?  How would you like to have a couple
of hotties lined up in advance...ready to hang out with you and show
you around their town?

Or are you going spend your free time at night hanging out in the
hotel bar with the engineers?

Let's face it, you're not going to have time to go meet women AFTER
you're there.

The solution?  That's right:  Online dating.

Simply run a search in the city you're headed to and fill your
schedule accordingly. 

This really works.  And yes...you can be completely honest with these
women about what you're up to.  Lots of them will be all the more
excited to meet you.



5)  Kick "Approach Anxiety" To The Curb


What's the best way to do away with the fear of approaching
women...forever?  The answer is disarmingly simple: Do away with
approaching women to begin with.

Writing an e-mail and hitting "send" is not nearly as
nerve-wracking as seeing a woman in public, battling your inner
demons, gutting through the "three second factor" and hoping you
don't trip over your shoelaces while walking over to her--let alone
your tongue after you actually get there.

Sure, gaining mastery over that is super cool...if you want to.  But
the thing is that you don't really HAVE to now that there's online
dating.

But just the same, consider this.  How much easier will it be for
you to approach women OFFLINE knowing that you have at least three
or four women in your life already who you met ONLINE? 

Just sayin'...



6)  Everyone Is "Available"


Sick of striking up conversations with pretty women and getting all
the way to the golden moment where you get the digits, only to hear
those brutal words:  "I have a boyfriend"?

The worst part about that transaction is you often can't really be
sure whether or not she actually DOES have a significant other or
if she's just brushing you off in the most sanitary way she knows
how.

Online there's never any such drama.

Let's just say this.  If you EVER hear that from any woman you met
on an online dating site, she has a SERIOUS problem with spending
her money and time in completely counter-productive ways.

But you WON'T ever hear that from a woman online.

If she's online, she's single.  And if she writes you back, she's
interested.  That's as simple as it gets in this life.
   
What's more, you're able to know with reasonable certainty whether
women online are divorced, never married or--importantly--only
separated without having to dig for such politically loaded info in
real-time.

The convenience of that cannot be underestimated.



By now I can only imagine you're probably beating yourself up some
for having slept on online dating all this time.

And no kidding...all six reasons I've outlined for you in this
two-part series are fully legit.  When your online dating strategy
is executed to perfection, meeting women becomes easier than you've
ever imagined it could be.

So go ahead.  Reach for your mouse and sign up.  You know you want
to...and the women online are waiting for you.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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