[X&Y] 5 Examples Of When NOT To Date
Published: Sun, 08/10/14
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IN THIS EDITION: There really are situations when it's best
to stop seeing women, at least for the time being...but only
five of them.
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5 EXAMPLES OF WHEN NOT TO DATE
Hello,
I have a question. Is there any time when someone honestly should
not date? If so, how do they know when to finally start dating?
Monty
P.S. I love your podcasts.
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Hello Monty, and thanks for writing.
I'm glad you're enjoying the podcasts. We'll have more episodes
of BOTH The Chick Whisperer and X & Y On The Fly coming up soon.
(Yes, that's right...Emily's finally ready to get behind the mic
again.)
Anyway, you've asked one of those questions that makes for a good,
solid challenge. As such, I went through ALL the file cards to
make sure I didn't miss anything.
When all the dust cleared, I thought of five legit reasons why a
person shouldn't date:
1) You are young enough that your parents still have
authority in your life and prohibit it.
2) You are pending a divorce, and therefore not really
single. This is especially true if there could be
consequences in the courtroom for being involved with
someone else while still legally married.
3) You are about to permanently relocate far, far away
within a short amount of time.
4) You are either psychopathic and/or narcissistic enough to
inflict wanton evil upon MOTOS (members of the other
sex) without any regard whatsoever for their needs,
desires, happiness or possibly even their personal safety.
5) You are dead.
If any of those situations apply you would most certainly want to
start meeting and going out with women once the issue at hand is
resolved, although #5 would be particularly difficult to overcome.
All joking aside, #4 is rough to get over as well. Worse, the vast
majority of people I've known of who are like that aren't particularly
interested in changing. Worst of all, they're out there dating anyway,
whether they should or not.
But yes, I do believe that one should get back out there and start
meeting MOTOS as soon as possible after finalizing a divorce.
I don't subscribe to the typical "wait a year to recover" advice,
and here's why.
The longer you wait the more time you have to feel lonely and sorry
for yourself. By the time a full year passes, that mindset is likely
to become a full-blown habit.
Is that really the best way to "recover"?
I've consistently found, in both personal experience and through
observing others, that it's best to build a thriving social life
that includes MOTOS without waiting even a minute.
That said, I don't believe in jumping into another exclusive
relationship (aka "the rebound") right away. Simply go out with
women and enjoy their company.
Bask in their favor rather than staying at home wallowing in some
combination of hurt, resentment and/or guilt.
The same exact principle holds true for relocation situations.
Yes, it's a good idea to avoid torturing yourself and some poor
woman by getting into some complicated relationship days before
moving thousands of miles away.
But it's JUST as great an idea to get out and meet women as soon
as you can after moving to a new place.
Just like in the divorce situation, it's all about heading off
loneliness and the negative visualizations that come with it at the
pass.
Notice that limiting beliefs of ANY type, laziness and supposing
that there are either no women around and/or that they wouldn't
want to go out with you anyway aren't on the list.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
=====
I fully realize the opportunity came and went in a flash. Only
the first 50 guys raked in ALL of them.
Well, life is all about second chances.
Right now I'm opening up the doors on the same original set of
fast action bonuses for ANOTHER 50 guys.
This means that if you act fast you can score a 1-on-1 live call
with me AND the other two original fast action bonuses on
eliminating "performance anxiety" forever AND giving women
incredible, full-body squirting orgasms.
Of course, this is all in addition to the STACKED main program
featuring everything you could ever want or need to know about
how to find a woman who's amazing in bed AND being her best
lover ever.
But hurry...this is for the first 50 guys ONLY:
Behind Closed Doors -- Get All Three Fast Action Bonuses
Behind Closed Doors has an even higher customer satisfaction
rating than any other X & Y Communications program ever.
That can only mean ONE thing. The satisfaction rating of the
WOMEN in those guys' lives must be off the charts.
Now it's your turn. Get everything you need to have the sex
life that other guys can only dream of...all in one convenient
package.
Go ahead, get your copy and start living the dream with the
sexiest woman ever:
Behind Closed Doors -- Get All Three Fast Action Bonuses
=====
5 EXAMPLES OF WHEN NOT TO DATE
Hello,
I have a question. Is there any time when someone honestly should
not date? If so, how do they know when to finally start dating?
Monty
P.S. I love your podcasts.
=====
Hello Monty, and thanks for writing.
I'm glad you're enjoying the podcasts. We'll have more episodes
of BOTH The Chick Whisperer and X & Y On The Fly coming up soon.
(Yes, that's right...Emily's finally ready to get behind the mic
again.)
Anyway, you've asked one of those questions that makes for a good,
solid challenge. As such, I went through ALL the file cards to
make sure I didn't miss anything.
When all the dust cleared, I thought of five legit reasons why a
person shouldn't date:
1) You are young enough that your parents still have
authority in your life and prohibit it.
2) You are pending a divorce, and therefore not really
single. This is especially true if there could be
consequences in the courtroom for being involved with
someone else while still legally married.
3) You are about to permanently relocate far, far away
within a short amount of time.
4) You are either psychopathic and/or narcissistic enough to
inflict wanton evil upon MOTOS (members of the other
sex) without any regard whatsoever for their needs,
desires, happiness or possibly even their personal safety.
5) You are dead.
If any of those situations apply you would most certainly want to
start meeting and going out with women once the issue at hand is
resolved, although #5 would be particularly difficult to overcome.
All joking aside, #4 is rough to get over as well. Worse, the vast
majority of people I've known of who are like that aren't particularly
interested in changing. Worst of all, they're out there dating anyway,
whether they should or not.
But yes, I do believe that one should get back out there and start
meeting MOTOS as soon as possible after finalizing a divorce.
I don't subscribe to the typical "wait a year to recover" advice,
and here's why.
The longer you wait the more time you have to feel lonely and sorry
for yourself. By the time a full year passes, that mindset is likely
to become a full-blown habit.
Is that really the best way to "recover"?
I've consistently found, in both personal experience and through
observing others, that it's best to build a thriving social life
that includes MOTOS without waiting even a minute.
That said, I don't believe in jumping into another exclusive
relationship (aka "the rebound") right away. Simply go out with
women and enjoy their company.
Bask in their favor rather than staying at home wallowing in some
combination of hurt, resentment and/or guilt.
The same exact principle holds true for relocation situations.
Yes, it's a good idea to avoid torturing yourself and some poor
woman by getting into some complicated relationship days before
moving thousands of miles away.
But it's JUST as great an idea to get out and meet women as soon
as you can after moving to a new place.
Just like in the divorce situation, it's all about heading off
loneliness and the negative visualizations that come with it at the
pass.
Notice that limiting beliefs of ANY type, laziness and supposing
that there are either no women around and/or that they wouldn't
want to go out with you anyway aren't on the list.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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