[X&Y] Women Are "Dumbing Themselves Down"...Seriously?
Published: Mon, 09/22/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Just in case you're thinking a high-quality
woman is "out of your league", there's THIS to keep you in check... =====
THE THREE TEXT MESSAGES YOU NEED TO KNOW...
What if you could do ALL of the following with just three simple
text messages?
* Get out of the friend zone
* Jumpstart things with a girl who is "slipping away" (without
coming across as desperate or needy)
* Get a girl you just met fighting for your attention and to win
you over
Well, now you can:
Knowing about these texts is like having three GOLDEN keys that can
unlock any woman's heart at will.
Don't ever struggle to figure out what to write to her ever again.
Take it from one of the smartest guys in the world of dating and
seduction advice...he's right on the money here:
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ARE WOMEN "DUMBING THEMSELVES DOWN" FOR YOU?
Just look at the title of this newsletter. Is that not the most
ridiculous concept you've ever heard of?
In case you're asking the obvious question, yes...you're interpreting
it correctly.
There are particularly smart, successful and dare I say desirable
women out there who give serious consideration to making themselves
appear less intelligent, less prosperous and even less DESIRABLE
overall then they really are.
And more of them than you think actually follow through on the
strategy when it comes to meeting men and going out on first dates.
Seriously. In case you doubt the reality of this phenomenon, take
a moment right now to Google the question, "Do women dumb
themselves down for men?"
Take a look at what comes up in the results. I think your jaw will
hit the floor.
Now clearly the first point of this exercise is to ring a bell LOUD
AND CLEAR in your head that these really sharp women aren't exactly
the ones putting themselves on pedestals and looking to "shoot
down" guys who try to ask them out...especially "big four" men.
Who knows where we ever dreamed up that myth, right? If anything
these women are going out of their way to LOWER their standards.
The only conclusion one can reasonably draw is that there are a LOT
of amazing women who are actually going completely dateless. None
of us are asking them out.
Sensing that we as guys are too intimidated by their overall
quality to match up with them--let alone even approach them--they're
literally in "survival mode" out there when it comes to their
dating lives.
They can't actually WANT it that way. Don't kid yourself.
I mean, think about it. What woman actually respects a man who is
less intelligent and less successful than she is? It's not like
any relationship of long-term value is likely to come of these
shenanigans.
Meanwhile, I happen to know for a fact is that those of you who
read this newsletter tend to be smarter than most people and
generally have your act together.
So ironically, the problem at the core of all this is the simple
fact that 99.9% of you are NOT able to picture yourself succeeding
with this type of woman.
You know...the same type of woman who's resorted to "dumbing herself
down" in an effort to stave off abject loneliness.
In other words, whether you think you're "out of her league" or
not, she obviously doesn't. Heck...she's scrambling to do the social
equivalent of getting sent down to the minors just so she can get
some playing time.
It's as if the sharpest woman out there is aiming to end up with
less of a man than she deserves, even as the guy who truly deserves
her is also settling for less than he deserves out of sheer
intimidation.
What a tangled web we weave, huh?
How much confidence does it give you to know that so many
super-sharp women out there are quite literally TRYING to "settle"
knowing that the likes of YOU are typically never going to ask them
out?
Can you change your mindset to allow for that reality?
Whatever you do, make darn skippy sure that no woman ever has to
"dumb herself down" for YOU. Fair enough?Be Good,
Scot McKay
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