[X&Y] Better Hide The Axes And Chainsaws...
Published: Mon, 09/08/14
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IN THIS EDITION: When you make your bed, you've got to sleep in
it. Literally.
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YOU'VE MET A GREAT WOMAN...NOW WHAT?
So how about it? Are you interested in being a pickup artist for
the long term or are you really all about meeting the greatest
woman you've ever met and getting on with having a great life
with her?
As I mention in today's newsletter below, MOST guys are after the
latter.
The problem is that there are VERY FEW quality resources for
knowing how to master long-term relationships with women.
Fortunately for you, however, there's The Leading Man:
http://www.the-leading-man.com/subscribers
That's the definitive roadmap for relationship management--you
know, EVERYTHING that comes after the first date. It's my most
popular program, and for good reason. What's covered in it is
mission critical for any man to know.
By request, I'm running a special 2-for-1 for the next 48 hours
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When you get The Leading Man, I'll give you YOUR CHOICE of The
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Simply specify your choice in the designated field on the order
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Want a recommendation? I'd say score a copy of The Master Plan
to go along with The Leading Man. Those two programs will surely
equip you to be the man who every high quality woman wants.
Oh, by the way...some of you have asked, and YES you can indeed
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BETTER HIDE THE AXES AND CHAINSAWS...
It's easy for a guy to become entirely fascinated by the concept of
becoming a pickup artist.
The initial curiosity is, of course, whether or not a guy actually
can "pull" women with the ease and fantastically mind-blowing results
he's told is possible.
For a good number of guys, once they learn some very real skills they
soon come to the clear and delightful realization that, "Whoa. This
stuff DOES work."
And it's no secret that I readily acknowledge that reality. No
doubt: If you work hard enough at pickup mastery, you are likely
going to be able to get the job done.
Next, typically, a guy with newfound PUA skill proceeds to make
good use of it. Same night pulls. One night stands. Threesomes.
Foursomes. Moresomes.
And to the average guy who has thus far not had a whole lot of
positive experience with women, this stuff is nothing short of
tantalizing even in mere principle. And actually getting somewhere
in real life with it all? Outrageous!
No argument.
But perhaps an even more powerful reality--and one that's talked
about much less often--is this: That lifestyle is not exactly
what the vast majority of guys have in mind when they decide they
want to get better with women.
Some of us want quality instead of quantity. In the back of our
minds, we all pretty much know that there are TONS of women who
aren't "easy pulls".
Not coincidentally, they are often the most desirable women overall
by any measure.
If the mindset is that of having a great woman around (preferably
the all-around GREATEST of all time), building a shared history with
someone we can have cool adventures with, harboring NO CONCERN over
"sexual scheduling" and--go figure--maybe having a real, live kid or
two, then the PUA stuff at best has a shelf life.
To those of you guys who take the long view from the very
beginning, mad love atcha. You may miss out on the
smorgasbord, but you'll have saved yourself the heartburn.
Because here it is: If you jump headfirst into the PUA lifestyle,
someday you just might decide it's time for a change. It's
altogether possible--if not downright likely--that you'll one day
decide to uninstall the revolving door.
And you'll be ready to step up to attracting the highest echelon
of women out there.
Or, equally likely, you may instead walk headfirst into a brick
wall when you least expect it.
I have no idea what that brick wall's name is going to be, but I
do know this: She will be the most amazing creature you've ever
encountered.
You'll be pretty much distracted from the "mirror foggers" in your
black book and ready to cancel your entire upcoming schedule.
She'll catch you completely off-guard--a total surprise.
She'll blow the other options you have away, and when you try to
spend quantity time with those other women, your mind will be
firmly in touch with the fact you'd rather be somewhere else.
Don't confuse this phenomenon with "oneitis". What we're talking
about here is brought about by having LOTS of options, resulting in
CLEAR RECOGNITION when "perfect imperfection" is in your midst.
And now, the most crucial piece: What will HER reaction to YOU be?
I hate to break it to you, but any incredibly sharp woman's
response to a "recovering PUA" will be something to the effect of,
"Very nice. But I'm hiding the axes and chainsaws."
What's up with that?
Lookit. Let's say you were convicted twenty years ago of a brutal
axe murder--or even a chainsaw massacre--but you got out on parole
recently because of good behavior.
If I met you we might become friends. You know, have a beer, hit
the links with a couple buds.
And perhaps you would tell me that the past is gone, you've had a
conversion experience and you are now a changed man. I'd be cool
with that.
But I'd also hide the axes and chainsaws.
A great woman's reaction to a guy who has lived the PUA lifestyle,
but who is now ready for a change, will be quite similar to what
I've just described.
She's going to watch you very closely. And she's going to take a
LONG FREAKING time to completely trust your new frame of mind. In
fact, she may NEVER fully trust it. And she has that right.
Think about your entire life ahead before you dive head first into
a particular lifestyle choice (even if you are 55 and newly-
divorced).
This is very much the kind of educated mindset that you must have
before getting a tattoo, for example.
The decisions you make now must be weighed against future
possibilities. When it comes to women, when you make your bed
you've got to sleep in it...literally. Deserve what you want.
And I know there are a lot of ladies who read this newsletter.
Rest assured that all of the above is fully transferable.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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