[X&Y] 5 Genius Ways "Average" Guys Deserve Amazing Women
Published: Sun, 11/16/14
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WHAT'S INSIDE: I hear all the time from men AND women who
feel like they're too "average" to enjoy wild dating success.
Here's what an "average" guy like me has to say about that...
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5 GENIUS WAYS "AVERAGE" GUYS DESERVE AMAZING WOMEN
Generally speaking I am blessed to receive emails on a daily
basis from readers and listeners expressing dramatic life
change.
I love to hear from people who are refusing to settle and
therefore deserving what they want more and more every day.
I truly live for messages like those these days. It inspires
me to know that Emily and I are making a difference.
Sometimes, however, I receive other messages that inspire me
in a completely different way. A few days ago, I received
just such an email.
A woman was unsubcribing from this newsletter (yes, there are
a ton of women who read it), citing that she was "just an
average Plain Jane", and that she could never live up to the
ideals talked about around here.
What intrigued me the most was that she was not so much
discouraged from the hard work of deserving what SHE wanted
as irritated that I would encourage men to never "settle"
for any less than who THEY deserved.
When it came right down to it, she felt that even her
most valiant efforts to deserve what she wanted were
going to fall short.
Ultimately, her feeling was that no man from the "highest
echelon of men on Earth" was ever going to want her, no
matter what.
And having been around the block a few times, I know for a
fact that plenty of men feel the same way about attracting
a great woman.
So then, this email got my attention because the challenge
presented to me in it was a valid one.
How dare I tell "average" people that they should expect
to earn the right to "never settle"? Come on now, seriously
...what kind of Pollyanna advice is THAT?
How does an AVERAGE person deserve a SUPERIOR partner?
Fortunately, I'm up to the challenge of answering that
question.
And because I know you want practical answers from me instead
of philosophical musings, here is the bulletized list
you've come to expect:
1) Kill The Very Word "Average" Itself
...And resort to Weapons Of Mass Destruction if that's
what it takes to accomplish this in your life.
Anyone who considers him or herself "average" (let alone
"below average") is acknowledging defeat before even
attempting to deserve.
Unfortunately, most of the seven billion of us on this planet
are shockingly willing to accept mediocrity.
After all, it's effortless.
Therefore, we all run the risk of being lulled into living
that lie.
Yes, I said "lie".
We allow ourselves to sleepwalk our way through life, and in
doing so we never even sniff at reaching our potential.
Knowing that the MAJORITY of people passively watch life from
the sidelines, ACTIVELY doing something to promote excellence
in your own reality pulls you by the collar out of the realm
of the "average" BY DEFINITION. Do you see how that works?
Years ago a great speaker named Bruce Thielemann borrowed a
phrase originally coined by pro surfer Phil Edwards to refer
to the apathetic masses, referring to them as "legions of the
unjazzed".
His point was that most humans let the most powerful and
meaningful aspects of what life has to offer slip quietly
away having "pampered themselves into mediocrity".
What powerful language to ponder, right?
Unhitch yourself from the "unjazzed" bandwagon today, and
begin deserving better immediately.
2) Your Presumptions Of Inadequacy May Point To Arrogance
You look in the mirror and see "average".
Realize, right here and right now, that your opinion has zero
to do with mine or anyone else's on the subject.
Just because you are not your own "type" does not mean you
are free to arrogantly presume your world view upon anyone
else, let alone EVERYONE else.
3) Don't Drink The Media's Purple Kool-Aid
Cult leader Jim Jones infamously (and irrevocably) will forever
be associated with poisonous purple Kool-Aid.
Sometimes I can't help but think that the media is serving us
a steady diet of a similar potion when it comes to having us
believe what "not settling" means, exactly.
I have dated women I thought were fantastically beautiful,
but who were disgusted by their own appearance.
They were not "supermodels", so they were therefore displeased.
The irony here is that the MANY guys who share my general
preferences in women aren't attracted to "supermodels" anyway.
Actually, we're wildly attracted to women who are more like
many of those women who in turn WISH they were supermodels.
That is to say, we are attracted at least until they express
how displeased they are with themselves.
Oh, the irony...
NEVER discount the power of your own confidence, or lack thereof.
Which drives the next point home...
4) Live Up To Your Own Design Specs
I was going to go with "Do The Best With What You've
Got" here, but that concept falls way short of the
meaning behind the heading I chose.
Why?
Simply put, there is NOTHING more amazing than to meet someone
who has clearly maximized who he or she is.
So many people are not doing this.
Over the next few days, pay attention to the people around you.
In your mind, give thought to who just isn't at their best.
Meanwhile, open your eyes to who seems exceptional to you and
how their own personal effort has likely affected that.
One time I met a woman who habitually mesmerized nearly
all men who met her.
Sure, she was fashionable, clean and well-groomed. But her
sense of humor, confident presence and feminine charm set her
apart as truly mind-blowing.
Note that all of this was under her full control.
As I got to know her, she shared how she grew up in poverty
and was told she was "ugly" throughout her childhood.
Yet now she was a successful professional who had her pick
of the sharpest men around.
Finally it occurred to me that if she had been anywhere close
to as apathetic as the "legions of the unjazzed" I probably
would never have even noticed her.
Nor would have the majority of other men, I'm guessing.
She was not superlative by accident. "Accidentally", as it
were, she would have been "average". But she wasn't.
5) Know Thyself
Hey wait a minute, who are these people you are thinking
would "never want you" anyway?
Are these people you even truly WANT to deserve?
The more you date effectively, the more you are going to
realize how valid the concept of "perfect imperfection" is.
I've written about this general concept elsewhere, of course,
but the correlation to today's point is absolutely crucial.
We as human beings are typically attracted to people we can
relate to.
If you are living by the tenets presented above, I can
quite nearly GUARANTEE you will be wildly attracted to
the self-actualized other sex version of yourself.
Why would you not be?
Give this concept a test drive.
If you have learned to deserve what you want, you will
soon be graced with the knowledge of who it is you
actually DO want.
And wait until you figure out you DO deserve that person.
That's the best news there is.
Remember the "highest echelon on Earth" is subject to
YOUR definition.
Have a clear understanding of that, and your efforts to
deserve what you want will be focused and therefore highly
effective.
And yes, those efforts will produce magical results.
Guaranteed.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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