[X&Y] Norman Bates Sucks
Published: Sun, 11/09/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Whatever you do, don't EVER take dating advice
from your Mom. Here's why not...
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"I LOVE EVERYTHING THAT'S WRONG WITH ONLINE DATING"
There...I said it. How's that for a dark (and eyebrow raising)
confession?
But it's true. And wait until you see how my story reaps BIG
BENEFITS for YOU.
You see, back when I was online I completely got how frustrating
it could be when women totally misrepresented themselves in their
pictures and in their profiles. I'm sure you can relate.
I also fully realized that women were totally unfair when they
ruthlessly erased messages from perfectly decent guys who they
may have actually liked in real life--having never even bothered
to look at their profiles. (Does THAT one sound familiar?)
The simple (and twisted) fact that beautiful women were practically
inundated with attention while the vast majority of men never got
any AT ALL wasn't lost on me either. (Or on you, I'm sure.)
And don't get me wrong. When I first started online dating all
of that stuff hit me like a ton of bricks too.
Yes, I nearly quit...just like a whopping 95% of the other guys
out there who feel the pain.
But something incredibly pleasurable happened instead.
Sooner than later I emerged victorious.
I figured out how to CRUSH the obstacles.
I discovered how to OVERCOME the odds...even though I was "too
short", "too old" and not exactly photogenic.
Suddenly--as if out of nowhere, really--I figured out how to beat
the system and make online dating work for me.
Since NO OTHER GUYS ever bothered to figure that out, there was an
amazing (but actually predictable) result: I started meeting ALL
the women.
That was going on for ONE reason, and one reason only: Because all
the other guys online were STUBBORN and CLUELESS.
(Okay, maybe that's two reasons. But you get the point.)
So yes...in one fell swoop I literally started LOVING everything
that was WRONG with online dating.
After all, as long as that veil hadn't been lifted for other guys I
had a MASSIVE advantage.
But NOW it's YOUR TURN. I'm "passing the torch", and you get
to TAKE OVER.
Fast-forward almost nine years...
Nowadays, I've long since met Emily and "retired" from online
dating. That can only mean ONE THING.
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NO WONDER NORMAN BATES WAS SO DESPERATE
I don't know if it's just a weird coincidence or whatever, but
lately I've been getting way too many e-mails from men who are
saying something to the effect of this:
"Yeah, well...my mommy told me I should do [insert something
preposterous and/or pathetic here] and girls will like me more.
But I did that, and it sorta didn't work."
In the brackets you could freely insert anything and everything
from "wear a tie to coffee meetings" to "comb my hair like a
choirboy" to "bring flowers and candy on first dates".
Has your mom ever attempted to give you some advice regarding women
in the past--either solicited or otherwise?
She may have suggested using certain smiley pics that you look
"sweet" in with your online profile.
Perhaps she told you that your table manners were THE most
important thing to get right on a first date.
Maybe she could have told you what to say, since...hey...that's exactly
what your father told her in 1964.
And then there's the most disastrous angle of them all: when she
starts telling you "what women want".
Look, why beat around the bush? I'm just going to tell it to you
straight: The very LAST person on Earth you should be taking
dating and/or relationship advice from is your mom.
(OK, maybe the LAST person on Earth is either Charlie Manson or a
Kardashian...but you get my point.)
I mean, I get it. It's altogether possible that your mom and dad
have been happily married for years. They might even be a great
example of how to run a solid relationship.
Great. WATCH what they do. Just don't LISTEN to your Mom's words
on how to attract women.
It's not that she doesn't mean well. She most definitely does.
I mean, it's not like your table manners don't matter at all.
It's just that she can't help but have MOTHERLY affinity towards
you, and she can't see it any other way. So essentially, she's
giving you advice on how to help other women adore you the way SHE
does.
Therefore, the danger there is that if you do what she suggests in
an effort to earn female favor, the women you meet will ALSO tend
to have MOTHERLY affinity toward you...at best.
At WORST, you'll come off like a "mama's boy"...especially if you're
unwise enough to actually TALK to women about what your mother
suggested doing to "impress" them.
Believe me when I tell you that talking about your mother with
women calls to mind "nurturing" you rather than being naughty with
you.
Ouch. That hurts.
And I haven't even covered the part yet about how your mom is NEVER
going to tell you anything that would ever "hurt your feelings".
To hear her tell it, you have no "hidden detractors"...even if you
haven't been on a second date in over a decade.
What can she say? She's biased. She ALREADY loves you. In her
mind any and every other woman on Earth shouldn't need any
convincing whatsoever to feel the same way.
The problem is that those other women don't know you yet. So
you've still got to meet them and start from "square one".
And they CERTAINLY don't have a preconceived notion that you're
wonderful (well, unless you're REALLY, REALLY good at building
social proof out of thin air).
Remember Forrest Gump? Wasn't he the one who always rambled on
about what his "mama always said"?
Suffice it to say that:
1) NO woman can take on BOTH a "mommy" role and a "lover" role in
your life. It's one or the other.
2) Women are repulsed by and flat-out RUN AWAY from "mama's boys"
like the plague. It comes off as if your mommy still has influence
over you in all sorts of ways--which doesn't give the impression
that you're a leader, provider OR a protector. (I mean, it's hard
to do that if you're basically still breastfeeding, right?)
3) Forrest Gump didn't exactly pull women like James Bond, did he?
And if Forrest Gump wasn't bad enough, consider Norman Bates. That's
one hell of an unsavory thought.
So let's get real here. Do you want women to "mother" you, or
"smother" you with ravishing outbursts of spontaneous sexuality?
The choice is yours. But I'd HIGHLY recommend not falling into
the trap of thinking your mom's suggestions on how to intrigue and
attract women are going to ever get you the desired results.
It's great to love and respect your mom. Heck, once you get
drafted in the 1st round by the OKC Thunder buy her a new
house and some "bling". Give her a big, sloppy kiss on the cheek,
call her every Sunday and tell her she's the "real MVP".
Just keep her the heck out of your dating life.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. I'm just going to throw this out there since it's sort of
relevant.
If your mom just so happens to be dating again herself, don't give
HER dating advice either. Your biases as a son are equally
detrimental to her potential success with MOTOS.
Just sayin'...
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