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IN THIS EDITION:  When meeting women, creating comfort is
paramount.  Here's something important to remember that you may
never have considered...

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THE THREE TEXT MESSAGES YOU NEED TO KNOW...


What if you could do ALL of the following with just three simple
text messages?



  * Get out of the "Just Be Friends Zone"


  * Jump start things with a girl who is "slipping away" (without
  coming across as desperate or needy)


  * Get a girl you just met fighting for your attention and trying
  to win you over



Well, now you can:



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Knowing about these texts is like having three GOLDEN keys that can
unlock any woman's wild attraction sensors at will.

You don't ever have to stare at your smart phone struggling with
"writer's block" ever again.

Take it from one of the smartest guys in the world of dating and
seduction advice...he's right on the money here:



http://www.scotrecommends.com/magneticmessaging



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MAKING WOMEN FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH YOU


Since you read these newsletters and probably have torn through
some of my programs already, I trust that you realize that if a
woman feels pressured, freaked out or even creeped out you're going
to get NOWHERE with her.

Yep...you would think that goes without saying.

Still, it boggles my noggin to see other guys go about meeting
women in a way that clearly advertises that they're either clueless
or stubborn.

By that I mean they either have no social skill whatsoever and/or
they're so desperate for some "action" that they keep doing what
they already KNOW doesn't work...somehow expecting different results
than they've always gotten.

That's Einstein's definition of insanity, right?

What's up with a guy like that?  Clearly, if a woman's trying to
squirm her way out of interacting with him the way that cat does in
the old "Pepe LePew" cartoons, you'd think he'd change course.

You'd think he'd back off a bit.  Tone down the high-pressure
stuff.  Maybe quit trying to paw women up the split second he meets
them.  Stop being so self-absorbed and sex-focused and take the
time to take a real interest in the real woman who is in front of
him.

Yet, the madness continues.  And honestly, some of the other
information available out there doesn't exactly help matters.

For example, I always get a kick out of men's dating advice that
refers to women as inanimate objects (e.g. "that" instead of "who")
and groups of women as "sets".  It's as if they're "objectives"
rather than living, breathing human beings.

So it follows logically that women don't respond well to being
treated as such any more than YOU would if forced to sit through,
say, a heavy-duty pitch for some timeshare.

Certainly, one of the very FIRST things a guy should truly learn
when he decides he's going to get better with women is how not to
make them fear for their personal security when interacting with
them.

That's truly step one to making them feel safe and comfortable
with you.

After all, one of the "big four" traits that attracts high quality
women is making them feel safe and comfortable in one's presence.
Pretty elementary.

But here's a twist that you may never have thought about.

Sure...it's altogether probable that you've figured out how to give a
woman the impression that you're not out to physically harm her in
some way.  Great job.

Now here's the part that almost ALL guys overlook.

When you get right down to it, "safety and security" is an overall
FEELING a woman gets...and you're either inspiring confidence or
you're not.

So then, the only conclusion to draw is that if you're doing
ANYTHING at all that makes her feel LESS than completely at ease,
you're shooting yourself in the foot--even if you don't really mean
her any harm.

Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about here.

Remember that women are hardwired to FOLLOW your lead.  That means
that whatever direction you're taking things, she's going to come
along for the ride.

Therefore, if you're nervous and obsessed over not screwing up,
she's going to follow suit by feeling nervous herself and waiting
on pins and needles for the inevitable screw up on your part.

Further, if you have zero confidence in your ability to talk to
her, let alone attract her, then she's going to have zero
confidence in YOU.

That's right...she's simply feeling the way YOU do.  That's human
nature, really...it's not even gender specific. 

If you've ever been to "amateur night" at a comedy club and felt
the pain of someone up on stage who was clearly growing more and
more nervous and frustrated after each attempted joke that "bombs",
then you know exactly what I mean.

So speaking of bombs, let me drop one on you here:  Making a woman
feel YOUR discomfort is every bit as detrimental to your potential
success with her as threatening her in some overt way.

The weird psychology behind this is such that if you are nervous,
low on confidence or even following HER lead in a feeble attempt to
kowtow to her, she's going to instinctively believe you are
INCAPABLE of protecting her.

Men who come off as protectors make women horny.  Men who lack the
courage and/or confidence necessary to keep her safe do not.  

There's a certain feeling women get one way or another.  Making her
feel like you can't protect her is JUST AS BAD as making her feel
like you're dangerous personally. 

It's the same emotion.

Welcome to why failing to project comfort and security onto your
interactions with women is so fully and predictably devastating to
attraction.  And the pattern is sure to repeat itself as long as
you let it go on.

What's it going to be?  Can you put yourself at ease when talking
to a woman, knowing that it'll make her feel more comfortable in
your presence and therefore inspire her to be more attracted to you?

 

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