[X&Y] What To Do If You're Just Not Getting Any Women (It's Time I Told You This)
Published: Thu, 12/18/14
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IN THIS EDITION: Want to know why some "average" guys have
an amazing woman in their life while most do not? The answer just might shock you...
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IT'S TIME I TOLD YOU WHY SOME AVERAGE GUYS GET AMAZING WOMEN
Here's something I've never told anyone before.
Back in late 2004 there was ONE, definable moment where I looked
in the mirror and told myself that I had had ENOUGH of myown ridiculous attitude toward dating and attraction.
Until then I had been content to believe that I'd "slowly but
surely" get around to having a woman in my life who I REALLY
wanted...somehow.
But the "lightning bolt" came when a very average woman told me,
"you're a NICE guy" with a decidedly motherly tone...as I dropped
her off at her house for the LAST time.
From that day forward, I was going to be bolder. I was going
to take action...whether that meant asking women out, going for
the kiss, or whatever..
I invested in the tools I needed to get it together, and I
committed to turning things around.
And guess what? It worked.
And it worked FAST, actually.
By mid-2005 I had the five or six hottest women I knew at the
time calling ME, purring preposterous things over the phone.
One would call shortly after my alarm clock went off wanting
to come over and make me breakfast.
Later, another would call me from work wanting to skip lunch
and come over to my place instead.
THEN, yet another wanted to drop by at 10pm and crawl into
bed with me because she was "cold".The crazy part? I usually had to TURN THEM DOWN because I was
already busy with one of the other two or three...who were at
least equally smart, fun and sexy.
All this went on despite me being a pretty regular guy, and
it all was happening within just a few short months of that
fateful day I looked myself in the eye and made the necessary
change.
Why am I telling you this?
Only to drive home the point that it all happened because of
a SIMPLE DECISION that I made. I decided to SHOW UP, and
actually ASK women out...the women I REALLY wanted.
To be honest, in the moment I didn't have ANY IDEA how powerful
that ONE decision would prove to be.
But the thing is, that's a decision that virtually ZERO guys ever
get around to stepping up and making.
Nevertheless, I'd highly encourage YOU to make it.
Just this morning I got an e-mail question from a guy who
asked a very poignant question.Apparently he's noticed that it's not necessarily true that
"jerks get all the women" OR that "prettyboys with lots of
money get all the women".
In fact, he knows his fair share of VERY AVERAGE men who have
INCREDIBLE wives and girlfriends.
One in particular, he noted, was decidedly clingy and even a
bit pushy when he first met the woman he's now about to marry.
Yet, she gave him a fair chance and he figured out what he
needed to do to keep her around.
In other words, he MESSED UP some after he met her...and it
still worked out okay in the end.
What, then, is the ONLY real, verifiable difference between
that guy and the other men who either settle for women who
they're embarrassed to be with or who are altogether dateless?You got it: They actually APPROACHED the woman they really
wanted and asked them out.
They sacked up and they DID what they had to do up front.
The bottom line? Most men NEVER, EVER get over the fear of
"rejection" and/or "bothering" women.
And they pay richly in the form of loneliness and dejection.
When it comes to having the right woman in your life, the old
adage "90% of success is just showing up" really is true.
Interestingly, that quote is from Woody Allen...a VERY average
looking guy who's had his share of hotties who were crazy about
him.
Go figure.
Believe it or not, 2015 is almost here.
Can you--or WILL you--look in the mirror and make the pledge
to yourself and the women who are waiting for you to "show
up" this coming year?
Will you APPROACH them and MEET them? Will you get their
number and ASK THEM OUT?
You CAN do this. And you SHOULD. It's either that or things
will stay exactly the way they are, and that can't be an option.
So yes, as I announced yesterday I've got everything you need
to wrap a real, tangible PLAN around your decision so that you'll
have that other all-important 10% of the "success equation"
working in your favor also.
For another 24 hours ONLY I'm going to GIVE YOU my Online Dating
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That's right, it's the return of my always popular 2-for-1 deal
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MORE WOMEN.
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You'll even get my best secrets to igniting femininity AND
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It's truly a "one stop" solution for getting more women in
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You don't have to use a coupon code or jump through any
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order page.
Take the bold step to change EVERYTHING for the better and finally
get the women you REALLY want, for a change. Here's that link
again:
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. This is my most popular 2-for-1 for a SOLID reason. These
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get prove that.
It's been a while since I ran it, and it will be a while before
it comes around again. Be sure to take full advantage before
the deal expires tomorrow night.
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