[X&Y] What Guys Who AREN'T Into Online Dating Can Learn From Online Dating Sites
Published: Tue, 03/17/15
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IN THIS EDITION: Wait until you find out what guys who don't do
online dating can learn from online dating sites. =====
EDGY, OUTRAGEOUS AND PROBABLY BANNED IN 40 COUNTRIES
OK, let's be realistic. I've got to start warning you guys before
I send you something like this:
The fact of the matter is that last time there were some complaints
from a select, unsuspecting few of you who opened that link at work.
It is decidedly NOT "safe for work". And if you live in a
country where this sort of thing is NOT allowed, I feel your
pain...but I don't want to get you arrested either.
As such, some of you should definitely NOT click that link.
But if you can somehow hold off until you get home to unleash
your curiosity, you WILL be richly rewarded:
Inexplicably, some guys STILL (after all these years) are able
to somehow ignore this stuff. But the rest of us reap the
blissful benefits of it night after night...
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IF YOU HAVE ZERO INTEREST IN ONLINE DATING, READ THIS
First of all, definitely relax and take a deep breath.
If I've figured out ANYTHING over the past ten years of doing
this, it's that I'm NEVER going to succeed at talking guys into
trying online dating if they're dead set against it.
So no, I'm absolutely not about to pitch that to you.
BUT...I really do believe that you should get a username on OKCupid
or Match.com anyway, just for ONE really, really good reason.
That would be because you would gain a WHOLE lot from running a
search for the kind of woman you like and reading through a bunch
of their profiles.
Why is that?
Simple. Even if you have zero interest in online dating, it's
immensely valuable to surf women's profiles and see the patterns of
what they're looking for in men.
My experience tells me they tend to say EXACTLY what they mean and
tell us EXACTLY who they're looking for.
I kid you not...it's the next best thing to going out with 100 women
in a row in order to gain a better perspective on understanding
women and thereby doing a better job deserving what you want.
Except this "short cut" I'm offering you is far and away less
time-consuming. You can burn about an hour and get enough
information to make you significantly better with women
immediately...no matter where you're meeting them.
Heck, this will help you immensely even if you have a steady
girlfriend.
And yes, you really will see clear PATTERNS as you skim through
more and more women's profiles.
Not surprisingly, you're sure to find plenty of evidence that there
really is something to all of this "big four" stuff I harp on
constantly.
You'll read how women all seem to be wondering where all the "real
men" are nowadays.
They'll talk about feeling safe and comfortable.
They'll go on and on about how they love to feel like a woman AND
make their guy feel like a man.
Some will be openly playful...while others will come off scared and
cynical.
But just as I've said, you WILL see patterns. You'll see them over
and over and over.
And you see, it's in those oft-repeated patterns where you'll find
the kernel of TRUTH about what women really want in a man.
You don't have to take one woman's potentially squirrely word for
it. Where there's smoke there's a flame, and when different women
REPEAT the same general themes, you can take them seriously.
From there, you simply make sure YOU are that type of guy...and then
enjoy the rich benefits of getting nearly any woman you want to
want you.
Oddly, you'll have very little competition.
And that's perhaps related to the simple fact that hardly any guys
ever take the time to really STUDY patterns in women's online
profiles like you have.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If you encounter more than a few profiles while you're at it
that inspire you to actually write to the women responsible for
them, I promise not to say "I told you so".
P.P.S. May the "luck o' the Irish" be with you tonight as you
meet women...although "luck" has nothing to do with it!
Enjoy St. Patrick's Day, and definitely have a Guinness to
celebrate.
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