[X&Y] "I Don't Love You Anymore, Therefore You Must Be A Cheater"

Published: Thu, 03/05/15



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"I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE, THEREFORE YOU MUST BE A CHEATER"


The following story is true.  The names have been changed to
protect the innocent.  

But there isn't anything that's going to protect YOU from the very
same thing happening in YOUR life unless you deserve what you want
and put to an end any mindset whatsoever that would cause you to
"settle".  

Here's the deal.

About two years ago Mike went to a bar, hopefully to meet some
women.  After throwing the proverbial "spaghetti against the wall"
to see what stuck, lo and behold he got a woman named Kelly
to talk to him.  

She gave him her number.  He called her and asked her out the
"customary" three days later.

A few weeks went by, and Kelly started bugging Mike about
becoming "exclusive".  "Make me your girlfriend or I'm outta
here!", she announced.  

After an audible wussy-boy sigh, Mike feverishly rifled through
the file cards in his head but gave in.

After all, it was way easier than going out there and trying to
meet some more women, huh?

So Mike and Kelly soldiered on a few more months.  Finally, Kelly
the inevitable:  "Hey my friend told me today that her boyfriend
her to marry him, and we've been dating longer than they have!"  

Mike was flustered and avoided the issue.  But Kelly was persistent.  

Only a couple of days passed by before she dropped the Weapon Of
Mass Destruction:  "I've had it with your non-committal attitude.  
Either I get a ring from you or I'm walking.  You have five days
to think about it."  

And so the ultimatum had been issued.  Using the exact same logic
he drew from months before, Mike showed up with a ring four days
later.  

Within two weeks they got married in Vega$.  

Only a mere thirty days went by before Mike--a military man--got
orders out to a base 1500 miles away.  

Kelly, who had a son in school, decided to wait behind for the
duration of the six month deployment rather than pick up and move
only to move back half a year from now.

Shortly thereafter, she got a call.  Mike was being sent out to
sea for 90 days, during which time any communication would be all
but impossible.

But it was only a month and a half or so before Kelly got another
surprise call from Mike.  

He had seen her Facebook post where she talked about having gone
Salsa dancing the other night.  

(Note:  If you are thinking this whole jigsaw puzzle is missing a
couple of pieces, I'm right there with you.)  

Mike was angry, branded her a "cheater" and declared that he
wanted a divorce.

Click.

So what happened here?

Well, Kelly isn't a cheater.  And furthermore, here it is:  Mike
doesn't actually think so either.   

It's just that he...well, uh...he sorta hasn't really...um...
missed her a whole lot since he has been gone.  

It isn't like he even looks at her picture much.  And he darn
skippy didn't use whatever precious Internet access time he had
to email her, let alone mix in a Skype account.  

He doesn't love her anymore.  In fact, he probably never did.  

Worse, he doesn't have the masculine strength to admit it to her,
therefore he scapegoats her with a ridiculous excuse.

How do I know all this?  Simple:  men who LOVE their cheating wives
typically respond to discovery of infidelity with hurt and denial
rather than a quick and dirty exit.  

He realized that he had SETTLED.  But make no mistake, SO HAD SHE.

This is what happens when there is no effort made to deserve what
one wants, and two people allow themselves to be okay with
accepting whomever "happens to come along".  

Both Mike and Kelly DID NOT choose each other.  

They accepted each other vis-à-vis circumstance, and once they did
both were so insecure with their own ability to deserve that they
dreaded the concept of breaking up and "starting all over" with
someone else more than they did staying together.

At least until now, when the house of cards finally collapsed.

Absolutely go out and meet some people--at a bar, club or even in
the elevator.  But be sure to deserve what you want and never,
ever "settle".  


 
 




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