[X&Y] What Guys Who Don't Do Online Dating Can Learn From Online Dating Sites
Published: Mon, 11/06/17
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IN THIS EDITION: Wait until you find out what guys who don't do
online dating can learn from online dating sites. =====
UPDATE: WHAT'S COMING UP
It's been a while since I gave you an update of what we have under
development for you at "X & Y Communications Labs".
For starters, Emily and I have begun production of our full-scale
program on how to be a great couple with a healthy, powerful
relationship.
The title of it is terrific and the topics we're going to cover will be
even better, in large part because they've come from your
suggestions.
This isn't going to be simply another "how to keep the spark alive"
bit or how to salvage a wrecked marriage.
Instead, we're going to cover how to be an AMAZING couple
from the very beginning and live the dream together. Think of it
as the logical progression from The Leading Man, which is on
building and managing relationships.
That's going to take a while to complete, obviously. But in the
meantime, I'm working on a new module for Invincible called
"The Truth They'll Never Tell You".
My goal is to reveal the secrets to success with women that
have always been too outrageous and/or too hard to believe
for most guys.
I have some ridiculous and downright unthinkable (in a good way)
content for that one already, but if you have any suggestions
for what I should cover--or what you've been wondering about--
hit "reply" and let me know.
As always, I'm have the next few episodes of The Mountain Top
in the pipeline as well. You guys loved the futurism episode, and
the next several are looking to be just as good.
And I'm working on some new coaching options too. I released
"blind spot" coaching last month, and I'm now working on a plan
where you can have me "on call" for you.
As always, if you'd like to get on the phone with me for 25 minutes
to talk about where you and where you'd like to be, I'm available
to you. That call won't cost you a dime. You'll find I'm a down-to-
earth guy, and exactly who you'd expect I'll be:
Set Up A Time
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IF YOU HAVE ZERO INTEREST IN ONLINE DATING, READ THIS
First of all, definitely relax and take a deep breath.
If I've figured out anything over the past twelve years of doing
this, it's that I'm never going to succeed at talking guys into
trying online dating if they're dead set against it.
So no, I'm absolutely not about to pitch that to you.
BUT...I really do believe that you should get a username on OKCupid
or Match.com anyway, just for ONE really, really good reason.
That would be because you would gain a whole lot from running a
search for the kind of woman you like and reading through a bunch
of their profiles.
Why is that?
Simple. Even if you have zero interest in online dating, it's
immensely valuable to surf women's profiles and see the patterns of
what they're looking for in men.
My experience tells me they tend to say exactly what they mean
and tell us exactly who they're looking for.
I kid you not...it's the next best thing to going out with 100 women
in a row in order to gain a better perspective on understanding
women and thereby doing a better job deserving what you want.
Except this short cut I'm offering you is far and away less
time-consuming. You can burn about an hour and get enough
information to make you significantly better with women
immediately...no matter where you're meeting them.
Actually, this will help you immensely even if you already have a
steady girlfriend.
And yes, you really will see clear patterns as you skim through
more and more women's profiles.
Not surprisingly, you're sure to find plenty of evidence that there
really is something to all of this "big four" stuff I harp on
constantly.
You'll read how women all seem to be wondering where all the "real
men" are nowadays.
They'll talk about feeling safe and comfortable.
They'll say they find confidence sexy.
They'll go on and on about how they love to feel like a woman AND
make their guy feel like a man.
Some will be openly playful, while others will come off scared and
cynical.
But just as I've said, you WILL see patterns. You'll see them over
and over and over.
And you see, it's in those oft-repeated patterns where you'll find
the kernel of TRUTH about what women really want in a man.
You don't have to take one woman's potentially squirrely word for
it. Where there's smoke there's a flame, and when different women
repeat the same general themes, you can take them seriously.
From there, you simply make sure YOU are that type of guy...and
then enjoy the rich benefits of getting nearly any woman you want to
want you.
Oddly, you'll have very little competition.
And that's perhaps related to the simple fact that hardly any guys
ever take the time to really study patterns in women's online
profiles like you have.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
P.S. If you encounter more than a few profiles while you're at it
that inspire you to actually write to the women responsible for
them, I promise not to say "I told you so".
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