[X&Y] 5 Important Steps If You Didn't Meet Any Women Last Night

Published: Sun, 12/31/17


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IN THIS EDITION:  It's Sunday.  And it's a long New Year's
weekend.  Did you go out last night?  If  so, how did it go with
the ladies?  If your answer isn't resoundingly positive, read on...
I've got some practical steps for you.

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YOUR "MORNING AFTER" SURVIVAL KIT


Alright, you know I'm not a doctor.  So this isn't going to be
about how to get over a hangover.

At least not the kind that's caused by guzzling too many brewskis
or "Jager Bombs" the night before, that is.

BUT...it is indeed Sunday morning for most of you reading this.

And if you went out on the town last night with the goal of meeting
some women but came up empty handed, I fully understand if you
were still sick to your stomach about it this morning and your head
was spinning.

You could argue that THAT kind of "hangover" is even worse than the
the alcohol-induced type.  After all, you're disgusted in about every
way possible...physically, emotionally, even your very soul is suffering.

If you've been moping around your apartment all day feeling sorry
for yourself and playing video games, you're most likely going to be
no better off tonight than you are right now.

And what's worse, that can only mean your "mojo" stands about zero
chance of improving.

Well, here's some "hair of the dog" for you.  

Yes, you've got another night out ahead of you.  And it's a BIG one.

You've got to embark upon your New Year's Eve adventure with a full
tank rather than running on fumes.

Here are five great ways to get out of the "morning after" funk you're
in this morning and kick its carcass to the curb:


 
1)  Get Cleaned Up And Look Sharp


The first order of business when you feel like you've been less
than successful with MOTOS (members of the other sex) the night
before is to give your sense of self-respect the quickest and
easiest "jolt" possible.

So go ahead.  Take a long hot shower, shave, and get your act
together ASAP.

It's hard to stay lazy and let "analysis paralysis" get the best of you
when you're refreshed.  Don't let yourself slum around all day.

And while you're at it, pick something killer out of the closet and
look good today.  Either that or put on your hiking or biking gear.

It's hard to stay cooped up at home all day when you're all
dressed and ready to leave.


 
2)  Get Out Of The House


I sort of telegraphed this one, huh?

But yeah, man.  Go hit the trails.  Go hit the batting cage.  Get
your blood flowing doing something active that you LIKE doing.

Heck, do ANYTHING that involves getting out of the house.

Staying hidden in your cave can only work against your psyche.
You won't believe the psychological effect just getting outside has
on you.


 
3)  Hit The Gym


Sure, this still falls under the classification of getting out of
the house, but with a decidedly different twist that sets it apart.

When you go to the gym, you're making a conscious decision to
believe in yourself and improve yourself.

What's more, if you make your workout a good strenuous one you'll
release endorphins that'll give you a welcome and much-needed
natural high.  Sweet.

Oh...and there are usually a bunch of women there who are "well fit",
as y'all in the UK like to say.  

And guess what, troops?  If they are there on a Saturday afternoon
with you, you can pretty much bet that don't have some guy to
spend the day with. 

Just use some logic there...and go introduce yourself once you're
feeling that lift to your overall state of mind.


 
4)  Run Every Possible Errand You Can Think Of


After you've gotten some physical exercise and are already feeling
somewhat better, it's a great idea to knock out that "to do" list.

Not only will being productive feel better than doing absolutely
nothing, but if you run this right you are going to have the opportunity
to meet lots of women,assuming you allow yourself to.

The supermarket is a great choice.

Meanwhile, if your bank is anything like mine then it's plainly
obvious that some guy with really good taste hires all the tellers.
Go deposit your paycheck and make conversation.

In case you're not getting the larger, more meaningful message here
there are other places to meet amazing women than at a bar or club
on a Friday or Saturday night.

Start training your brain TODAY to see every moment of every day
as possibly holding the legit opportunity to meet women.


 
5)  Get Online


If you've got a profile on Match.com or OKCupid and are NOT
writing to women today then you're blowing what could be the most
GOLDEN opportunity of all to blast through being bummed out by
last night.

In fact, this fifth suggestion really is the true "silver bullet" in the
whole list.

When you log in to your dating site of choice, do a quick search
for women who are "online now"...as in right then and there.

From there, let your fingers do the typing. 

There's no need to mention how badly last night went for you when
writing them.  Save it and focus on having a positive, lightweight
attitude instead. 

Be a man who leads women to be playful and fun.  Don't be a downer,
as tempting as it may be to slip in that direction

Just sit back, relax and revel in the thought that obviously the
women whose profiles land in your search are not feeling too solid
about their own dating lives this weekend either.

Oh...and don't kid yourself.  You'll be amazed by the hotties who are
online this afternoon right there with you.  Dating frustration is
"equal opportunity", regardless of how high quality you and/or the
women you might meet are.



Now that I've shared that list with you, I'm going to admit to you
point-blank that every one of the action items on it probably
occurred to you as common sense.

I'm not all that worried about that.

After all, if you're still reading this that can only mean you're not
exactly doing any of them just yet.

So yeah, man...even if you've actually gone your entire life thus far
never putting any of what I've just offered to the test, go for it.
 
Ultimately, you've got to get out from behind the computer and go
get 'em.


 
 




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