{X&Y] 5 Things Guys Say When They're Terrible In Bed (And Women Know It)
Published: Sat, 01/06/18
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5 DEAD GIVEAWAYS THAT A GUY IS TERRIBLE IN BED
Most men are crazy bad at sex, much to the chagrin of perfectly
horny and eager women everywhere.
Worse, they don't even realize it.
I have something that's sort of scary to admit to you.
I've actually kept it a secret for quite a while because the right
time has never really come up to say it.
But here it is...
After ten years of coaching, I can tell exactly which guys are
seriously lacking in bedroom skills by how they talk.
And the crazy part is they don't even realize what they're
revealing.
Here are five stunningly trustworthy signs:
1) He uses phrases like "seal the deal"
This betrays a belief system that sees the sex act as the
focus in and of itself, and the woman as merely a means to
an end.
For what it's worth, salespeople with a similar mindset
toward "prospects" and commission are usually not crushing
it out there either.
2) Macho talk about how little they care about women...or
even about sex, for that matter
I once heard a guy say out loud, "Yeah, put a bag over their
head [sic] and bend 'em over and they're all the same."
Of course, such a statement is breathtakingly ignorant at
every level, even physiologically.
The truly terrifying part is the raw lack of sexual experience
the guy was wearing on his sleeve, all the while thinking he
was looking cool.
3) "Everyone knows that p-o-r-n is nothing like real sex"
This depends on what you're watching, of course. Some of
it is unrealistic, while there's no denying a lot of it is outside
of what most people fantasize about.
But the most popular adult content out there (look it up on
Alexa) is focused on reasonably attractive, sexy people
really giving it to each other good.
Sorry to burst anyone's bubble, but those wild, screaming,
dirty talking, long-lasting, multiple-O, sex kitten shenanigans
really do happen, and it's often a lot like how it looks on video.
But that's only the case if you make it happen, and only if
she's loving every minute of it.
4) "Women don't like sex."
I've come to the conclusion that men who repeat this
limiting belief might not always want to have their minds
changed.
The truth would be too much of a hit to their ego at this point.
The tragic part is that flipping that one simple mindset
around is absolutely key to seeing one's sexual reality
follow suit.
And the killer...
5) "I've never had any complaints"
Few women have the heart to openly blast your sexual
skill before your very eyes.
If they say nothing, or give decidedly tacit approval to
the "adequate" Woody Allen sex the two of you just had,
that probably means it wasn't exactly a mind-numbing,
toe-curling experience.
When it's good, she's clearly into it. I'd dare say shy,
introverted or even angry women can't simply lay there
during amazing sex.
If it's great, it's obvious.
And afterward, she's glowing, giggling and going on
nonstop about how incredible you are.
Then she goes on nonstop to her friends, but only
on those rare occasions when she's not back at your
place for more.
Okay gentlemen... I fully realize I'd better put my fire suit
on because the e-mails are about to explode my inbox.
I'm about to hear lots of protests.
Some of you are going to need to protest.
After all, the alternative to my being wrong about this
is more than some can bear, especially if they've gone
around talking as I've described proudly over the years.
But seriously, though. I'm on point here.
It's important to know that nearly 100% of all men miss
out on great sex. This is definitely one of those cases
where proclaiming "tens of millions of men can't be wrong"
is pure rubbish.
Oh yes they can.
And the few who are right probably aren't about to let the
masses in on their secrets.
But there's good news. I've got your back.
Yes, I've certainly been guilty in the past of making my
own life more difficult than it ever had to be.
But I turned it all around...in grand fashion. It was as if a
veil had been lifted.
That's why I put so much time, energy and passion into
Behind Closed Doors.
It's the program that turns mere mortal men into verifiable
super heroes in the bedroom:
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Most men will never know what mind-blowing sex is
really like.
They'll never take a woman to the moon and back on
a rising tide of multiple orgasms.
In fact, they won't even have the right woman in their
lives to begin with.
Be one of the few and the proud (and the satisfied).
Behind Closed Doors gives you every bit of what you
need to make great sex happen...from this day forward:
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