[X&Y] 3 Good Reasons Why We're All Glad Valentine's Day Is Over
Published: Thu, 02/15/18
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couldn't have cared less about participating in the "festivities", then there
are plenty of reasons to celebrate February 15th instead.
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3 GOOD REASONS WHY WE'RE ALL GLAD VALENTINE'S DAY
IS OVER
IS OVER
When I was at the peak of my online dating action, I was floored by
how women would become much more direct around Valentine's Day.
For starters, I'd get more messages from women than usual.
Then, women who had dropped off the map would suddenly write or
call out of nowhere. You know, just to "say 'hey' and 'catch up'".
These days they call that "zombie-ing".
And women I wrote to would not only respond even more often than
usual, they wanted to cut to the chase more quickly, too.
It wasn't at all uncommon for women to push right past the e-mail
phase and lengthy phone conversations. They just wanted to
maximize their chances at meeting a guy and hopefully not be
left sitting home alone on Valentine's Day.
And mind you, these women were often the particularly attractive
ones. The self-imposed pressure, ironically enough, seemed to be
even higher the hotter the women were.
Seriously...I can tell you with a straight face that almost everyone
feels more stress due to Valentine's Day than they do joy.
Now don't get me wrong. If you had this amazing "pleasure dome"
experience last night with a terrific woman you adore, that's great.
But if that indeed describes your reality, know this: You're in a
slim minority.
Overwhelmingly, for most people Valentine's Day sucks...and it's
almost as if by design, weirdly enough.
I mean, let's assume for a second that as a guy Valentine's Day
actually meets the expectations presented in those diamond
commercials seen everywhere this time of year.
Then what? At best, you've only groveled to a chick by trying to
buy her affection, only in hopes of getting a "kiss" at the end.
What is up with every single jewelry commercial? They all
invariably pitch the idea of spending big money on a trinket, all for
the sake of somehow getting your own wife or girlfriend to actually
kiss you, for once.
I'm telling you, if you know the first rule about advertising there
can only be one reason every single jewelry store chain cuts their
commercials from the same pattern: It sells.
That's right. Encouraging men to be pathetic is a very lucrative
venture these days, obviously.
So I've made my point. Even when it all goes exactly as expected
Valentine's Day is painful to watch, let alone experience.
Well, thankfully all of the annual V-Day hoopla is now officially
gone for another year.
But see, that's where the good news shines through.
Ah yes...the week or so after Valentine's Day is arguably the most
primo opportunity you are going to get all year long to get dates
with amazing women.
Why? Here are three straightforward reasons:
1) If Valentine's Day Didn't Go Well For Women, They're Bummed
Assuming a woman even had a date on Valentine's Day, there are no
guarantees it was a fairy tale. And let me level with you...a lot of
really sharp women are left stone cold dateless on February 14th.
For any single woman who didn't get a date for Valentine's Day, the
weight is immense. They feel left out...like they missed out.
It's FOMO City, USA.
Let's just call it like it is: they feel forgotten.
This means they are going to be all about getting rid of that pain.
Nothing would hit the spot better than meeting a great guy--when
she least expects it. That would be, oh, around February 15th or
shortly thereafter.
Hey, that's TODAY.
Which brings us to the second point...
2) The Holiday Pressure Is Over
Think of it. By definition, there's no longer any pressure to
throw money at the Valentine's Day problem once February 15th rolls
around, is there? All you've got is "blue sky"...room to be casual
and just let "chance meetings" happen.
There's no agenda, no jewelry commercial blitz, no sweat, no strain.
The "movie moment" when you meet her can finally be about just YOU
and HER...and that's exactly how she likes it, to be honest.
3) All Of Your Alleged "Competition" Is Probably Burned Out
Ha...that's an understatement. Any average, typical dude who's been
chasing dates (unsuccessfully) with a vengeance for the first half
of February is straight up crispy...like toast.
In this culture nowadays, that would include most guys. Let's face
it. Most of us have been brainwashed into thinking that the time
leading up to Valentine's Day is "go time" (and in many ways it is).
So if the women are frustrated and disgusted after the dust clears,
imagine those guys.
But stop and think about it. Women always want a man who takes the
lead in approaching and asking them out, but as of February 15th
just about every guy is going to be fed up and needing a breather.
As if by magic, the scenario suddenly becomes one where women are
practically dying to be asked out...and virtually zero of the guys
are on point.
See the forest for the trees here, and you could end up with some
amazing opportunities.
Seriously, guys. You should have a big, knowing smile on your face
today.
today.
It's time for YOU to step up and be that very guy women feel like
they've missed out on so far this month.
I couldn't be more serious about what I'm saying here. This isn't
"hype" at all. It's just the way it is.
Be Good (or should I say "Love"),
Scot McKay
P.S. Needless to say, online dating can be your best "wingman"
for the next few weeks:
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